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what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 2:57:47 AM

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im new to bsdm. what are most dominant women into. like what type of man and body type do they prefer? jw. thanks!

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 2:58:52 AM

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 3:24:15 AM

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Dom women like men who look exactly like Chef Gordon Ramsey exclusively.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 3:26:33 AM

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Nonono sorry, to be real... Different women like different things, be yourself.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 4:18:26 AM

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I prefer men with a pulse.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 4:27:09 AM

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psst - it's against the rules for you to show genitalia in your avatar or primary picture.

Since Dommes are people not McDommes, they have a wide range of preferences.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 4:46:22 AM

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Think of us as people ... we all have a wide variety of likes and dislikes as far as body types and anything else. You would be better off to realize we are woman first and Dommes second. We are interested in getting to know the person first before considering the BDSM aspect.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 5:42:17 AM

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While I haven't found anything that women universally like in a man's appearance, I HAVE found that they almost all like a man who enjoys conversation and is good at it. A sense of humor is a bonus.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 9:29:38 AM

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In my experience, women like confidence.

Not arrogance, not asshole self centeredness, but a man who is sure of himself-oh hell yeah they like that.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 11:51:19 AM

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In My experience, Dominant women like to have some form of control. Everything else varies.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/29/2012 1:37:18 PM

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well, I'm guessing many like the bodies of the typical 20 year old college boy.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 12:06:06 AM

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Wrong guess.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 12:33:04 AM

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generally speaking, who doesn't like the body of a 20 year old. get real.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 3:05:43 AM

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well, I'm guessing many like the bodies of the typical 20 year old college boy.

Are you fucking sick? What the hell is wrong with you?

Look. Most of us in our forties and fifties don't want shit to do with somebody who looks like a child to us. Women aren't like certin men.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 5:24:26 AM

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The guys in their 20s may be momentary eye candy, but I want my men to be seasoned by life.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 5:28:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: collegeboy20

im new to bsdm. what are most dominant women into. like what type of man and body type do they prefer? jw. thanks!

Hiya and welcome. First lesson you need to grasp very quickly is that people who are involved in BDSM are people, they are as varied and interesting as anyone else in the world, people like different things, believe different things and want different things. There is no one size fits all in anything ever, BDSM is no different.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 11:43:39 AM

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Men with money to blow. Have money, always.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 11:49:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

In my experience, women like confidence.

Not arrogance, not asshole self centeredness, but a man who is sure of himself-oh hell yeah they like that.

I don't know, sometimes the asshole-ish type is hot. Well I might just be weird, but Hubby is definitely an asshole type, and I find that sexy.

Oh and as for Notausername^^^ yes, you need money, all of it or no women will look your way.

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 11:52:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

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ORIGINAL: Kana

In my experience, women like confidence.

Not arrogance, not asshole self centeredness, but a man who is sure of himself-oh hell yeah they like that.

I don't know, sometimes the asshole-ish type is hot. Well I might just be weird, but Hubby is definitely an asshole type, and I find that sexy.

Oh and as for Notausername^^^ yes, you need money, all of it or no women will look your way.

Gawd, K... I do so much like you in oh so many appropriate and inappropriate ways! *grin*

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RE: what do you prefer. - 7/31/2012 12:00:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

In my experience, women like confidence.

Not arrogance, not asshole self centeredness, but a man who is sure of himself-oh hell yeah they like that.

I don't know, sometimes the asshole-ish type is hot. Well I might just be weird, but Hubby is definitely an asshole type, and I find that sexy.

Oh and as for Notausername^^^ yes, you need money, all of it or no women will look your way.

Hell yes... it has always been my wealth that has attracted and kept women enthralled with me. If it wasn't for having large sums of money, I would have never, ever gotten laid. Who I am or my personality or what I do, how I act has never, ever had a goddamned thing to do with sex or people liking or disliking me... Nope, nada.

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