RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry?

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Are dominants "allowed" to cry?

No, dominants are like super heros. You never see them cry do you.

10% (9)

Yes, dominants are still humans and humans get upset sometimes.

55% (48)

I don't care if she cries I just don't want to see it happen.

2% (2)

Maybe sometimes if it is over something important.

6% (6)

Sure, it is kind of sexy to get to see the other side.

2% (2)

No, but I only say that because it hurts me to see her upset.

3% (3)

I agree with you saying he needs beat with a hammer.

18% (16)

Total Votes : 86

(last vote on : 12/10/2013 4:58:28 PM)
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JstAnotherSub -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (7/27/2012 2:34:39 PM)
hahaha ya could give him another version of the old saying my folks had. Instead of"quit crying or I'll give you something to cry about", tell him "Let me cry or I'll' give YOU something to cry about!".

kalikshama -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (7/27/2012 4:44:56 PM)
<3

DieYuppieScum -> RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? (7/28/2012 7:27:41 AM)
if i'm paying for the session she'd better not start bawling! i hate to be a pill but you have to ride dommes pretty hard sometimes when they're on the clock!

LadyPact -> RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? (7/28/2012 7:47:57 AM)
That could be one explanation of why certain people believe Dominant women are not entirely human. I highly doubt many would put up with that 'you're here for use' line of thinking.

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? (7/28/2012 8:17:59 AM)
If you look at my question carefully you will see that no part of is asks if a pro can cry or not. And as one I can tell you right now somene would have to shoot me to get me to cry infront of a client. I was asking about the real world lives of people that do this 24/7 and are aware that leather does not remove a persons ablity to be human. by the way Your profile, which I finally took a look at, reads like it was writen by a teenager. A teenager intelligent enough to either know or look up who nietzsche is but still a teenager. Not a 36 year old adult. You might have a little more luck finding the person you seek if you work on it a little.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? (7/28/2012 11:51:29 AM)
DYS is someone's sock, eh? And so... just in need of some bleach. [;)]

CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? (7/28/2012 1:28:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain If you look at my question carefully you will see that no part of is asks if a pro can cry or not. And as one I can tell you right now somene would have to shoot me to get me to cry infront of a client. I was asking about the real world lives of people that do this 24/7 and are aware that leather does not remove a persons ablity to be human. by the way Your profile, which I finally took a look at, reads like it was writen by a teenager. A teenager intelligent enough to either know or look up who nietzsche is but still a teenager. Not a 36 year old adult. You might have a little more luck finding the person you seek if you work on it a little. Nietzsche... I think it was just barely outta my teens that I sorta moved past Nietzsche. Now if you had said he had referenced Camus...

Silentrunner26 -> RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? (8/4/2012 8:58:10 PM)
There are times when I get so angry that if not for the tears my emotions would get the best of me and I would hurt people in ways the would never recover . They are an outlet for things I try to hold back and never show

Endivius -> RE: Are dommes "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 12:59:34 AM)
Dom/me's are manufactured without tear ducts. Also our poop doesn't stink, and we never make mistakes. Ever.

Lucifyre -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 10:47:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I do not cry often and especially not during extreme crisis or moments I need to keep my shit together to deal. I am one of those weirdos that cry after the fact, when I've done everything I need to do to deal with whatever.....if I do cry over it. Quite often, by the time I would be able to cry, the crisis has been resolved to the point where crying isn't even an issue. Most recently, when my son and his S.O. were in a motorcycle accident, would be a good example. I have been known to cry when I am very angry, not a common thing. Or during movies, more common but I don't care. The first paragraph is a sort of survival mode. This is what I do as well. When my father was dying I had 1 night where I let it go and was actually sobbing and unintelligable when I tried to speak. The rest of the week I just got through it and got shit done. I didn't cry again for an entire month and when I did it hit me full on like a ton of bricks. For me, tears are like a pressure cooker - If I don't let them out a little bit at a time, there is the propencity for me to explode into a whirlwind of uncontrolled emotion. Frustratingly, I am unable to let off the little bits of steam I need to as a situation is happening to relieve some of the pressure along the way...and I end up a complete mess way after the fact. I also cry when I'm angry, but I htink mainly it has a lot to do with the way I am as described above...I deal with shit for as long as I can until the cooker is full of steam (i.e. I'm beyond pissed) and that ends up showing itself in the form of tears. People who don't know me well (my husband, or my kids for instance) think I am over emotional, when all it is is the top blowing off. When my kids see me cry, they run for shelter because they know Momma is at the point of explosion. healthy or not, it is what it is. Lucifyre

chemeli -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 10:57:10 AM)
I've been raised thinking that men werent supposed to cry. They were supposed to suck it up, be a MAN and move on. My grand-father (father of my father) watched boxing on the television, wanted my dad to fight back and he wanted him to never cry. My dad is a sensitive man, but he grew up in that kind of mentality and therefore, pass that mentality a bit to me. As a girl, i was being regarded as more sensitive and crying was normal, but i dont think i would have made it, being a man. So in my subconscious, i'm always confused when i see a man cry and (god help me) there's a part of me that thinks that it's not supposed to happen. You're supposed to rely on strong man capable of handling any kind of situations and crying is not a solution etc. So, yeah, i get confused even though i KNOW that crying is normal, but i understand that education interfere a great deal in how you see things.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 11:05:39 AM)
The ability to cry is one way to tell the difference between a Dom and a narcissist or sociopath.

sexyred1 -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 11:10:46 AM)
Also the ability to laugh.

Chamber25 -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 11:15:12 AM)
If a person cannot cry or laugh, it is them making a conscious decision to "act" or "react" to that decision...which basically says they are NOT being themselves and attempting to...I have seen men, women deny themselves these things in public settings to be "above" the situation...which in every case made them look like douchebags.

sexyred1 -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 11:18:08 AM)
Yes. it is totally a red flag. My ex did not smile on our first date and I should have run for the hills. I thought he was just being hot and mysterious, but he really was just a fucked up guy.

DaddySatyr -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 11:22:43 AM)
Of course dominants are allowed to cry but the new permit process that has been put in place has made the licensing procedure too much to bear for many of them. Peace and comfort, Michael

DaddysGentleHand -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (8/5/2012 4:01:59 PM)
I have cried in front of my former little one. Not from anger but from joy, and from pride. Anger is an emotion I have firlyl under control and I honestly cannot remember the last time I lost my temper - certainly decades.

slaneeshianpryns -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (9/8/2012 7:54:53 PM)
So far, something new everday on this site. As a Master I've been raise not to cry, yet I've got my limits that require a salty, wet release across my face. Not to say it can't be brought about by various methods. I agree we are all human, though some of us are less Human than others. Prynsin

CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (9/8/2012 8:03:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaneeshianpryns So far, something new everday on this site.As a Master I've been raise not to cry , yet I've got my limits that require a salty, wet release across my face. Not to say it can't be brought about by various methods. I agree we are all human, though some of us are less Human than others. Prynsin Wow, no wonder I have issues... my parent's raised me as a boy, even a child and not a Master... dammit, I was fucking doomed from the very beginning. The bastards!!! I now hate my parents for setting these roadblocks before me...

chemeli -> RE: Are dominants "allowed" to cry? (9/8/2012 8:03:43 PM)
less humans then others....? Wait, are you saying there's people actually mutating or something? Getting antlers or maybe, humans with unicorns? Gasp grabs the camera Where ? WHERE I ASK YOU?!?!

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