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MHOO314 -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/11/2006 6:14:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

I'm impressed that his favorite poem is by Rudyard Kipling.
I think I'll go browse all of his other posts and see what else I might learn!
See? I don't always 'ragg' one's writing style!

; )

TM


You are priceless, I was doing ok until the poem, the relevance of that lost Me.




LadyHugs -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/11/2006 6:45:42 PM)

Dear chains314, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I am so pleased to see that you took my advice and bare your soul to the readers.  Hopefully, they will appreciate the blessings they have and see the price paid by a brave veteran that exists in our lifestyle.  So many among us, are growing old and becoming disabled due to age.  Some have been injured or have illness that have caused disabilities.  Until someone walks in your shoes a bit, would they start understanding how hard it is to exist on a long term basis.  Hopefully, your story will inspire others to speak as a member of the community at large, with disabilities and perhaps inspire more including workshops, dungeons and the like.
 
I agree to the advice of using your "talk to type" program in Word Processor, WordPad, NotePad or something similar, if you use Apple/Mac PC's. Then highlight, copy and paste into the box, preview and hit the "OK" button.
 
I do understand, that those with disabilities do not seek pity or sub-standards but, just some patience and understanding, as you work through the frustrations in the world of communication.  However, I am pleased to the change in the 'tone' since you came forward with your personal side. 
 
Keep up the good work.  Know that it is ok to be 'as is,' and you have a place in the lifestyle.
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs
 
 




Rayne58 -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/11/2006 7:13:43 PM)

Using fast reply:

Master does not type well. To Him sometimes words look right when they are wrong, and vice versa. He tends to get "your" and "you're" and "there" and "their" mixed up, among others. He did not get more than a high school education. Most of His jobs were manual labouring until He became ill.

I on the other hand have no problem with spelling or grammar. I've got a university diploma and have worked as a teacher aide. He often asks me to spell check His posts and emails, or if He's spelled a word correctly. I don't think any less of Him for that, I just consider it a part of my service to Him [:)]

He has tried the voice to type thing but it couldn't understand His Australian accent.....[:D]




mantis65 -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/11/2006 10:07:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

using spell checker don't cut it moist is a real word, but you want the word most. Spell checker won't catch that seance is actually what people who belive in ghosts use to contact the other world dead. Sense is an entirely differnt word. Spell check only proves the word used is spelled right, not that it is the correct word.

You don't have to be a intellectual idiot as you put it to be a sub but it does help to sound and look literate.

People judge thats the simple fact of life. I wouldn't be interested in someone who didn't take the time to make sure they were mostly at least halfway understandable regardless of age or not.  It's lazyness to not make sure that at least half of what you say is understandable.  It's not being able to type well or spell well. It's lack of effort to make sure what you are typing is ledgible or at least the correct word.


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ORIGINAL: chains314

Well no i would not say i was proud of not being able to type nor am i up set over it some folks can type and others cant but that is not the point hear .if one cant under stand my profile or the e mail i send it is readable i use spell check and i don't criticize other folks short comings then i guess thy should find a rouge scholar as a sub . i was not aware that a sub needed to be a typist or intellectual idiot to be a sub i got more good common séance the moist folks that run around finding fault in others to make them self look smart when we seek out fault in others its normally to hide our own . i just ask a simple question about age .



oh thought he was looking for "moist folks"? my spelling sucks also thats why I  spell check

I am dyslexic so i figure i wil mess up all the big words




mantis65 -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/11/2006 10:22:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Delightb32

Not only is sarcasm the lowest form of humor, but it is also the weapon of the weak. 



Oh who said that? Hitler? Stalin Pol Pot or some other megalomaniac with a stick implanted in a horizontal rectal position.

Sarcasm the houmer which knocks down monumental self important asshats - me




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/11/2006 11:28:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SeekingaServant

Ps. I'm still dying to know what the heck an "acer" is. Is it a regional slang term? I'm always willing to learn new terms.


