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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 10:04:51 AM   
JeffBC


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Being dominant or alpha has zero to do with having personal integrity.

Yeah fair enough. Yes, it's possible to be both dominant and an asshat.

perhaps what I should've said was, "Is this how the dominant of your dreams behaves?"

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 10:08:41 AM   
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Any insights into my situation would be most appreciated.

It's up to you (not us) to decide if you should feel offended, upset, angry, or any other emotion.
If you think the person in question broke the rules or did something illegal, notify the appropriate people.

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 10:16:42 AM   
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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 10:55:19 AM   
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Do not let an idiot get you down.
Ignore
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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 11:26:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Char2688

OP
Do not let an idiot get you down.
Ignore
Remember, if you argue with an idiot, people watching cannot tell who is who


Char2688, You just kill me!!! hahaha. Are You an aries BTW? You remind me of myself, ready to do battle all the time. HIGH FIVE GIRL! You have an edge.

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 11:41:50 AM   
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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 11:42:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

it's some twat trying to get you to show yourself naked on cam. ignore, block and delete.

editred to add: I'd be willing to bet that the doubter, domme and mentor are all one and the same.

this

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 11:46:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

WHy, in the name of all that is sacred, would anyone want to associate themself with you>?


Oh now, dont be jealous, You are a double edged sword. hee hee.

ANd why??? For all that is sacred, you said it yourself.

I have a fighting fetish what can i say. Shrugs, and pinches the next poster.

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 11:50:58 AM   
GreedyTop


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the second line makes no sense to me.

typical.

third line.. who the fuck cares?

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 11:52:56 AM   
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Char2688, You just kill me!!! hahaha. Are You an aries BTW? You remind me of myself, ready to do battle all the time.
HIGH FIVE GIRL! You have an edge.

He also happens to have a penis, but I'm sure he can overlook your enthusiasm.

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 11:56:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: poise


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Char2688, You just kill me!!! hahaha. Are You an aries BTW? You remind me of myself, ready to do battle all the time.
HIGH FIVE GIRL! You have an edge.

He also happens to have a penis, but I'm sure he can overlook your enthusiasm.



As usual, goes off without bothering to learn anything about the subject first.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 7/12/2012 11:57:09 AM >

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 11:58:11 AM   
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Char2688, You just kill me!!! hahaha. Are You an aries BTW? You remind me of myself, ready to do battle all the time.
HIGH FIVE GIRL! You have an edge.

He also happens to have a penis, but I'm sure he can overlook your enthusiasm.



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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 1:02:13 PM   
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He also happens to have a penis, but I'm sure he can overlook your enthusiasm.


Yet another reason why males should not use pics of females as their avatar. For more, see: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4139242/tm.htm

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 1:07:14 PM   
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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 1:07:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: poise


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Char2688, You just kill me!!! hahaha. Are You an aries BTW? You remind me of myself, ready to do battle all the time.
HIGH FIVE GIRL! You have an edge.

He also happens to have a penis, but I'm sure he can overlook your enthusiasm.


Priceless!

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 1:13:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Char - you got high fived by Chatterbox. I am jealous.


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

quote:

ORIGINAL: Char2688

OP
Do not let an idiot get you down.
Ignore
Remember, if you argue with an idiot, people watching cannot tell who is who


Char2688, You just kill me!!! hahaha. Are You an aries BTW? You remind me of myself, ready to do battle all the time. HIGH FIVE GIRL! You have an edge.



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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 1:20:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		Janah - I know it's not as exciting, but I will high five you as a consolation prize.

OP - no it's not appropriate. Then again, people mess with each other on the internet. It's a fact of life. If they make you uncomfortable, disengage from conversation.

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 1:27:34 PM   
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I do have a tendency to break rules, did not know about an avatar rule, just add one more to the long list. But, I have a good heart, I promise


It's not a rule but a mostly unsuccessful strategy as well as being confusing.

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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 1:56:01 PM   
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RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? - 7/12/2012 2:55:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GoddessxKitty
but then he asked me to turn on my cam. Thinking he simply wanted to verify my identity, I did, but then he began to ask very personal questions and complimenting me. To each question I responded "how is that relevant to my problem?" And each time this male Dom acted very huffy and condescending, saying that he was not "my plaything". When I resisted further attempts to probe into my personal life, he acted like I was the one with the problem, saying that he did not "find my manner very pleasing". I felt like this man was trying to take advantage of me, I've had enough experience with creeps to know when I am being solicited. Finally, the user who had been spreading rumors sent me a panicked email begging me not to go to the admins any more, apologizing for his "silly behavior". Then the Dom I was talking to on skype told me to "bow my head in thanks". I told him he had completely disrespected my boundaries, and that helping me with one problem did not give him licence to treat me like a potential new addition to his harem.

This is how those a lot of those online/cam Doms treat female submissives and he was treating you like one. It doesn't surprise me in the least. Also there are a number of male Doms out there that think ALL women should be subs, whether they are or not. And the online variety are famous for expecting instant submission.

Regardless of which side of the kneel you're on, you don't have to put up with that kind of disrespect. Way back when, I used to be submissive myself and had my share of those bullshitters contact me. After the first two or so, I didn't fall for their crap and they got all huffy and pissed and would take off. It was a case of good riddance to bad rubbish! haha

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