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myotherself -> RE: limits... how to express them accurately (8/12/2012 2:56:16 AM)
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
so basically you want a traditional relationship with all the wooing, seduction and waiting. Nothing at all wrong with that. It's what Master and I have and how we met. You just need to put that in your profile and make it clear. I don't find anything at all with what you want.
The problem is you are responding to boys who are just looking for an easy lay and I hate to tell ya but the majority are of this type on here. You just need to weed out those who are more compatible with what you seek. I wouldn't put what you want as a limit. I would just say what I said above...seeking a traditional courting, long term, loving relationship where you want to wait to have sex until you feel you both are what each is seeking.
Good luck.
^^^^This.
It's how Master and I started and, two years later, we're glad we did it this way.
I didn't describe 'no sex' in terms of a bdsm limit because, up until I was sure he was the right one for me, there wasn't any bdsm involved. We went to the movies, went out for dinner, went for walks...all that romantic stuff. Once we agreed we had something special, he put his collar on me and so the next part of our journey began [:D]
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