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seekingreality -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/6/2012 7:44:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessNicky Can any of you explain to me why so many "subs" flake out on us Domme's? In real life, not many subs are into financial domination. So you are basically running a business where there is a lot of competition and relatively few customers. If you want to operate this business, you have to accept that part of the cost of doing business is that most of the people who contact you just want some online kicks and masturbatory material and then will disappear long before they pull out their wallets. That even happens to dommes who are looking for a genuine relationship. But it will be the recurrent pattern for dommes who are looking primary for money. Subs don't mind using you for their entertainment online because they don't view you as a human being, anymore than you are looking at subs at human beings. If you treat people as human wallets, why do you expect them to treat you with any respect? So, if you're going to operate this business, just accept it and quit whining.

lizi -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/6/2012 9:37:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven From your profile: "any submissive who is TRULY submissive can contact me if you care to be owned. I require an application and a slavery contract. Keep in mind, that I owe you NOTHING in return, you will be OWNED by me and be grateful for being my property. " You are filtering out all genuine subs with that. Not sure she's looking for genuine subs, just ones who will actually give her money and not just say that they will.

brutalmaster1 -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 12:57:09 PM)
i have spent so much time on fakes, i know scare real people away; constantly seeking for links to the real, or vanilla word, drives them crazy. how and when do you check if one is fake or not??

searching4mysir -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 1:01:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: brutalmaster1 i have spent so much time on fakes, i know scare real people away; constantly seeking for links to the real, or vanilla word, drives them crazy. how and when do you check if one is fake or not?? Define "fake"

myotherself -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 1:25:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: brutalmaster1 i have spent so much time on fakes, i know scare real people away; constantly seeking for links to the real, or vanilla word, drives them crazy. how and when do you check if one is fake or not?? If I was single and saw your profile, you would not fit what I consider to be 'Master material' and I'd pass you by. That doesn't make you fake, or me fake, it just means we're not looking for the same thing. Invest somt time getting to know someone, try to connect beyond the kink and maybe, just maybe, you'll find what you're looking for.

seekingreality -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 1:36:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: brutalmaster1 i have spent so much time on fakes, i know scare real people away; constantly seeking for links to the real, or vanilla word, drives them crazy. how and when do you check if one is fake or not?? Based on your profile, I'd say a big part of the issue is you are so narrowly kink focused. Everything about your profile is kink, kink, kink. And if you start off relating to people on simply a kink level, you are more likely to draw fakes. For the most part, very few subs want a dom who bursts into a room and screams, "I am a brutal master and I am only about pain" (which is pretty much what your profile says. You have to win them over as a person before you can win them over as a dom. if you start off with the dom stuff, you're mostly playing to people who want some quick online fun. How do you check if they're fake or not? Be more real yourself. That will drive the fakes away.

OsideGirl -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 2:03:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: brutalmaster1 i have spent so much time on fakes, i know scare real people away; constantly seeking for links to the real, or vanilla word, drives them crazy. how and when do you check if one is fake or not?? I'll give you a pass on the writing since English isn't your first language, but the profile is all about you. You offer nothing other than YOUR kink to the submissive/bottom.

TNDommeK -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 2:03:50 PM)
How long do I have to continue being good? This thread is just too awesome

ARIES83 -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 2:56:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK How long do I have to continue being good? This thread is just too awesome Arn't you on a final warning or was that someone else? Be good! BTW, how much for a set of post workout panties K? Enquiring minds want to know! -ARIES

TNDommeK -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 6:10:22 PM)
I am trying to be good, and yes I am on final warning. As far as My panties, I do believe someone said that "my money will never fall into your hot little hands"...so the cost of My panties, post or pre workout, is of no consequence good sir. ;) ^^Notice it said "hot" hands..that's right. lol[:D]

CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 6:28:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK I am trying to be good, and yes I am on final warning. Me too... Welcome to the forums. [image]http://cdn.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/573245/909030.gif[/image]

MsLadySue -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 6:48:33 PM)
This to keep both of you out of trouble. LOL [image]local://upfiles/73159/DE51292536894BF0809E31735C1FB9BD.jpg[/image]

TNDommeK -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 7:42:43 PM)
Is it bad that I am a finDomme, but have fun poking fun at the others?? Well at least the ones with bird fingers and duck lips.

ARIES83 -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 7:59:06 PM)
Haha, maybe I wanted to know so I can under sell you! I'm gonna start selling my Underpant-shorts for half price! To tell truth... I don't want to wear them again after I've worked out in them [:'(] -ARIES

TNDommeK -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/7/2012 8:13:58 PM)
Ha, throat cutting whore!! [;)] I think it's gross that they want that,lol. But whatever floats their boat, [:'(]

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Flaky Subs (8/8/2012 11:37:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessNicky Can any of you explain to me why so many "subs" flake out on us Domme's? FR: They saw, they came, they split. If you're just about money you can expect that over and over.

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