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RE: Feeling Beautiful... - 6/10/2006 2:28:44 PM

safira

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What a really nice post! It is funny, because this is the exact kind of day I have had today. Maybe it is in the air. :)
I went to do some running around, I wore a pretty, long black, gypsy looking skirt a sexy top and some jewlery...I left my long hair down...I didnt even have any make up on...and I had to laugh, as Men seemed to notice me more! I felt, as though my feminine side was glowing!!! It is a wonderful feeling, to know, you are beautiful, just being you.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts....made me smile :)

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RE: Feeling Beautiful... - 6/10/2006 2:32:58 PM

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I'm glad all of you have been having such beautiful moments.... I just hope that you remember that value is not about what you look like. At least for me -- I'd rather have a wonderful obedient slave than the most beautiful lazy/disobedient slave.

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RE: Feeling Beautiful... - 6/10/2006 3:10:47 PM

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Hello jali!!!

Thank you for that post!! There are definitely days i feel like that!! Last night was one of them!! i went to a class on Caning and other Impact play...i have been feeling down and felt much better last night!! i am working on feeling like that daily!! Tanning, dressing nicer than i do at work...lol, know what i mean???

Thank you again!!! Great topic and awesome replies!!!

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RE: Feeling Beautiful... - 6/10/2006 3:12:46 PM

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good for you, honestly good for you. i havent had a good day in a while. my slave gets those days alot, but lets not forget shes extremely bi-polar. she is very frisky on those days :)

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RE: Feeling Beautiful... - 6/10/2006 3:49:37 PM

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Thank you for sharing such a positive feeling jali. Just your sharing has improved my feelings for the day. May you have days like this often!

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RE: Feeling Beautiful... - 6/11/2006 9:42:40 PM

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*repsonse to all those that asked "how do i feel that way again?"*

Everyday should be a "i feel beautiful and special" day. To many spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, months. looking in the mirror or looking at themselves and finding something wrong with what they see or what they think they see. What everyone needs to start doing is look in the mirror or at themselves and say one positive thing about them selves ever day. Well for some, they should have to do this 2 or 3 times a day. A lady i've come to like and adore as a friend is a good example. she's beautiful, funny, kind, open, accepting and loving, and did i say beautiful? *s* yet sees herself poorly. How do you tell someome how wonderful they are when they refuse to listen?

I myself used to always laff at compliments or only see the bad. I still have my moments lol but I like myself now and I know i might not be the prettiest or the smartest but i have something to offer others. I have myself. *s* Not everyone is going to appreciate me, but that is ok too. You have to except and love yourself and admit that you are special and beautiful in many ways and you always have something to offer someone.

It's taken time and work but when i look in the mirror now I see someone special and beautiful, even if only in spirit. Lord knows i have flaws both physically and personality wise but those are things i can changee or improve with enough time and effort. I still have days where i feel like last weeks left over meatloaf, but those are few and far between. And mostly it seems to happen on those rare occasions when being single really gets to me. I have no problem with being single, but some days i really miss having someone to cuddle and talk to.

We absolutely have to stop only concentrating on the things we dislike about outselves. It is counter productive and detrimental to not only ourselves but to the relationships we have with those around us.
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jali, i'm glad you are feeling so completely great and wonderful today. I hope it continues *huggs*

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