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wtsbob -> SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 1:59:03 PM)

Hi Everyone, I am a 70 year old dom from Penzance in the county of Cornwall, UK. I have been on this site for over a year now. I have been looking for a female submissive or slave without much success. I have been close but something has always come up to prevent it, not always my fault. I know my age is against me but I am quite fit, I still row in a six man crew and sail a 40ft catamaran with a friend of mine. Last September the two of us sailed from Cornwall to Ireland, a two day crossing.

Surely there must be a female, aged between say 50 and 65 on this site who would like to relocate to a beautififull part of England and become my partner. I have my own modern house and being retired have plenty of time to give and though on a couple of small pensions, could probably support each other. I could find someone on a vanilla site but quite honestly, dread the thought as I would miss my bdsm way of life.

Any suggestions or offers would be much appreciated

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MistressDarkArt -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:00:31 PM)

Welcome, and good luck with your search!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:00:35 PM)

A teeeny hint? Put a nice picture of your boat as your avi, instead of some toys. Just a thought.

Cornwall is amazing from all I hear, welcome to our world, and good luck!



MistressDarkArt -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:01:38 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

A teeeny hint? Put a nice picture of your boat as your avi, instead of some toys. Just a thought.




Agreed!



Delilya -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:04:32 PM)

Best of luck



lizi -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:04:55 PM)

Welcome to CM!

I agree with the other two wonderful posters on the picture suggestion, women will want to know you, not your toys. Good luck!



wtsbob -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:06:49 PM)

Well, I uploaded a new photo of myself but it did not appear. Instead my profile picture has appeared which I have also tried to change with no successs. But you are right a photo of me would be more appropriate



kalikshama -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:13:34 PM)

I started getting a lot less mail after I finally changed my age to reflect that I'd turned 40 (which did take a few years, ok - 5 years.)

Wait! I'm not suggesting you lie about your age, but that you meet people in person. I'm active, and people always think I'm much younger than I am, sometimes 10 years younger.

fetlife.com is a great place to find BDSM events and others in the UK like https://www.informedconsent.co.uk/ as well.

Welcome!

KK

eta - just read your profile and see you are a member of your local BDSM club. If it's a small group, maybe try a bigger group not as local?




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:18:10 PM)

Welcome to the discussion side of CM, Bob.

You've gotten good advice as to your pics, but really, you are going to have to save yourself.

The UK is not all that big, and there are tons of local groups and munches. SO get out and meet real people. Also, hang on this forum side. There are some lovely ladies here who just might be on your side of the ocean.





peppermint -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:26:35 PM)

Attend events and wow those lady submissives with your super personality. My dom is 71 and we met at an event where he did wow me with his personality.   I do have one question.  Why is someone who is 70 or 68 too old for you? 

Anyway, welcome to Collarme. 



wtsbob -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:28:16 PM)

Ow, thank you for taking such trouble and giving me all that advice. I am a member of IC, TSR & Fetlife. Our local club is quite active but there never seems to to be many singles at the parties or munches.



Kaiel -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:30:32 PM)

Hello, welcome, and good luck!!!



wtsbob -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:33:47 PM)

Thanks for your advice. Don't know why really. Any age as long as they were "compos mentis"! (sp?) My two ex wives were both about 11 years younger than me so I suppose it is habit.



wtsbob -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:56:11 PM)

Thank you for your welcome and advice. I do go out to events. I've been once a month for the last 6 months to our well equiped local party at Cornwall Kink who you will find on FL if interested. I have lots of friends but never found a partner yet. My profile name on FL is RasputinTMM. One trouble is, I live near Lands End which is right down the SW of England and anywhere is a long way!

Bye the way, for some reason the photo upload (for me) on CM is not working at the moment



LadyHibiscus -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:58:45 PM)

It's true that your concept of "long way" is far different from an american's! Many of us travel an hour or more just to get to an event and think nothing of it.



wtsbob -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 2:59:17 PM)

Thanks for your wishes. Do you mean by "thread counts" replying to new profiles?



wtsbob -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 3:02:03 PM)

True x



DarkSteven -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 3:42:34 PM)

A sailor, living in Penzance? Beware the Pirates of Penzance!!!



wtsbob -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 3:49:23 PM)

I'll post you dreckly. Oggie Oggie Oggie.



hardcybermaster -> RE: SAVE ME FROM A VANILLA LIFE! Male Dom from Cornwall, UK (7/31/2012 4:02:44 PM)

dreckly!!!
lol, my partner is from cornwall so cornish subs do exist but possibly not in great numbers.

maybe you have to think about janners?

there's a pretty small pool of kinksters down there mate

good luck



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