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LordAnteros -> To Switch or Not to Switch, That is The Question. (8/3/2012 9:25:35 AM)
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Hello all,
I am LordAnteros. I primarily Dom but am finding that I would like a balance of the dynamics for myself. After talking it over with my primary sub, we both think I should expand my experiences. He has been a wonderful part of my life and growth within BDSM. His trust in me is something I treasure, as well as his genuine concern for our needs
When it comes to both Domming and subbing, I fall on the sensual end of things. I already live with chronic pain, so the receiving of additional pain is kind of a waste of time and effort with me. It does nothing. I can give pain since this is something my sub needs but when it comes to receiving it, a total turn off.
While I have experience, limited to cam and RP so far, I would like to find a sub play partner willing to travel to me for play sessions. I am open to trying new kinks if we negotiate the details carefully before hand. My style of Dominance is somewhat gentle but incredibly firm. I prefer to work a sub into begging for what they need and bringing their senses to the limit.
As for subbing... I have had two experiences with FemDoms that were very positive. While I am gay and there was no real sexual content to the experiences, it was still incredible from just the kink factor and experiencing sensations. I am open to having a male Dom, with the understanding that it will not overlap with the sub I already have. I also have a mentor, one of the FemDoms I mentioned. She has been teaching me the ins and outs of the lifestyle and what is acceptable and not. Given my inexperience and limitations physically, I need a Dom that has the patience and control to deal with a total newbie and keep their cool if I ask a lot of questions. Again, my preference is for a Dom willing to come to me or meet me at least part way. Travel is difficult but possible.
I hope this gives you somewhat of an idea of who I am, what I am seeking and if it interests you, be welcome to message me for further talk and exploration of possibilities. I am pretty open to many things except for the hard limits listed and some others that are not.
LordAnteros
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