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RE: How do your co-workers perceive you? - 8/7/2012 1:54:12 PM

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They are jealouse. I have been in the pool and traveling around while they are stuck behind their desk. I stopped in and visited with them today. Of course wearing shorts to show off my tan. My boss cant believe how much weight I have loss.

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RE: How do your co-workers perceive you? - 8/7/2012 2:08:43 PM

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This came up in another thread, and I was just curious: How do your co-workers perceive you?

As a rather 'mumsy' person who loves working with her kids. As someone who is usually pretty well organised and passionate about teaching and learning.

Are you out about your kink?

No, not at all. It could affect my career if it was known, so I keep it to myself. Not so much hiding anything as not wanting to discuss the details of my private life with colleagues.

Do they think you're a prude?

They don't think I'm prudish - I teach sex ed. and they know I have no problem discussing anything and everything with my students and with other staff, if need be

Do they suspect that your home life is a little bit different?

They might think I'm a little old to have a 'boyfriend' who doesn't live with me, but that's about it.

Do what degree do you try to disguise or gloss over your BDSM life at work?

It never comes up. I don't discuss my sex life with my colleagues - I find it a little tacky, to be honest. So no-one has any idea that I'm a masochistic slave.

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RE: How do your co-workers perceive you? - 8/8/2012 8:06:45 AM

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At work I am very vanilla if you asked my co workers what type of person i am they would say Type A dominate male. i do make some off hand remarks at times but nothing to draw to much attention. just a little shock every now and them. If they new what i was wearing under my clothes they would be surprised.

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RE: How do your co-workers perceive you? - 8/8/2012 8:32:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: sheisreeds

This came up in another thread, and I was just curious: How do your co-workers perceive you?

Are you out about your kink?

This is a bit different for me because, while I have an office that I go to, occasionally, I don't really socialize much with the other people there. I don't spend a whole lot of time there. I don't "hide" anything, ever but it's not like I'm a leather-wearing type like the guy in the Village People.

I work with a bunch of ladies that are "holy rollers" and a couple that are members of P.E.T.A. they have commented on my assortment of leather jackets and my only response has been: "I like leather. I like the way it feels, smells, blocks the cold wind and keeps me warm"

That's really about it.

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Do they think you're a prude?

I am almost positive that most of the people I work with think I am a prude. I have lived alone for a long time. I've been divorced since forever and I don't really discuss my personal life around the office.

However ...

I spend a good deal of time, meeting with clients. I have gotten quite friendly with a couple of them and have - to a very small degree - let my guard down. One guy started inviting me to little parties that their company sponsored on a bi-weekly basis and when I showed up with a lady that wasn't the same one I had shown up with before that, he pulled me to the said and asked a question.

"You and the brunette broke up?", he asked.

"No, I still see her."

"Aren't you afraid someone's going to 'spill the beans'?"

"I keep no secrets. They know each other"

That's about as far as I let my guard down. To me, it's about being as honest as I can be without being stoopit.

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Do they suspect that your home life is a little bit different?

I suspect that most of them (the holy rollers) think that I'm a sad, broken, divorced man who spends my free time pining away for the woman who "completed" me because, obviously, it was she who initiated the divorce. As far as kink? I'm sure they have no clue what-so-ever.

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Do what degree do you try to disguise or gloss over your BDSM life at work?

I would never out-and-out lie about anything. If someone approached me at work and asked about my dating life/living arrangements, I would asnwer as generally as possible. If they asked about my sex life, I would smile and suggest that work is not the place to speak about such things.

If they're interested (not in a nosey way) in finding out more, they all know where I am on Tuesday nights (Karaoke) when I socialize.

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RE: How do your co-workers perceive you? - 8/8/2012 10:17:38 PM

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My co-workers think I am a very nice man. So do my clients.

No one at work knows anything about my proclivities, except that I have no known girlfriend, and don't date anyone from work.

Some of them think I am a prude. The real sluts don't thinks so, though, because I don't look down on them, or hit on them. They think I am a very nice man.

Oh, almost everyone where I work is female. My boss, my boss's boss, my boss's boss'e boss are all Women.

One very vanilla lady heard me respond to a request to do something with "Your least whim is my most ardent desire." once, and said "You really know how to make women happy, don't you."

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RE: How do your co-workers perceive you? - 8/9/2012 2:13:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: ARIES83

I don't tell anybody anything and talk pretty
much exactly like I probably sound in my
posts but, I must give off some vibe because
everyone seems to think theres something
diffrent about me...

Most of the time they think I'm a serial killer
though... I have absolutly no idea why.
The friends I've made there are the ones who
can't see it or were brave enough to get to
know me heh.

-ARIES

Well you do have the "psychotic eye" thing going for you lol reminds of WWE's Kane (in a good way) lol

I work from home and I thank my Bellissimo Dio that my walls can't talk lol

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