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ORIGINAL: dink22

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

and, as has been pointed out, there is nothing to stop pro/fins from not stating that they are. USE YOUR COMMON SENSE, FFS!! If it seems to good to be true, chances are slanted to it BEING too good to be true.

if you haven't got the sense to not read too much into something without meeting face to face, whose fault is that?

And, as stated, that's the whole idea of letting the sub males notify CM that a lifestyle profile isn't really lifestyle. If they can screen inappropriate photos --because a user notifies them that it's inappropriate-- they can screen inappropriate profiles --if a user notifies them that it's inappropriate. They would only make the final decision. You need to read my post again. It's really NOT that hard of a concept to understand.

Secondly, nobody is "reading too much" into a profile before meeting face to face. That was a projection on your part. What I said is that it's frustrating to WASTE your time, sometimes hours, trying to get that face-to-face meeting only to find out it was a scam all along. And there's a simple solution to it.

What you don't seem to get is that you are trying to regulate someone else's kink. Man up...pull up your big boy pants, and just block and delete those that you have no interest in.

It's a free site ffs. What you are demanding costs man hours....if you don't like how it is run, demand a fucking refund and close your account. No skin off our nose.

Most lifestyle dommes have absolutely no use for a whiny asshat. If you don't think the lifestylers will look at your forum posts, then you underestimate them.

Thanks for giving a great example of the kind of insulting response I told the OP he could expect. It seems to me YOU are the whiny asshat, intolerant of someone who proposes a perfectly reasonable solution to a long-standing CM problem. And you know what? Man hours? Tell you what: I'll do it for FREE. I'd rather spend my "man hours" helping to weed out the money types, which would not be a waste of time, than hours spent trying to build a connection with a phony. At least the former would have a satisfying payoff.

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As far as trying to find a REAL dom chick, this place has become almost totally worthless. Every morning when I check the new profiles, 98 percent are either fin dommes, scam dommes or pro dommes HOw about quit looking at the NEW profiles?. Many subs have asked that CM at least divide profiles between those looking for money and those looking for a genuine lifestyle.

They simply won't do it, and their apologists keep coming up with lame excuses like, "what's to stop a fin domme or scam domme from listing as a lifestyle domme?" The REALLY OBVIOUS answer is the sub males who read the profile and/or contact the person and figure that out. If you can report a photo as being inappropriate or wrong in some way, why can't you do that on a profile?[/b] You can[/b]. Surely CM can read the profile or read the response the person gave you and figure out the profile doesn't belong under lifestyle dommes.

Simple. But I guess they figure they'd rather encourage the bullshit because it drives traffic to the site, and that traffic means money.

Hey, CM is free. I realize that. But it has kind of morphed from being an "adult" site to being a "porn" site.

BTW, you'll no doubt get responses from people (almost entirely females) who say they're tired of hearing about it, that the issue comes up all the time. Big sighs, lots of sarcasm. And they'll throw a few insults in there too. Ignore it. These people are part of the problem. If they're really tired of hearing about it, then they should support separating the money and lifestyle profiles.

Oh, and BTW, if someone is a "pro" domme but also a lifestyle domme, they could have two different profiles. And many do.That's fine. Solutions are simple. There is almost NEVER a "PERFECT" solution for anything. What's exasperating is when you have people who think that, gee, since we can't have a perfect solution, it's silly to talk about any solution at all, even a solution that could make things considerably better.

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ORIGINAL: dink22

And, as stated, that's the whole idea of letting the sub males notify CM that a lifestyle profile isn't really lifestyle. If they can screen inappropriate photos --because a user notifies them that it's inappropriate-- they can screen inappropriate profiles --if a user notifies them that it's inappropriate. They would only make the final decision. You need to read my post again. It's really NOT that hard of a concept to understand.

Secondly, nobody is "reading too much" into a profile before meeting face to face. That was a projection on your part. What I said is that it's frustrating to WASTE your time, sometimes hours, trying to get that face-to-face meeting only to find out it was a scam all along. And there's a simple solution to it.