An acer is obviously the opposite of a deucer.

Anybody up for a game of Acey deucey?




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/11/2006 11:46:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: readyandwilling

Thank-you for all the wonderfully positive and overwhelmingly respectful comments. This site and its ever welcoming and accepting nature never fails to amaze me.

THIS is what i was talking about: Aoccdrnig to a rsecheearr at an Elingsh uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is that frist and lsat ltteer is at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae we do not raed ervey lteter by itslef but the wrod as a wlohe.

Translation: According to a researcher at an English university, it doesn't matter in what order the letters in a word are, the only important thing is that first and last letter is at the right place. The rest can be a total mess and you can still read it without a problem. This is because we do not read every letter by itself but the word as a whole.

NOW that was not the point of my post, the point was get over things on the outside things and look inside. It just makes me sad that ppl cannot answer a simple and honest question without putting someone down in the process. Remember karma A/all. So back to the question the chains asked: Does age matter?? chains to some it might but like i said before there is someone out there for you and if you just give it time and dont let ppl get you down you will find Her. i wish you the best of luck in your search.

~respectfully~
chell


chell,

Not to pick nits, but I found the first version above took more time and effort to read than the second version.  Not that I was unable to make it out, but it was more work.  Yes, we do read words as a whole, but a lot of that, at least for me, is recognizing the shape of a word.  When all the middle letters are out of order, it takes more effort to make out what it says.

Personally, I don't think OP's real problem is his age or his lack of writing skills.  I think it's his defensive attitude, his interpreting all critiscism as personal attacks that require personal counter attacks, rather than something to consider and perhaps learn from.

While I detest the word "True" when used before the words "dominant" or "submissive," I don't think that lashing out at anyone who offers a constructive critiscism to be the mark of a "true submissive."




carolsea -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 12:00:06 AM)

I'm amazed that this thread is still getting attention.  sheesh lol




Proprietrix -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 7:10:30 AM)

I don't know if it even matters at this point, but, ummm

"acer" in the OP ....  = "care"

And I didn't have a problem with the guy's writing skills or his age.
It's his attitude that became the turn-off.




DoraExplorer -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 7:56:09 AM)

Awwww come on.... it's car crash TV (on the PC....) at its best!




chains314 -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 8:18:25 AM)

All this over one question Lord only knows war it would go if i ask it again




wild1cfl -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 8:32:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: chains314

It seams a bit one sided if a dommie has missspeld words or type os its fine but thy expet perfecton from outhers and lack it in ther self when i run spell check it also checks thear posting and maby 1 out of 100 will ever be perfict .It makes one wonder if thay seek a true service sub or a scollar


Chains,
I am a horrible typist, but I do know how to spell. I always look over my typing to make sure that I have not misspelled words that I commonly do. I always misspell and as adn, and to as ot. My suggestion is that you take a bit more time in posting so that you are spelling correctly.
Now as far as the original question, my wife is a Dominant female who has had a live in male slave before. He was 58 and she was 40 when she met him and 60 when she agreed to collar him. She was not concerned about his age, what was more important to her was that he was an intelligent, well spoken and truly nice guy to be with. He was happy to rub her feet at night or brush her hair. She enjoyed some BDSM activities with him as well, but more importantly he was and always remained a gentleman, never rebuking her for any reason. I hope that you will read this and understand that this is meant to be constructive and not as a personal attack, you could learn much if you would do so with many of the posts here.

