Bhruic
Posts: 985
Joined: 4/11/2012 From: Toronto, Canada Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: daddeesgurl1 What would make a good question list for potential Daddy? I was asked to make a list of questions to see if he would be a good match for me. I feel I've asked at least the basics (vanilla everyday stuff, experience, expectations, respecting limits), but I'm enjoying his push to know more. Unique. Essentially you are asking strangers to help you make a list of things you want. Obviously they can't do that. And surely you know what you want, or at least what you think you might want. People ask questions like yours often on this site. My feeling is that they do so because they know what they want, but feel shame around it, or fear revealing their kinks to others. So you ask a vague question in hopes that people will suggest the very things you want, so you don't have to take the full responsibility for wanting them. Its not necessarily wrong. None of us likes to feel alone in our kinks... but its healthier to own it.
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