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butt plug - 10/31/2004 5:46:01 PM   
kajari


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If it pleases Masters to reply....what is the purpose of a butt plug?
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RE: butt plug - 10/31/2004 8:07:44 PM   
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Just so you know kajari, the mods will pull a duplicate thread.

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RE: butt plug - 10/31/2004 10:51:51 PM   
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::Puts in her two cents again:: From my understanding, its for stretching the muscles to make things "easier" and two also because they LIKE it. ::chuckles::

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RE: butt plug - 11/1/2004 6:46:12 AM   
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Butt Plugs

Everyone has a butthole, so everyone can enjoy the anal stimulation that butt plugs have to offer. The asshole is the site of the hot-button prostate in men, and it’s rich in erogenous nerves in both sexes. For backdoor novices, a small plug can be a great introduction to anal intercourse, while for pros, a larger plug can give satisfying fullness and give an extra kick to masturbation or sex with a partner.


What's a Butt Plug?

Butt plugs are sex toys that are specially designed to fit, and stay, in your ass. Plugs are usually cone shaped; they start slender, then widen a little – or a lot – then taper in again and widen out to a flange, or base, that secures the plug and keeps it from slipping completely into your rectum.

Start Small

The smallest butt plugs are about the size of a slender finger, which should be an easy fit for even the most butt-shy. Jelly rubber plugs are also a good bet for the beginner, since they have more “give.” Anal “training” sets are available, which include a set of increasingly larger plugs and some lube, sometimes a vibrator. The more slender a plug, however, the easier it is for it to slip out. Some of the smaller plugs are now designed with a bump or bulge in them to give the sphincter muscles something to hold on to. Other plugs are curved or crooked to better fit the contours of your inner passages and give extra prostate or G-spot stimulation. The plug should curve toward your belly button as it’s inserted.

To get accommodated to using a butt plug, first start with some lube and a finger. Use slow and gentle in-and-out probing to let the asshole used to having something in it. Once the anal muscles have relaxed and are used to the sensations caused by penetration, insert the well-lubed butt plug. Try leaving it in place for just a few minutes at first, then try increasing the length of time in subsequent sessions. Relax and get used to it, try masturbating with it in, then work up to intercourse or other sex play while wearing the plug.


Working up

For intermediate or more adventurous butt play, you may want to try a larger plug, or one built like a stack of incrementally larger balls. You or your partner can twist, bump, or work the plug in and out for extra stimulation. Sensation intensifies as the sphincter spreads open and then clenches around the base of the plug or its undulations. Some people prefer stockier or more bulb-shaped plugs.

As your comfort with your butt plug increases, you may want to incorporate it into more of your sexual activities, or simply enjoy wearing it by itself. Some people like to keep a butt plug inserted prior to anal sex, to keep the anal muscles receptive to deeper penetration.

Extreme Plugging

Of course, as you'd expect in the world of sex toys, extra-large butt plugs are available for those who really want to push their limits. There are also inflatable butt plugs, plugs that ejaculate, and butt plugs that vibrate. Although most are made of silicon or rubber, metal or clear acrylic butt plugs are available. Butt plugs occasionally have something attached to the end that extends beyond the buttocks, usually as part of a fetish scene. An example of this is pony play, in which participants may wear a butt plug with a horse tail attached, along with other horsey gear. Butt plugs are also available shapes that may cater to certain interest groups: you can get a butt plug shaped like a thermometer, a pacifier, or the baby Jesus (swear to God!).




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RE: butt plug - 11/4/2004 1:07:18 AM   
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A buttplug has a few uses.

First, it naturally opens the anus, and that can make anal penetration easier after the plug is removed.

Second, it's very common for people wearing a buttplug to be unable to concentrate on anything else. So it can be a good way to remind a sub that you are right there, inside him or her, using the plug as your instrument. (I always assumed that was the purpose of the standard wear-a-buttplug-to-work command, even though I never do that.)

Third, it can hurt. That can be pleasurable in itself. Lubricate it with tabasco sauce or something, and it can hurt a lot more.

Fourth, you can use a buttplug in the anus while penetrating the vagina. That makes the whole region very tight; usually you can feel the bulge of the plug through the tissues between the anus and vagina as you penetrate the vagina.

Fifth, penetration is inherently fun. Sometimes we do it just because we can.

