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SexyThoughts -> RE: REMOTE BONDAGE with WEBCAM & KEY LOCKBOX. (8/3/2012 4:23:19 AM)
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ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961
WOW! Never expected all this gloom and doom. Thought I'd get more "Cool, I'm into it too!".
If we didn't give a shit about you, we'd be saying "go for it". Just because you don't like the risks, doesn't mean they magically don't exist. And the whole point of handcuffs is they stay locked, no matter what thoughts are in your head.
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it should have stated the whole thing would be a progression.
So you're progressing from safe to dangerous, and we point out the dangerous bit, and your reply is it's a progression so it starts off safe... the whole thing must be safe? I'm not sure that's a reassuring answer.
The problem with progressions, like sloping swimming pools, is that once you get too deep and you've removed your ability to swim, you need someone to rescue you.
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Starting with handcuffs in front an hour or two during the day here and there. Then behind the back, etc.
Working up to a possible hogtie.
it would not do a hogtie overnight, if ever, if it did not have some experience with it during the day for a short period of time. it also wants to build up trust with this Master also.
As the problem is the hogtie, unless you're a vampire, the time of day you're hogtied isn't the issue.
OK, and what happens if your master breaks your trust when you're hogtied? Or your internet goes out?
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And it would NEVER be gagged for this.
Will your neighbours rescue you if you wheeze for help?
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Guess it should have been more clear since everyone seems to be calling it an idiot of sorts. Part of the intrigue for it is that it is no way out bondage, that's it.
Being safe, means having a way out. As the unanswered question went, what happens if you need someone else onsite to get you out?
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Not many tops/Masters out there who would stop at bondage/control without trying to F, torture, fist, etc. the slave, if the slave was with them in person.
Maybe in the cyber world it's nothing but sex. But in the real world, you can probably find a someone who'll do it for practical stuff, if you mow their lawn or demonstrate some form of added value to their lives. A lot of people own leashed dogs that they don't fuck or torture, to get their enjoyment from their company. Don't over estimate your real world sex appeal.
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Why would a Master just tie someone up in real time? What does he get out of it?
I'm going to go out on limb and say you've never been to a Shibari demonstration in your life, have you?
Other reasons
Because they're trading something you like for something they'll like later on?
Because a restrained subbie getting off on the restraint, is asymmetric kink for the other person. They can catch up on their paperwork, read books, do stuff other than kink
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Also this way, it does not have to worry about what the Master looks like, smells like(cigarettes, etc.) It is more or less self bondage, where there is no way out until the Master gives it the code. Like it said before, it would have to trust this Master bigtime. It has this Master's emails, phone number, Skype, etc. already.
Awesome, all those contact details mean shit if he says No. Or he hasn't paid his bills and loses power. Or his mother kicks him off the computer.
In business there's a billion dollar phrase to learn when you manage. Genchi Genbutsu
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genchi_Genbutsu
It means when you're in charge of something, you have to go there to really understand. it. It applies to small things as well as big things
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