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thedavezone -> Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 9:47:35 AM)

Am I missing something? I'm more of an RT kind of guy, but now I'm in South Korea so I've got to get myself out there electronically.

So, all these girls look at my profile but don't do anything else. MOST are from far away. Is that a flirt or something? Is it a signal of some sort? I'm sure some are looking just to look, but so many, and nothing else comes of it most of the time.

What's going on here?

Please PM.



OsideGirl -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 9:50:43 AM)

They read your profile because they were curious. When they read the profile, it didn't fit for them so they moved on.



DarkSteven -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 9:57:25 AM)

There are also scammers that got prohibited from sending more messages, so they view profiles and hope for the men to make the first move.



DesFIP -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 9:58:09 AM)

Honestly, I can't imagine who would read your profile and be attracted to it.



wildernessbitch -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 10:10:39 AM)

Your profile would only be of interest to skinny bi women or larger women hoping to be humiliated about their weight. It limits your pool of prospective women and thus they look and think ... nah not for me



Dresproperty -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 10:49:21 AM)

I read your profile and your term "fat hog" could be offensive to people. I also read your journal and your account of going into the woods with a woman you had just met~ who had drunk a considerable amount of alcohol, that would make me go to the next profile in a heartbeat.



GreedyTop -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 10:52:15 AM)

oh god, I remember this guy... ::shudder::



WestBaySlave -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 10:55:07 AM)

They looked; they didn't like what they saw; they left.

Think of it like a supermarket. You may look at the pyramid of on-sale spam, that doesn't mean you want to take any of it home with you...




LadyPact -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 10:55:24 AM)

No, it means they saw your intro or some silly thing and wondered some off of the wall question, like why are you in Korea.

I'm in the middle of nowhere. I still get enough views each day that the page flips over, at minimum, every 24 hours. If I spent My time worrying about it, that would be a wasted resource.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 10:59:48 AM)

I get all manner of oddball views. Most of them never make contact, but just today I got a lovely note from a complete stranger who liked my writing and my pictures.



Delilya -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 11:35:52 AM)

I briefly went to your profile this morning. It was only to check your forum posts, verify for myself that you had already made an introduction, and then to paste that link into your current introduction.



JeffBC -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 12:38:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: thedavezone
Am I missing something?

Uh yes. I'd say you're missing a whole ton.

I'm more of an RT kind of guy, but now I'm in South Korea so I've got to get myself out there electronically.
I have another friend in Korea. The local dating scene is... uh... interesting. I assume by "getting yourself out there electronically" you mean you want to get an online relationship going?

So, all these girls look at my profile but don't do anything else. MOST are from far away. Is that a flirt or something? Is it a signal of some sort? I'm sure some are looking just to look, but so many, and nothing else comes of it most of the time. What's going on here?
If you want my guess, narcissism. I just looked at your profile. From that, you would presumably conclude that while I think I'm a straight male master I must in fact be gay and secretly submissive? In fact, I was curious about where in Korea (as I noted, I have a friend there) and I also wanted to see about that photo.

In a sense you can see it as a signal. If lots of people are looking at your profile and few sending messages to you then you can safely assume that your profile has no interest to the vast majority of people who are looking.



GreedyTop -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 12:40:40 PM)

nicely said, Jeff!! *hugs to you and Carol!*



JeffBC -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 12:50:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
nicely said, Jeff!! *hugs to you and Carol!*

My work here is done!
-- captain obvious



Ishtarr -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 2:18:58 PM)

Dude maybe nobody is mailing you because women are too smart to date a guy who will consider them less and less valuable/attractive with each passing day.
You keep saying over and over again you that "the younger the better" that means that any woman worth her salt will know that she'll never be a "better" for you. Women tend to not date men who see them as commodities before they even start dating.



Baroana -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 4:06:10 PM)

You've more than gotten your answer here, OP. Beauty fades, but sociopathy is forever.



littlewonder -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 6:39:03 PM)

they probably read it, thought it was so fucking funny that it wasn't even worth responding to. I never ever respond to profiles when I view them because I'm not looking for anything. I just like to read profiles because it's like looking at the photos of "The People of Walmart" website.



DesFIP -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 7:15:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC


My work here is done!
-- captain obvious



I really think we should forward this to Mod 21. Wouldn't you like captain obvious as your subtitle?



DomMeinCT -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 7:23:57 PM)

This is the internet and people perv profiles all the time. You note that most of them are from far away. So when they don't do anything else, they're simply self-selecting that they don't meet your criteria, or you don't meet theirs.

End result = no one wastes each others' time.

And what exactly is the problem?



sexyred1 -> RE: Look at my profile then nothing... (7/17/2012 7:55:17 PM)

OP, I looked at your profile and even in you were in the next town, I would never be interested.

What are you missing?

The sense to create a compelling profile that is not so cluttered.

You are so desperate to acquire a doll collection that you have thrown in every cliche known to woman.




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