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RE: butt plug - 11/4/2004 8:40:31 AM   
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Lubricate it with tabasco sauce or something, and it can hurt a lot more.


Another thing i guess i will just have to try. I knew there was some use for that old bottle of tabasco i've had for 20 yrs.

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RE: butt plug - 11/4/2004 7:42:51 PM   
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As said by other posters, start small and work your way up. Or, procure yourself an inflatable but plug. Start small at the beginning of a session and give the pump a few squeezes every 5 or 10 minutes during play. it will fill up the subs anus slowly more and more until she or he cannot think about anything else. The advantage of one of these inflatables is that you can leave it in while adjusting the size. Doing it slowly, bit by bit will by the time Your sub begs for mercy have resulted in a bigger size plug than doing iit quickly.

I hope this helps the OP and possibly others reading this.

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RE: butt plug - 11/5/2004 2:19:36 AM   
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proud - the sub I occasionally play with ( and who claims she is not a painslut) has been given a butt plug lubed with ben gay on more than one occasion - so if you are feeling adventurous, there is another thing for you to try

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RE: butt plug - 11/5/2004 5:45:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kajari

If it pleases Masters to reply....what is the purpose of a butt plug?


You mean I was supposed to have a purpose other than I enjoy watching a girl squirm?

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RE: butt plug - 11/5/2004 9:00:23 PM   
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proud - the sub I occasionally play with ( and who claims she is not a painslut) has been given a butt plug lubed with ben gay on more than one occasion - so if you are feeling adventurous, there is another thing for you to try


Thank you Thanatosian. I just happen to have a tube of it in the cupboard.

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RE: butt plug - 11/5/2004 9:03:15 PM   
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Once that Ben Gay gets to be too tame for you, you can upgrade to Tiger Balm Red

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RE: butt plug - 11/5/2004 9:30:57 PM   
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Once that Ben Gay gets to be too tame for you, you can upgrade to Tiger Balm Red


Oh my i think we used to use that on our horses.

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RE: butt plug - 11/6/2004 3:46:15 PM   
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butt plug lubed with ben gay


Well you know me, had to try it. I used half KY and half ben gay. It wasn't too bad while i was on the treadmill, but then i sat down afterwards, OMG i am burning now, but enjoying. I think this certainly beats out ginger.

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RE: butt plug - 11/6/2004 6:32:16 PM   
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I used a butt plug lubed with Vicks on a sub once. It cured her snoring.

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RE: butt plug - 11/8/2004 8:03:58 AM   
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One of the reasons I love chemical play

Glad you enjoyed it

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RE: butt plug - 11/8/2004 2:11:09 PM   
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1. Training.. to force the trainee to do a task that is oft not in their daily life.
2. To streatch ones ass for better fucking
3. To hold fluids in as in a enima
4. With a vibrator attachment to stimulate a male prostrate
5. Just because they can and its something that one always feels while wearing it as to who and what they are .
6. When doing kegels to have something there to press against.

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RE: butt plug - 4/14/2009 5:37:08 AM   
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If it pleases Masters to reply....what is the purpose of a butt plug?


if i may respectfully add my ideas as a humble slave. my Mistress uses a butt plug for many reasons
1. They are excellent for stretching "down there" to prepare for larger insertions via strap-on, etc.
2. Being filled with a plug helps remind me (and im sure, many other subs male or female) that i am owned and thus do not even control by body or its functioning.
3. Wearing a butt plug can be very arousing for many, especially males, it makes a Dom/me's job a wee bit easier to convince their sub to wear their butt plug when they know it arouses them deeply. As a sub myself, i find great pleasure in being plugged.
4. While pleasurable and arousing, wearing a butt plug for your Dom/me is a symbol of your submission and obedience, in a nutshell. Being forced to wear a butt plug, for me, is quite humiliating and humbling at the same time.
5. A butt plug is very, very discreet; yet it does its job of reminding the submissive of his/her status very, very well! That way by why many Dom/mes enjoy making their subs wear one to work or out in public.

Theres gotta be one zillion other good purposes.

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RE: butt plug - 4/14/2009 5:40:08 AM   
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you resurrected a thread from almost five years ago?!?!?

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RE: butt plug - 4/14/2009 5:54:15 AM   
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And if they hadnt, they'd have been told to use the search button.!!!

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RE: butt plug - 4/14/2009 5:59:50 AM   
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*throws some dirt on it to bury it again*

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