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FrostedFlake -> RE: Male and female doms (7/27/2012 12:03:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesiresFury Are male doms pretty much the same as female doms? Yup. I have trouble telling them apart. They all look the same to me.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Male and female doms (7/27/2012 8:53:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl haha True. Doms are more focused on getting blow jobs than Dommes are on getting eaten, for the most part anyway. Ain't that the truth? Doms go for blow jobs with femsubs - what's the Femdom/malesub equivalent? Forced bunch-of-roses-giving, no doubt. [8\|] [sm=rofl.gif]

Tantriqu -> RE: Male and female doms (7/27/2012 8:55:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl Doms are more focused on getting blow jobs than Dommes are on getting eaten, for the most part anyway. I do not resemble this remark, but I love getting roses, too.

Andalusite -> RE: Male and female doms (7/28/2012 1:34:15 PM)
I'm a switch, and know a lot of male and female Dominants. I find that men and women do have different dominance styles to some extent, but there's much more variation on an individual level than based on gender. I think reading about both is a good idea, you may find something that resonates for you, or an idea you can make your own.

SadisticDom731 -> RE: Male and female doms (7/30/2012 9:04:29 AM)
We, male and female Doms are as different as our sexes , the homes we were raised in. I will say this and I don't know if it really has anything to do with the thread. When I entered my first BDSM club with my very first sub, I was lucky enough to meet a woman named Jean a female bi Mistress. I offered my sub she accepted and they played. Later on we became friends and discussed handling submissive from two very different points of view. I know I learned a lot and we had a wonderful friendship.

sheisreeds -> RE: Male and female doms (7/30/2012 3:30:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesiresFury Are male doms pretty much the same as female doms? Considering that each dominant is unique, does the gender really make a difference?

RemoteUser -> RE: Male and female doms (7/30/2012 6:43:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesiresFury Thank you everyone. I'm sorry if I was vague. Maybe this will help. If a female is trying to learn more about being a Dom, should she read about both sexes, or just her own? At the risk of sounding obvious, worry about knowing yourself first, then follow through on what you want. The rest is knowledge for its own sake - not a bad thing! However, it's not directly applicable either, and I gather you want results.

Jammybitch -> RE: Male and female doms (7/30/2012 8:15:30 PM)
Dominant or submissive is entirely individual regardless of gender it really depends what you personally are looking for individuals vary in kink, personality, belief etc just like any relationship.

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