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AAkasha -> RE: Question... (8/8/2012 4:03:12 PM)
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Hiya Mistress D and welcome to the wonderful world of femdom!
My first piece of advice: Make sure you are honestly, truly, panty-moistening into femdom. Otherwise, trust me, there are better ways to spend your time. If you are think online domination is a fun way to make money from "easy online slaves" since everyone seems to be doing it, well, it's not.
My web site has been up for ages (1995. Damn I feel old!) Some subs basically watched me "grow up" online. Hell, the WWW was almost all text when I came on. We did "hot chat" because there was no video anyway. My site has a member side now, so yes, I do make money. And I do "online trainings" and "email trainings" for fee now and then, yes. And when I say now and then, "I will offer specialized training" some men contact me right away and want to do it, yes. So women do ask me, "how can I do that too? That's what I want to do, I like that kind of thing, I enjoy it! And I mean it, I am good at it!"
Ok - first, get a web site. Second, post content. Regularly. Like, at least three times a week, so you have an audience. Third, wait ten years.
Yes. Ten years. A decade.
I posted, I wrote, I grew a web site for TEN YEARS before it went pay. Not with the intent to do it. It just was a matter of circumstance. I never intended any of it. The thing is, my audience grew, and people know I am who I say I am, and the men that choose to submit to me vs. someone they read an ad from on CM's personals is because they have been reading my site for maybe 3 months maybe 3 years and they feel like they know me. There are hundreds, thousands of "online femdoms" competing for business and most subs don't know if they are real, or if they are men pretending to be women, or if they are scams.
And as for guys sending gifts? Very few do, seriously. You think my mailbox is overflowing from generous men? Not really. I have a few VERY special men who treat me VERY well -- but again, these men knew me for probably at least 3, 4 or 5 years before ever giving me a gift of any kind and it was from the heart, and now we gift each other. I sent one boy things like girlie presents and he sents me gift cards to the spa to use with my friends.
But most important is this: When I am "working" in a transactional way (ie. I am offering services for fee to a submissive man via email training or whatever), I am earning every dollar - and hour per hour, it's at a lower rate, by far, than what I earn at my job, but it's a more enjoyable and unpredictable type of work, so I do it. I also do it very, very sporadically - a few weeks here and there, then stop for 3 or 4 months. Depends on free time from work and my energy level and femdom "mindframe" and lust levels, pure and simple)
If you honestly enjoy it, then prepare yourself for a non paid internship for at least a year, that's my best advice. Dominate guys online just to get off and have fun. I did it for ten years, because I love it (I still do!) I love writing, reading, I love cyber domination, phone domination. I just got tired of giving it away, having it stolen and all the perils that came with an evolving internet once it exploded so I had to tighten up the controls a little after a decade, but the first 10 years were a hell of a ride, and many on these boards remember "it back in the day"!
Akasha
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