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Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 9:24:16 AM   
applewallpaper


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Status: offline 		I'm not interested at all in pain and very little in the being tied up part, maybe just as an occasional sex game for my woman. Also, I know some men want their women to have an affair, whereas for me personally that sounds like grounds for a divorce.

But at the same time, I do want to be the submissive, lesser partner. Like, I want to have dinner on the table when she gets home from work, after a full day of cleaning the house. And maybe after dinner, I give her a massage (not the please have sex with me kind, the real make her feel better kind) while she unloads about her day at the office.

I'm basically become convinced I'll never find it, but, I've decided to start at least looking a little again. So, yeah, is this something that might be available here?
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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 9:31:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Of course it is. As long as you are upfront and honest with the other person about what you really want out the realationship. Welcome to the forum side of collarme. I wish you luck in your search.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 9:38:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM. I'm sure someone might find that scenario appealing. Personally, I find
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I do want to be the submissive, lesser partner.
to be demeaning.

Personally, for me I'd want a guy to be employed in some capacity so he could assist in mortgage/rent/bill payment. I'm not doing the "sugar mama" bit again. Then again, I'm in favor all parties contributing to the running of the household no matter the gender.

I also love to cook, so if someone insisted on having dinner ready every damn day, I'd be mighty upset. Now, keeping the sofa de-furred & cleaning litter boxes..have at it!

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 9:40:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have nothing against househusbands, but it doesn't take long to keep up a house when there's no children... so he'd have to bring in some kind of cash. Nor would said person be "lesser".

Really, only a man would say that.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 9:40:51 AM   
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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 9:52:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, you're right, I shouldn't have used the word lesser. I only meant, like, doesn't make any large decisions, not like less of a human being.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 10:12:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		To be honest, finding a Domme who's not into cuckolding is a LOT easier than finding one who is. You'll have no problem there.

No play sessions might be harder, but shouldn't be impossible.

What you seek seems to be a female led relationship (FLR).

That said, I've found that compatibility in the bedroom tends to be easier than compatibility out of it. Putting aside the dinner and housework, what do you see the relationship consisting of? Easting at home with a movie? Eating out? Going to NASCAR races, or the opera?

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 10:34:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

That said, I've found that compatibility in the bedroom tends to be easier than compatibility out of it. Putting aside the dinner and housework, what do you see the relationship consisting of? Easting at home with a movie? Eating out? Going to NASCAR races, or the opera?



I suppose I can't just say whatever she wants? I mean, my primary interest that isn't at all related to all this is high end literature and television. Like Franzen (though I hated Freedom) and Mad Men. I guess we could watch tv together, but like, I kinda don't care what she reads. It's more, if say, she liked NASCAR, I would kinda wonder why, I mean all they do is run in circles, but at the same time, I would feel like its my responsibility to learn enough so that any conversation about her hobbies is pleasing to her. Is that a wrong answer?

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 10:55:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: applewallpaper

Is that a wrong answer?


Not for me, it's not. As long as you were were able to contribute equally to the household expenses, an FLR works for me. I think the sticking point for many will be 'do you have your own income?' After that, the rest of it sounds just dandy to me.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 11:02:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		As long as they had a livable legal source of money, and pulled his own weight financially, sounds nice.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 11:15:26 AM   
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Good luck in your search.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 12:10:22 PM   
applewallpaper


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Status: offline 		Ok, reaction has been positive enough that I'll try making an account with a real username. (or can i simply change the name on this account? I'll have to look into that first). I mean the homemaker part of this is important, but if there's a large enough group of people interested in 'flr' than there may be some amount of people in a subgroup that would match up. It's at least worth looking for.

Thank you everyone for your responses!

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 12:13:52 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the discussion side of CM. You can't change this nick, you have to start a new profile if you want to switch nicks.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 12:16:11 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Oh wow dude...........what you describe sounds like most vanilla marriages I know.

As his work schedule and mine allows, it's bascially what I have now.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 12:43:33 PM   
applewallpaper


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Status: offline 		I'll just stick with this name. It's a bad name, but I can't think of a good one.

Ok, now I'm really leaving the topic to figure out a profile.

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 4:41:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Its different...the name, much better than some
good luck in your search

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/23/2012 4:43:56 PM   
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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/24/2012 7:55:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Welcome app, you get home in the evening and you want it on the table, i understand!

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/24/2012 10:56:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: applewallpaper

I'm not interested at all in pain and very little in the being tied up part, maybe just as an occasional sex game for my woman. Also, I know some men want their women to have an affair, whereas for me personally that sounds like grounds for a divorce.

But at the same time, I do want to be the submissive, lesser partner. Like, I want to have dinner on the table when she gets home from work, after a full day of cleaning the house. And maybe after dinner, I give her a massage (not the please have sex with me kind, the real make her feel better kind) while she unloads about her day at the office.

I'm basically become convinced I'll never find it, but, I've decided to start at least looking a little again. So, yeah, is this something that might be available here?


......... Did that just happen
You will be sure to find someone! Im a straight guy and
im tempted! you would find a girl in a normal dating site
with that offer...

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RE: Would a male pure housewife wannabe fit in here? - 7/24/2012 2:30:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, OP so I read your profile and you basically want to be a "kept" man and you're not into the "bondage side" of things, ehh, ok, doesn't work for me.

Good luck with your search.





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