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ORIGINAL: dink22

Thanks for giving a great example of the kind of insulting response I told the OP he could expect. It seems to me YOU are the whiny asshat, intolerant of someone who proposes a perfectly reasonable solution to a long-standing CM problem. And you know what? Man hours? Tell you what: I'll do it for FREE. I'd rather spend my "man hours" helping to weed out the money types, which would not be a waste of time, than hours spent trying to build a connection with a phony. At least the former would have a satisfying payoff.

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Um, searching4mysir, I don't think the missle made contact. 'nuff said.

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ORIGINAL: houseboyforu2

I am not sure if this is simply limited to the Michigan area, but I have seen a disturbing trend of financial dommes popping up all over the place. What troubles me more is that there is an eerie similarity to all of these profiles. I have emailed a few and gotten very similar responses. In one case two different dommes had exactly the same items on their Amazon wishlists.

I realize that this site is full of fake profiles but this seems to be taking it down another direction towards borderline fraudulent behavior. Is there anyway to report these people or at least look into further.

As far as trying to find a REAL dom chick, this place has become almost totally worthless. Every morning when I check the new profiles, 98 percent are either fin dommes, scam dommes or pro dommes. Many subs have asked that CM at least divide profiles between those looking for money and those looking for a genuine lifestyle.

They simply won't do it, and their apologists keep coming up with lame excuses like, "what's to stop a fin domme or scam domme from listing as a lifestyle domme?" The REALLY OBVIOUS answer is the sub males who read the profile and/or contact the person and figure that out. If you can report a photo as being inappropriate or wrong in some way, why can't you do that on a profile? Surely CM can read the profile or read the response the person gave you and figure out the profile doesn't belong under lifestyle dommes.

Simple. But I guess they figure they'd rather encourage the bullshit because it drives traffic to the site, and that traffic means money.

Hey, CM is free. I realize that. But it has kind of morphed from being an "adult" site to being a "porn" site.

BTW, you'll no doubt get responses from people (almost entirely females) who say they're tired of hearing about it, that the issue comes up all the time. Big sighs, lots of sarcasm. And they'll throw a few insults in there too. Ignore it. These people are part of the problem. If they're really tired of hearing about it, then they should support separating the money and lifestyle profiles.

Oh, and BTW, if someone is a "pro" domme but also a lifestyle domme, they could have two different profiles. That's fine. Solutions are simple. There is almost NEVER a "PERFECT" solution for anything. What's exasperating is when you have people who think that, gee, since we can't have a perfect solution, it's silly to talk about any solution at all, even a solution that could make things considerably better.

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ORIGINAL: dink22

You know what? You guys should just ignore every point I made. You're going to anyway, to make yourselves feel better, and I'd like to contribute to that. So let me just say: YOU'RE RIGHT!!!! EVERYTHING I SAID WAS WRONG, STUPID AND BENEATH YOU. IT WAS DEVOID OF LOGIC!!!!!

But now that I have your guidance (NONE of you being submissive heterosexual males of course), I see the ERROR of my ways.

GOOD LORD YOU GUYS RRRAWWWKKK!!!!!

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ORIGINAL: stef

Come on now, what do you expect? His first post here was to whine about the dommes who he thinks are "looking for EXACTLY someone like me" who didn't think enough of his emails to reply. Doesn't look like anything has changed much for him since 2005, and that's just plain sad.

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ORIGINAL: stef

Come on now, what do you expect? His first post here was to whine about the dommes who he thinks are "looking for EXACTLY someone like me" who didn't think enough of his emails to reply. Doesn't look like anything has changed much for him since 2005, and that's just plain sad.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Oh Lana, have you not met our "about once every three month whiner about anything pro Domme"? Meet Dink, he is a real charmer. He also knows more about your life, than you do. :)

Also there should be "like" buttons for these posts like FB has, because Bella's was great!!

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ORIGINAL: dink22

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Come on now, what do you expect? His first post here was to whine about the dommes who he thinks are "looking for EXACTLY someone like me" who didn't think enough of his emails to reply. Doesn't look like anything has changed much for him since 2005, and that's just plain sad.

Are you really that stupid? That was my FIRST POST?? You people are dishonest.