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Kana -> RE: Question for The Daddys (8/6/2012 9:37:26 PM)
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I dunno bout baby girls cuz I don't do the Daddy thing but I can say that a BDSM breakup can be a brutal thing. Last serious breakup I went through was after a 4 year relationship and it took about 18 months before I was really healed enough to be ready to give things another shot.
The feelings? Anger, remorse, much sadness, deep regrets over errors I had made, general unhappiness that things had not worked out, and hardest of all, dealing with the loss of hope that the relationship might be salvageable.
And ya know what?
After I came out on the other end of the pain, the experience had profoundly (As always) changed me as a person, a man and as a dominant. Going through the crucible of pain left me a kinder, gentler, more empathic and compassionate person, far more vulnerable emotionally, and thus, far more capable of being in a healthy relationship than I had hitherto been.
No BS here. Many of the reasons that the relationship I am currently in is so great can be found in the ashes of prior relationships gone south. Everything that I am as a dominant and as a partner, all that I know, has been taught to me by the great women I have been blessed to have in my life. And that means all, the good, the bad, the utterly insane. Each one of the women I have loved has left her footprints on my heart and I am eternally grateful for their love and how it has helped me grow.
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