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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/9/2006 9:42:07 AM

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My english is bad,but i try to say in my word, wrong or not,i hope everyone will understand what i tried to say.

Dear pinkee ,Hm for me is the difficult to see diferent between D/s and M/s what means M? Master or Mistress. i/m from Germany so it might be that we have different meanings of names like TPE 24/7 BDSM etc.. i tried to tell you what i feel. since i was 13 /or 15years old,there the first time in my life i now exactly that i'm REAL sub,dev,and where i feel myself good in real beeing as a real slave.It was a dxream to be Real that,but it was my real feeling of my beeing in future. Its a long time ago and sinced this time I had a dream biger and biger more and more to be REAL! in D/s or TPe under the feet of a beautiful Women, where my heart is feeling bigger and bigger ,because i'm in love and dreams.
today i have frightened to to be an real slave, but only to get real pain from the Lady, if she is angry of me. I don`t like pain. But i have no frightened to be total under Her,where she owned myself like every thing what she says, as a humanpet or her real server,or her lover,or what ever she Want. Her wants are my future. Only what in my heart has to be is love or faszination for Her,then in future this women could have all wrights over me. i thing this my way for the rest of my live. i know this ,because my dreams had been never end. i will give my freedom for her to be in her live her own,what ever.

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/9/2006 9:47:20 AM

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I would say - don't look for anything - just be yourself.

Years ago I would have answered D/s - without a doubt. But life is a funny thing. It evolves and teaches you that sometimes, what you think you want, isn't what will make you happy - and it can stiffle you to hold yourself within a certain box and you won't grow.

So I would say - be open to all possiblities. Do not try and confine yourself to ideals which can be restrictive - but communicate and learn to grow - never say never - and learn to compromise.

Communicate, compromise, consent and creativity.

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/9/2006 11:38:28 AM

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Seems to me W/we have forgotten to discuss BDSM itself. So, here's my question: Do Y/you seek a D/s or M/s relationship? How long have Y/you been seeking? What motivates Y/you?

pinkee

seeking.. life.. liberty.. freedom.. and er freedom from being prosecutred for ones beliefs..

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/9/2006 11:40:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

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ORIGINAL: pinkee

Seems to me W/we have forgotten to discuss BDSM itself. So, here's my question: Do Y/you seek a D/s or M/s relationship? How long have Y/you been seeking? What motivates Y/you?

pinkee

I am seeking a Ds relationship again that might evolve into a Ms one.

What motivates me is internal desires, experience with having multiple subs and slaves at the same time and the contentment that gave me, and the needs/desires of the people currently in my household.

My seeking isn't terribly active though, it is more like an openness to possibilities with limits and guidelines. Collectively I think my household in general would be happier if we had two others -- but we are happy now so we won't compromise on what we want and risk damaging what we have built.

what is this M/s stuff?

Isn't BDSM = B/D + D/S + S/M?

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/9/2006 11:43:16 AM

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MS is Master/Slave

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/9/2006 12:16:57 PM

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Well let’s see…. WM ISO SWSF into D/s to evolve to M/s with a little B&D and occasional S&M hope she like D&D and has a BMW. No HNG needed because that will just PO me, it would be good if she had PHD and be a VIP for my NWO and no I do not do CBT and I dont like BS.

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/9/2006 12:26:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Well let’s see…. WM ISO SWSF into D/s to evolve to M/s with a little B&D and occasional S&M hope she like D&D and has a BMW. No HNG needed because that will just PO me, it would be good if she had PHD and be a VIP for my NWO and no I do not do CBT and I dont like BS.

It's Friday, Loki...I've been using my brain all week...have mercy, for God's sake!

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/9/2006 2:03:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: TxBadMan

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ORIGINAL: pinkee

Seems to me W/we have forgotten to discuss BDSM itself. So, here's my question: Do Y/you seek a D/s or M/s relationship? How long have Y/you been seeking? What motivates Y/you?

pinkee

No. I do not actively seek a relationship of any kind. I never have. I perfer to let things happen on their own, without any pushing or shoves from me.

Says it all for me too....

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/14/2006 12:26:33 AM

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I simply seek a relationship with an experienced Dom. .I believe the relationship we create together will evolve into whatever it is meant to be as long we both keep open minds and make mutual satisfaction our goal.

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/14/2006 12:34:29 AM

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I seek a M/s ( as I see it ) underlying the relationship, and often expressed and practiced. D/s being expressed more often to almost always in actions, emotions.
Been searching for several years now, with some close calls.
I seek it, so the relationship with the one I love will be expressed more fully for us. To be ourselves with each other and revel in it to it's fullest passion and happiness.

Had it. Want it again.

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/14/2006 1:54:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Well let’s see…. WM ISO SWSF into D/s to evolve to M/s with a little B&D and occasional S&M hope she like D&D and has a BMW. No HNG needed because that will just PO me, it would be good if she had PHD and be a VIP for my NWO and no I do not do CBT and I dont like BS.

And if the VP is such a VIP, shouldn't we keep the VC on the QT, before the VP ends up as an MIA and we all get put on KP?

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/14/2006 2:23:26 PM

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What do I seek, D/S or M/S?
     6 of one and a half-dozen of the other.

Am I seeking?
    yes and no.

How long have I been seeking?
   On and off all my life, just wasn't always aware I was

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RE: D/s and M/s - 6/14/2006 2:52:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: Dustyn

And if the VP is such a VIP, shouldn't we keep the VC on the QT, before the VP ends up as an MIA and we all get put on KP?

LOL quoting "Good Morning Vietnam" thank you Dustyn between you and Loki my tummy now hurts *g*

Regarding the OP. I'm seeking to meet people, hopefully make friends and who knows i might meet my next ex *giggles* kidding, don't flame me saying I'm negative when I'm just being silly.

Yes it would be nice to meet "The One" *s* but if it happens great, if not, oh well I'll have fun on the journey.

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