Wild




BBBTBW -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 9:39:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: chains314

Thank You Lady Hugs for Your response to this post You or right i should let folks know why i cant type right and the spelling is a night mar .I am normaley left handed I was in the war we never won or should not have even ben in USMC and lost the moist of the use of my left hand and wrist i Had to learn to do every thing right handed moist things or not that much different except writing or typing i think left handed as duos a right handed person think right handed so i know the spelling but to type it i got to watch the key board or the monitor to see if it is right what my mind seas to type comes out some thing else .But i try my best to get it as readable as possible . When i get frustrated it gets worse so i generally use a program called talk and type it works pretty well but for some reason it duos not work on this site for any thing . I do apologize to the folks on line that made comments i should not have gotten up set with them . wee all have some special trait in us that makes us us mine is building i own a company that reproduces or restores old Victorian homes i employ 9 other folks each has some type of disability but each has a special gift for the work thy do in some way thy or artiest .We became the best company in this Field in the state we did it with 10 handy caped people thats why i never criticize any one for mistakes thy make because i don't know what special trait thy may have that would make me look silly doing what thy do best . One time a reporter ask Henry Ford how a man with as Little education as he Had could run ford motor company he pointed to the speaker box on his desk and sead when i need it dune it gets dune he Had good people around him to do it that how big things get dune . Thanks Agni for being hear for folks like me have fun chains


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ORIGINAL: chains314

i have been in this live style forover 25 years now i cant find a Mistress that wonts a true service sub some say to old others just never acer at all


quote:

All this over one question Lord only knows war it would go if i ask it again


an all the others in between

It was AWESOME that you finally explained what the issue is. 

I don't think anyone was attacking you personally but offering suggestions (some perhaps too bluntly) that perhaps it wasn't your age that caused you to get overlooked but was easier to use that as an excuse than point out that your message to them was not understandable.

Your defensiveness in the matter did not help one bit.  I was actually going to defend you early on, but then I saw your counter attacks and thought better of it.

My personal opinion about slaves in general is this.  Age is not a factor as long as they are legal.  The things that are important are:

quality of the person being considered, this includes but is not limited to:
*Intelligence
*Ability to be dedicated
*Attitude
*Open-mindedness
*Loyalty
*Obedience
*The list goes on
I do have a soft cut off age of 60 but like I said that is a softcut off.....which means if the slave is impressive enough, his age is not a factor.  If you are interested, read my profile and send me a message.  We will talk.

Ms Loren




SenseofBelonging -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 12:10:36 PM)

my Mistress is 29 years old. She much prefers older submissives (i am 56). According to Her, older subs are more malleable, know their place more thoroughly, are not demanding and rarely attempt to top from the bottom. there are Others like Her out there, chains, just be humble and honest...One will find you.




composer83 -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 12:52:10 PM)

i agree with benji.......but hey....*trying* to read his posts sure gave me a good laugh.....




LadyHugs -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 1:14:30 PM)

Dear wild1cfl, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I agree with your wife.  I do adore older men as they grew up in the days were good manners wasn't history but, daily practice.
 
I can only speak for myself however, I want somebody who is a gentleman.  The more manners the slave has, the more I can relax in a state of being a lady.  Lady to me is more than a title but, a state of behavior to which men with some age understand.  Behavior and attitude is extremely important, otherwise it comes across disingenuos.
My slave is a representative of my beliefs of what I choose to behave and the attitude of peace and grace.
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs




draba -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 2:48:44 PM)

Acer is a genus in Aceraceae. The common name for this tree or shrub, depending upon the species is Maple.
Age is not important. I am 50 and have a mistress. But, good penmanship and spelling have always been important to me. I have found through out life that this can make the differance whem applying for jobs, etc.
Now lets see, should I choose the sub who can't spell with a good tounge or take the PhD who can't get it up.
So a little effort and I am sure a mistress will come your way. Do you have anything to offer besides the thing between your legs. I garden for my mistress.

draba ( a large genus in the musterd family)




Darkraven6 -> RE: IS 55 TO OLD FOE A SUB (6/12/2006 8:52:14 PM)

Dear Chains,
Personally, my spelling leaves nothing to be desired, but, you are very abrasive.  I would think, most would rise above spelling errors if they were indeed intrested in what you were saying, if you had a better attitude and personality, then you have displayed here. Your age has nothing to do with it. I am indeed sorry if that sounds harsh, but its what Ive noticed.




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