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LadyConstanze -> RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? (8/7/2012 6:18:23 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66
MW is a University.
Sorry, but I was under the impression that universities are institutions that offer higher education and degrees, I can't just claim that the local high school is a university or enrol in a private course and claim that I got a university degree!
As for CM being a dating site, I was always under the impression that it is just a community.
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ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66
All I can say is that I enjoyed the lessons and assignments. MW connected me with a Lady whom I served for one year. (She released me when She moved out of state) I understand that every woman is unique and many will not agree with MW. That is FINE. I am adaptable to change and to be molded into whatever kind of boy that my future owner wants.
One thing that has definitely been overlooked about me (on this thread) is my Devotion , Sincerity and Eagerness to Serve.
I created my own website and set up the videos just so that any interested Sadistic Woman could see that I am who I say I am. I don't cry out the "safe word" after 2 or 3 lashings , instead I say Thanks and beg for more. I have proved that I can take all that a Sadistic Woman wants to unleash.
I have tried to explain that a FLR is more than the kink. I am happy serving by doing all of the domestic duties and other non-kink activities. I am a Southern Gentleman. I want to make a woman's life easier.
My video intro was not created to show my "Meat". I made the Intro to show off my technical abilities and again , that I can take the Discipline. I have references available .
I tried to create a Profile that would completely describe me so that an interested Lady could form a decent opinion as to whether or not I would be a good match for Her. That was my goal. Simply to find a Woman to Serve.
Look, I'm a sadist who enjoys edge play, I'm not playing professionally anymore, when it comes to playing professionally, yes, references matter, but playing just for my enjoyment, I don't need references, I need chemistry, I need to like somebody, if you show me videos, it comes over as "Look, that's what I've done and what I expect, live up to my previous experiences" - that does turn me off. Also it makes you look (maybe unfairly so) as if you are an exhibitionist. You have to cater to the audience you want to attract, if you want to attract women, you best tailor your sales pitch so it will get their interest. If you are stuck with the videos, how does that show that you are willing to be what she wants to be? It looks as if you are looking for a repeat of what you had.
It's more for you than just the kink, great, but then don't have kink videos up. How about you take a video of yourself where you just tell them about you and that your desire is to become what a possible owner wants you to be? I think that approach would have much more success. You could say you do have videos available, and show them when somebody asks for them.
Also you saying that you spend $300 on a "date" gives the impression that you're looking for pro dommes, and sorry, you don't have dates then, you have appointments and sessions.
Finding somebody could take quite some time, why don't you volunteer for videos (I think Lady Cheyenne is always looking for volunteers) or check with the dommes in your area who have C4S if they need volunteers? It might even lead to you being collared by one of them.
What I am trying to tell you here is that with videos, you are applying to the wrong audience, maybe FL and somebody who is looking for a video slave!
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