LanaDeVille
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Do you also get upset if a cook wears a chef's outfit? Plus this is entertainment, how much success do you think "pro dommes in baggy clothes" would have? Yes it is expected that pro dommes have fetish wear, it's part of the appeal for most of the guys, there aren't a lot of them who say "please wear a burlap sack" and most pro dommes also like fetish clothes, to the point that they might have a fetish for a material themselves. As for it being over the top, errr, not really, I would say underplayed a lot and made palatable and non-offensive for general viewers. I believe that a lot of people outside of of BDSM don't differentiate between Pros and Lifestyle Dommes. Do I expect a Pro to look sexy to appeal to clients? Definitely. Or else how is one going to compete with so many? And if she enjoys dressing that way, then she should. However, it doesn't mean that I like how those same outside people see a sexy Pro Domme and get it in their head that "This is how all Dommes are/should be." Because then male subs contact me with that notion in their head and some can't shake the idea that a Domme can possibly be different. It's almost like you popped the bubble they've been blowing up with their fantasies. I think that could be avoided if someone decided to focus on something other than stereotypical Femdom imagery for once. It's almost all I see, which is why I am irked to some degree. I'd much rather see a reality series about Lifestyle couples and their everyday lives or something. I meant her behavior seemed overtly dramatic to me. It seemed faked. I think the subject matter was very tame. I can think of many more appalling things than wrestling.
< Message edited by LanaDeVille -- 8/14/2012 3:50:22 PM >
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