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BrodieSaysSit -> Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/2/2012 7:33:48 PM)

Bdsm couple, looking for.a fun time tonight some one or a couple who to chat, swap pictures, play truth or dare, or some kind of game. Boss us around, make us take pictures, or just trade stories... Let us know if u wanna play



Delilya -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/2/2012 8:26:02 PM)

good luck



ARIES83 -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/2/2012 9:24:28 PM)

Hmm, i'll pass but good luck.



TNDommeK -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/2/2012 9:51:13 PM)

Welcome to collarchat, where we discuss things, topics, etc. The other side is for ads and the like. Tell us about you guys. Things you like to do, places you like to go; we want to know those things about ya'll.



CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/2/2012 10:03:51 PM)

Welcome to the forums.
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BrodieSaysSit -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/2/2012 11:16:25 PM)

Thanks for the love people



GreedyTop -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/2/2012 11:19:16 PM)

dude, this is the second time that I know of that you have started a "tonight" kinda thread.

Stop.


Just Stop.

This is a message board for DISCUSSION, not hookups. YOu want hookups? go to AFF.

quote:

Bdsm couple, looking for.a fun time tonight some one or a couple who to chat, swap pictures, play truth or dare, or some kind of game. Boss us around, make us take pictures, or just trade stories... Let us know if u wanna play



Delilya -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/2/2012 11:24:41 PM)

I thought they looked familiar but did not go and see.



LadyPact -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 12:57:50 AM)

Welcome to the forums, OP. It's nice to see you start an introduction since the other thread didn't work out so well for you. Were you able to learn some things from it?

Anything else I say would get Me gold mail from the Mods, so I'm just going to wish you all of the luck that you are going to need.



GreedyTop -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 1:05:16 AM)

* loves me some LadyP*



BrodieSaysSit -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 3:13:21 AM)

I really just wamt ideas.... hookups.



BrodieSaysSit -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 3:17:49 AM)

Im shocked at how many people got mad at me, or commented something rude... Y cant u offer advice or tips since I clearly dont know what Im doing. I would appretiate it if someone came down from their high horse, and gave me some suggestions. Thank you



LanaDeVille -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 3:29:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BrodieSaysSit

Im shocked at how many people got mad at me, or commented something rude... Y cant u offer advice or tips since I clearly dont know what Im doing. I would appretiate it if someone came down from their high horse, and gave me some suggestions. Thank you


Because your posts come off like a personal advertisement, which not what this side is for. That stuff irks people.

And when you do it multiple times, people get testy.



ARIES83 -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 4:17:37 AM)

It's nothing personal but the forum is for
discussions on bdsm type stuff, people
don't like it when we get people comming
in and using the forum for advertising or
personals ads, so i duno what your going
to do... Newspaper personals? Dating sites?
the other side of collar me is good.

Some people on here may have contact info
for your local bdsm community.

Good luck to ya.

-ARIES



crazyml -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 4:27:07 AM)

Craigslist.

You're not going to get any action by posting hook-up ads on this part of the site. It's just not used that way.

I really do wish you all the best, and hope you really get a chance to get your groove on.

But if you're not able to get your head around the idea that hookup invites aren't welcomed, or likely to be fruitful, here then it could be that the best thing you can do is take your computer back to the shop.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 5:28:14 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BrodieSaysSit

Bdsm couple, looking for.a fun time tonight some one or a couple who to chat, swap pictures, play truth or dare, or some kind of game. Boss us around, make us take pictures, or just trade stories... Let us know if u wanna play



quote:

ORIGINAL: BrodieSaysSit

I really just wamt ideas.... hookups.




quote:

ORIGINAL: BrodieSaysSit

Im shocked at how many people got mad at me, or commented something rude... Y cant u offer advice or tips since I clearly dont know what Im doing. I would appretiate it if someone came down from their high horse, and gave me some suggestions. Thank you



Where do I start?

First you chose to post an advert for "kinky fun tonight" in the introductions section of a discussion board. You know, where we discuss things. AND not for the first time, you got shot down. You are a slow learner.

Second, you used text speak. This makes you appear lazy and careless.

Do you want ideas, or hookups? Your second post doesn't make that clear, which segues quite beautifully into three: You are a poor communicator.

When you didn't get the response you wanted (again) b/c you posted a completely inappropriate intro, you got pissy (again).

The only people you are going to find to hook up with you will be as passive aggressive, pissy, and ignorant as your own fine self. Thus, you will continue to learn nothing.

But, welcome to the discussion side of CM.



Killerangel -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 5:38:24 AM)

It's not 'just' the second hookup attempt, she's been here before that with:

An attempt to drive traffic to their site - http://www.collarchat.com/m_4161736/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4161736
Birthday surprise - http://www.collarchat.com/m_4155496/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4155496
A thread about needing help (which received a lot of compassionate replies) -
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3920202/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3920202

I listed the other threads because people here like to have context and I think it's appropriate in cases where the OP has been around with other things.

Look, OP, I won't put down my personal opinion, I'll just say that you've used the forums now for some time. You should see that it's a place for people to come and discuss topics- which you have done in the past. It's not a bulletin board for hookups. If you want the hookups go troll for them through your profile or on another site that is designed for that. I mean haven't you noticed that you're really not getting anywhere by putting your hookup ads on here? Why keep trying? I mean if something is important to you then figure out how to get it, I can say though it's not going to happen here on Collarchat.




BrodieSaysSit -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 10:50:49 AM)

Im not looking for someone, so craigslist n stuff wont help me. Im sorry I
Keep putting that off. Me and my bf just want someone to give us suggestions or advice from personal experiances.... If u have ideas for a bdsm couple to try out, please give me some ideas.



Endivius -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 11:12:22 AM)

I hear porn has all kinds of kinky ideas. Could be a rumor.[8|]



OsideGirl -> RE: Couple wanting to play with others. Chat, trade, games (8/3/2012 11:58:09 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BrodieSaysSit

Im not looking for someone, so craigslist n stuff wont help me. Im sorry I
Keep putting that off. Me and my bf just want someone to give us suggestions or advice from personal experiances.... If u have ideas for a bdsm couple to try out, please give me some ideas.



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