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sweetecho -> RE: Feeling Beautiful... (6/9/2006 5:53:03 PM)
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Hi missturbation,
i saw this post scrolled while i was picking up messages, and i must say i, too, feel as slavejali does most every day.
My "secret": Never scrimp on femininity.
Be as feminine as You truly are, at all times ---
That may mean, for example. that you take the extra rest you need while you are menstruating. It may mean giving up some external obligation so that you can walk a mile for exercise. If You like mini-skirts, wear them. Make the people at work tell you that you can't before you assume that you can't. You may be surprised. And that goes for cleavage and fuck-me pumps, or whatever you like to wear that gives you the feminine edge.
It may mean shutting off your phone so that people do not bother you so that you can rest and do your toenails or take a bath.
Make sure you always have a little extra money to shop and have a regular massage. You need to buy something feminine for yourself as often as possible, even if it is something as small as a barette or hair pin.
Have someone else take care of your hair on a regular basis. Good hair is essential for feeling feminine.
Train yourself to walk well so that you can feel good about showing your legs and moving your hips.
Dress yourself up in jewelry.
Some days at work, i look like Mommy let me dress myself: i am in fun mode, and i do not match. i have on a bright yellow shirt with black capris and green sequined pumps. i have bracelets and rings and necklaces on, in abundance. So let yourself have fun like you did when you were playing dress-up as a little girl.
And smile at your silly self! Allow yourself to love you. After all, you are a submissive. You are defined by Beauty --- it is impossible to be anything else, and it is expected of you by the One who matters the most. (There are a lot of voices in our heads and in the culture at large that say it is not OK to be utterly feminine, or happy, or to be fine with who you are, just as you are.)
All in all, though, people are much more accommodating than i ever thought. People love having a truly feminine woman around. Everyone likes seeing cleavage and legs and good hips in motion. It is a relief from the drabness of the workplace and adds a little bounce to their day.
i am sure that many things i have said here are no secret to you, nor to the other submissives here, but it feels good to affirm them by talking about them here. i wish you well.
sweetecho
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