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aurora31 -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/8/2006 10:57:02 PM)
I too have had good and bad expeiances here. Curently I am talking to someone I met briefly at a demo...then later saw his profile on here and recognized his pic so I e-mailed him. Been talking to him ever since we share very similar views on the lifestyle and life in genral and I am very much looking forward to seeing where things go. Unfortunatly we live 3 hrs apart so it slows things down alot but I was already considering relocating to his area and am currently looking for a job there. All I can say is take your time and be paient. As with anything there are the good and the bad even r/t you run into similar experiances. It just seams more prominant here becuase of the sheer numbers. I wish you the best of luck and don't give up. aurora

leatherorlace -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/8/2006 10:58:07 PM)
Hexzactly! I wish that, I could have said it as well, but My usual posting includes many grammaticial errors, and I usually don't try too hump someones leg for theirs, but the Allman Brothers are inspiring Me to ask why she's so sad considering that she's enjoying an open relationship with her husband, and master. Maybe the bourbon bit her in the booty and sent her careening about the confines of her monitor and,,, nah, I don't think that that's the excuse either. Maybe the depression that her words manifest are the result of playing with another poseur, or possibly her new hero attempted talking her into toppin' him. Woe is she. Maybe she should apply for the paga wenches opening at the tavern, I hear that some of those ol' boys will flock together and flog a gal for most any small infraction, and that should give her another,,,, I need to get out of this depressive frame of mind, and pointing out apparent inconsistencies isn't helping anyone. Gentry quote: ORIGINAL: amayos quote: ORIGINAL: slavejlb This is my respondance to all who think they are looking for a real life time realtionship. I hate to say but you are not going to fine it here, here you will fine nothing more then smoke and mirrors, made up of darken dreams, and unfilled fanstaies. of lost hidden desires, that the way we can explore though words and sharing of wants needs and desires. sorry for my negative, dishearten attude, take care and be safe slave jlb I think this is more a reflection of your own negativity and obese cynicism. In this atrociously written paragraph you sweep aside the reality many are living though tears, blood and fire, and in so doing, you dishonor them. I don't find myself saying this so surely about the many opinions expressed upon these threads, but quite simply, you're wrong.

Brosco -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/8/2006 10:58:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavejlb This is my respondance to all who think they are looking for a real life time realtionship. I hate to say but you are not going to fine it here, here you will fine nothing more then smoke and mirrors, made up of darken dreams, and unfilled fanstaies. of lost hidden desires, that the way we can explore though words and sharing of wants needs and desires. sorry for my negative, dishearten attude, take care and be safe slave jlb jib, Others here have given you their condolenses... so I feel no need. Your post is just like others on many topics that believe their own experiences apply to all. Sorry fella.. you can tell us about your experiences and beliefs - but the moment you state it as applying to all others you fail. I wish you more luck with what you are searching for, but please do not belittle the amazing success of others by your own failure. In life in general I have often seen people try to minimise the success of others to try to hide their own failure... that way they don't need to analyse themselves for the reasons. Brosco

apunishedprince -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/8/2006 11:17:03 PM)
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misfire -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 12:02:15 AM)
Wow. I've seen some bitter and jaded postings on here before, but this one takes the cake. Smoke and mirrors? This isn't real? I don't believe the past ten months of my life have been simply a fantasy; a dream come true, perhaps. A bumpy ride? Most definitely. I assure you, though.. the tears I've shed, the bruises and welts I've worn, the desire I have to serve.. they're all real. In future, though, I suggest that you keep your heart and mind open, and bite your tongue when feeling the urge to post thoughtless blanket statements about BDSM.

darkinshadows -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 1:35:22 AM)
You are right. You won't 'find' anything here - if you are looking. I am amazed at the times I see people say they are searching or looking... doen't that just mean you have certain expectations and are blinded by them, and that means you miss out on what might be hidden from view by those blinkers? If you want to find something, don't look it - like those keys you misplaced - chances are then when you come across something you didn't know was there, it will be more valuable, more noticable and more worthwhile. Peace and Rapture

bandit25 -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 2:08:34 AM)
Like so many others, I, too, met the Man I am seeing here. He sure seems real to me.

