Ishtarr
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder I have had men who wanted me to and I tried a few times but to no avail. Thankfully Master doesn't seem to be bothered by it. I haven't so much had problems with men wanting me to masturbate in front of them, but I have had a lot of men have serious ego problems with the fact that I don't come from sex at all. I can't orgasm from penetration, and though I can come in under a minute flat from clitoral stimulation with a vibrator, I have yet to every come from manual or oral stimulation. So unless a guy is willing to use a vibrator, he isn't going to get me off. Ever. And for some reason there have been men that where terrible bothered by that, despite the fact that I'm not at all orgasm focussed during sex (in fact sex and masturbation/orgasming are basically two very separate things for me and when I'm in the mood for one, that is no indication whatsoever that I'll also be in the mood for the other). Thank god my husband literally doesn't care either way whether I orgasm or not. It's just something he's not interested in at all. He uses vibrators on me sometimes to get certain reactions; but even then he doesn't care if I am able to cum or not. In fact he's much more inclined to under-stimulate and make me struggle to get there, or to take away the stimulation before I've been able to cum, than he is to try and force orgasms out of me.
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