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frustration! - 8/6/2012 9:41:45 PM

chemeli

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i just need to rant........and maybe be an attention whore, i dont care.

I feel like it should *always* click when i'm speaking to Doms. When something just doesnt, i dont get why?! The guy is handsome, he seems smart and articulate and yet, no curiosity, not even a slight. He talks to me, asks me questions, i answer them and i wait for the curiosity and interests to come out and then, nothing.

I hate that, it feels like i'm wasting someone's time when i DONT want that and arrrrghhh!!!!! Frustration ensue, hence the smileys.

Thanks for reading.....the venting is done

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RE: frustration! - 8/6/2012 9:49:11 PM

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I don't feed attention whores... (oops I guess I just did)

It happens.. sometimes things don't click.. you'll get over it.

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RE: frustration! - 8/6/2012 9:50:52 PM

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thank you, i really just needed to rant :)

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RE: frustration! - 8/6/2012 9:58:30 PM

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Just like any kind of relationship, here or nilla, there has to be some sense of chemistry. There is nothing wrong for not feeling that zing.

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RE: frustration! - 8/6/2012 10:24:00 PM

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In a non-D/s relationship I dated a body builder once that I had major chemistry with in the bedroom, but then on the phone or online he was a dud. When I took to making notes throughout the day so I'd have something to talk about when he called, I regretfully told myself to let it go. He was good looking, had a body to die for, and was fun in bed, smart (worked for NASA as a programmer), but I just couldn't take the banal conversation.

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RE: frustration! - 8/7/2012 4:15:46 AM

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I actually hate that by now I feel I am soon wasting my time with the guys I am getting in touch with...seriously, the time they have to find a connection with me or end up in my trash is very short now indeed

I think it's a shame that this is how my patience developed online but the majority chucks themselves out anyway with their false impression, because they met you online you are free flash to immediately grab for in inappropriate ways...I think it's time for the bin men to come to pick up my trash here again

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RE: frustration! - 8/7/2012 8:20:11 AM

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People always connect on some basic level, but you need more. It will come, don't worry.! And sometimes it's just the day, or extraneous things that prevent even the closest people from feeling connected. Those pass too.

You'll be ok!

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RE: frustration! - 8/7/2012 9:52:19 AM

chemeli

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Thank you so much for the support everyone :)

yourdarkdesire, thank you :)

Lizi, thank you for sharing. I agree that you should connect through more then sex.

PhoenixPower, it's basically how i feel, but i feel i waste someone else's time..... i never think i could waste my own in the same process, but it's true.

RemoteUser, thank you :)

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