RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute

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AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/12/2012 9:32:07 AM)
Whoa Diva I think you misunderstood my intentions! I wasn't meaning to make fun of you, I was just trying to tease LadyPact. I'm sorry if I offended you, and I'm sure others will verify that I'm not (intentionally) a spiteful poster.

DivaToes -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/12/2012 9:36:40 AM)
Thank you. I don't know any of you so I didn't know how to take it. quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders Whoa Diva I think you misunderstood my intentions! I wasn't meaning to make fun of you, I was just trying to tease LadyPact. I'm sorry if I offended you, and I'm sure others will verify that I'm not (intentionally) a spiteful poster.

GreedyTop -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/12/2012 9:55:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Wait a minute...... Wait a minute. So, you're saying that if I don't have Twitter, a personal web page, or have some NiteFlirt identity that I'm not verifiable? This is the distinction these days? Thank goodness I'm just an old leather chick out in the community. A person who doesn't want to get caught up in the electronic clap trap isn't weal and twue. Yep. Sorry, we've finally sussed you out. Man, for a fake you sure put a lot of effort into convincing us though. I mean, how many scammers go to the trouble of holding down long term D/s relationships, teaching workshops, getting recognition in the community and making over twenty-thousand message board posts, just to look genuine? You make the other fakers and scammers look bad LadyPact. DivaToes, just a heads up: AThena not only replied directly to LadyP, she named her in the post. That is normally a clue that it is directed at a specific poster. Generally, if you float around several different areas of these message boards, you'll get a feel for the personalities. Since all the forums are open to anyone regardless of gender/orientation checking ALL the forums (not necessarily all the threads LOL) will allow you to familiarize yourself with the personalities that populate this circus [:D]

JhonP -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/12/2012 9:57:58 AM)
quote: Money is not the issue, but I got scammed a few times and feel really stupid send money and get scammed again :( You are absolutely right, money is not the issue. You are a male, males pay in one way or another. Think for a moment of the last time you took a lady to dinner, followed that dinner with a few drinks and dancing. What was the cost? In most cased one can buy a whore with a whip for far less money and not have to put up with the defenses, insecurities and plastic personality. Of course you pay, stop trying to get around it and chose how best to spend your time and money.

GreedyTop -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/12/2012 10:06:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JhonP quote: Money is not the issue, but I got scammed a few times and feel really stupid send money and get scammed again :( You are absolutely right, money is not the issue. You are a male, males pay in one way or another. Think for a moment of the last time you took a lady to dinner, followed that dinner with a few drinks and dancing. What was the cost? In most cased one can buy a whore with a whip for far less money and not have to put up with the defenses, insecurities and plastic personality. Of course you pay, stop trying to get around it and chose how best to spend your time and money. why are you still here? it appears that you have issues not only with this site, but with the whole dom/sub thing. Perhaps, returning to the vanilla (although conflicted) thing would suit you best? That way you could FULLY indulge in the guilt/ emotional self-flagellation thing that you seem to so desire...

DivaToes -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/12/2012 10:48:22 AM)
:) Yeah, I definitely have to get with the protocol

TNDommeK -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/12/2012 10:52:36 AM)
I used to not mention certain things regarding tribute and such, but I kept getting so many emails from people asking Me about any garments I sold or bills they could pay that I eventually posted it on my profile. However, I am the type of person who enjoys talking to the subs to get to know them before anything is exchanged. I may not even like them or their fetishes may not match mine. I think all this is important when entering in this type of relationship. But I also say go with what works for you. I may not do My domming the way another does it, pro or not. I just do what I am comfy with and so far so good. But I think it is important for a fin/pro to say that upfront.

LadyPact -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/13/2012 1:29:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DivaToes :) Yeah, I definitely have to get with the protocol Lots of inside jokes around here and friendly teasing among those who get along well. You'll see how this goes the more you participate.

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