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Suleiman -> RE: Forced bi (11/4/2004 12:56:40 PM)
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I've always likened "forced bi" to a form of play rape. In some cases, I have known people who really did not like being with their own gender (i have been told, by those with a sense of smell, that some times a person simply "smells wrong". I suppose that makes sense, considering the perfume industry is three thousand years old), but who enjoyed the humiliation of being forced into a homoerotic embrace by their owner. This is more frequently a male thing than a female thing, but that is likely due to basic cultural imperatives instilled in us. For the most part, however, if a person is willing to admit that they enjoy forced bi, then I would have to call them "closet bi" - there is something about it that they really enjoy and are willing to seek out, even if it is within a larger d/s framework. After all, it only takes finding the right daddy to go from forced bi (at the behest of one's female lover) to play rape, right?
Also, as an after thought, while I am of the opinion that most people are "a little bit bi", most folks are not highly aroused by their own gender. Thus, while it makes a fun scene once in a while, it's not something they would want to persue as part of a relationship. Since the collarme profiles don't have a "90/10 bi" category, "forced bi" becomes an easy switch to toggle to indicate your interest.
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