ExistentialSteel -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 3:01:55 AM)
You are hitting on a few issues. BDSM, relationships in general and internet meetings. You had a bad experience that may be related to a combination of the three, but it doesn’t mean you should generalize about BDSM or any of the other aspects for that matter. If your premise is that most here are not real, you could be surprised. Most are. I know too many reliable and honest people on here. Those who post stand out as even more likely to be what they say they are. Most, also, have a respect for those in D/s on both sides of the realm and that is something you can’t find in the vanilla world or websites. Hang in there. As someone told me, it happens when you least expect it. I was the “it.”

MaggieDoll -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 3:38:31 AM)
I met my wonderful dom and domme here... started out as friends (I was having a difficult time, and Mistress Jennifer told me "take a vacation from your problems, bob" (refrence from What about Bob?)) and when I got here, I just clicked with both of them, and I've been here ever since.. I've got no complaints, they take wonderful care of me. As a sub, I couldn't ask for more than they give me, and they love me, and I them... I am very happy with what I've found... I'm sure there are plenty of psychos and fakes on here, but you can usually recognize them.. may waste some time finding that out, but there are such people everywhere on the internet. Sir Stephen just asked me what I'm posting about, and when I told him, he said "I find that kind of odd given the fact that you're sitting here" but added that "that was one in a million, given that there are a lot of freaky dimwits" on here, but it's not all for nothing... Maggie Property of Mistress Jennifer and Sir Stephen

LadyJulieAnn -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 6:45:29 AM)
Your profile says you are married, so perhaps that complicates things? I wish you luck with your search, Julie

twicehappy -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 6:58:08 AM)
Sorry you feel this way but like many others i have to burst your bubble. My owners met each other on a site like this one and have been married for years. I met them here and am extremely happy and content to be collared to such a marvelous pair.

MissSyren -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 7:05:18 AM)
My fiance and I met on the net...not this site but still...meeting on the net is the same.He met his previouse girlfriend on the net too but she turned out to be a psycho who moved herself from chicago to here and had to move into his parents until she got her own place.Thankfully she moved back!!! But my fiance and I have been together for 4 years and been in BDSM together for 3 of those 4 years.!It's bliss.

michaelGA2 -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 10:12:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn Your profile says you are married, so perhaps that complicates things? I wish you luck with your search, Julie especially in America where minds are typically closed to this sort of thing[8D]

Sub03 -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 10:41:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavejlb This is my respondance to all who think they are looking for a real life time realtionship. I hate to say but you are not going to fine it here, here you will fine nothing more then smoke and mirrors, made up of darken dreams, and unfilled fanstaies. of lost hidden desires, that the way we can explore though words and sharing of wants needs and desires. sorry for my negative, dishearten attude, take care and be safe slave jlb Im sorry you feel that way....but its definetly not true. I met a wonderful Master on here that I am now in a 24/7 live in M/s relationship with. And it has been wonderful so far and I dont forsee and problems in the future.

Sab -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 10:46:56 AM)
You mean..............you mean, I am not going back to Canada and living with my sub? OMFG!? Someone please help me!!

sabswife -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 10:48:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sab You mean..............you mean, I am not going back to Canada and living with my sub? OMFG!? Someone please help me!! [;)] those are some awesome drugs You and i have been taking i guess

Sab -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 10:50:17 AM)
wife - how can you talk to me, you are not real! :O

brattysub4 -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 10:50:36 AM)
i so wasnt going to reply to this but after time of thinking i just couldnt help myself.i am sorry your experiences have led you to believe that you wont meet one here.wether one is online or face to face doesnt matter as i have told some of my friends .what makes it real is the emotions the feelings the thoughts the passion that one feels within themselve.i for one met my first true love here and very honored to have met him .he was very real and what we shared within our interests so to very real.so real can happen you have to have faith belief and passion ,desires within you to go forwards.also to not let past experiences hinder your future so much that you not give another a chance.after all one never knows what it there and will trully never find out if the door is constantly locked and key thrown away. i do wish you the best and please open your mind to acceptance and it will happen.

sabswife -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 10:51:11 AM)
quote: wife - how can you talk to me, you are not real! :O who are You? oh no, the anti psychotics must be kicking in [:(]

gooddogbenji -> RE: bdsm is only a fanstay of the mind (6/9/2006 10:57:22 AM)
I'm not, therefore I don't think. Somehow, me not thinking isn't news to me, nor should it be to anyone else. Yours, benji

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