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SeekerMA -> RE: Virgin Doms/Subs/Switches (8/9/2012 9:05:05 PM)
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There's no reason why a virgin can't be a good Dom/sub/partner. But I would say that it does increase the likelihood of mistakes, particularly when topping, or simply being at a loss for what to do when it comes to sex. These qualities may actually be positives when it comes to a sub, because then you truly have a blank slate to start with, both sexually and in terms of D/s. With a Dom, it is much more likely to be a problem, because lack of experience would cause him/her to push too hard and too fast, to demand things that are unreasonable, to have unrealistic expectations, etc. Not to mention that there is a very real chance of losing respect for a Dom if he is fumbling with a bra for five minutes, acting visibly nervous, and clearly has no idea what to do or how to do it. But like I said originally, just because there is an increased chance of things going wrong, it doesn't mean that it would necessarily be so. There are immature adults and mature children, and I think mental development is much more important than where one's penis has been, or what one has had in her vagina. So as long as the Dom is mature and responsible, he/she could make a fine Dom, despite being a virgin. Particularly since virginity is such an easy thing to lose, whereas character traits are pretty stable.
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