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Adolescent Dominants? - 6/10/2006 4:31:36 PM   
NastyDaddy


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Status: offline 		It has been debated that some children exhibit dominant behavior, while others exhibit submissive behavior.

Which adolescent is the dominant?


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RE: Adolescent Dominants? - 6/11/2006 6:59:49 AM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		If you mean the batch of 20ish hustlers... cockyness isnt machismo. The two are separate.

Some doms who rant too much about "no this & no that" ..well the tuff image comes off more like a brat that wants his/her way.  "my way or the door"

Im not impressed by that.

IMO- many of these supposed doms have unrealistic expectations, some are looking for gifts....

Im in no hurry to raise [another] kid... so it doesn't impress me.

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? - 6/11/2006 7:18:05 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		Children establish a pecking order early in their development. They even attempt to "dominate" situations with their parents or caretakers at times. It is just part of the development & helps the growing child learn to test limits & push past them. Free will & free choice is a natural characteristic.

Will this playground bully grow up one day to be a dominant or the kid that gets beat up grow up to be a submissive... maybe, he/she has an equal chance of growing up to be either or neither.



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RE: Adolescent Dominants? - 6/11/2006 7:31:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

If you mean the batch of 20ish hustlers... cockyness isnt machismo. The two are separate.


<sigh>  "Age ain't nothin' but a number."  It's a tired old argument, but I've met plenty of older men who equate cockiness with machismo, and I've met plenty of very young men who were wise far beyond their years.  I'm wiser by a far cry than some of the older people I've met, and that's not cockiness; it's the truth.  With that said, I've still got a lot to learn... we all do.  Wisdom comes from realizing that.

Back to the OP, though:  I'm not quite sure what your question is asking.  Many people's BDSM tastes were developed by a catalytic period in youth.  I don't think I'm one of those people, but I've seen it happen.  For example, a friend of mine was raped repeatedly when she was thirteen.  She was tied down and left for long periods of time.  She was beaten brutally.  Obviously she has some issues with this scenario, but for whatever reason it's what she craves.  She is now in her twenties and is slave to a good guy.  He treats her with care and they explore those scenarios in love and trust.  I don't know if that helped or not, but it's what I've witnessed.

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? (Link) - 6/11/2006 7:45:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy

It has been debated that some children exhibit dominant behavior, while others exhibit submissive behavior.

Which adolescent is the dominant?





Apparently adding an image link directly to the image only works some or part of the time. All I see now in the OP is a small white image with brown text saying find this funny picture at yada yada....

If you see the ''find this funny pic'' image above, see pic at http://www.funnypart.com/funny_pictures/sister.shtml  (this way they get to pop up an ad or two while allowing you to see pic).

It is titled 'Evil Sister' and cracks me up every time I see it. This is an anti-depressant picture... 



 

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? (Link) - 6/11/2006 8:12:19 AM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		OH... MY... GOD!  That's awful!  (And I laughed out loud.)

Now I see what you meant earlier.  With regards to that, I don't think it will form a child to be dominant or submissive later in life.  I think it has more to do with the older sibling mentality.  I know I used to do crap like that to my baby sister all the time when I was little.  I always bossed her around.  Oddly, now I'm the one with the strong submissive behaviors (although I've got strong dominant traits too, so who knows).

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? (Link) - 6/11/2006 8:29:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		That was too cute!!! I have a very weird sense of humor...

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? (Link) - 6/11/2006 8:40:15 AM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		Crayons are very fun for a kid.... let loose- tequilas for all...hands u some really pretty crayonsssssssssssss/ hehehe

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? (Link) - 6/11/2006 11:54:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		HaHa I love that pic!

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? (Link) - 6/11/2006 5:58:19 PM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		OH MY!!!

Now this sheds an entirely different light on the OP.

I agree that this behavior in no way communicates that this child will grow up to be a dominant.

BUT IT SPEAKS VOLUMES ABOUT THE LACK OF PARENTAL SUPERVISION

There is no way you can tell me that the baby just lay there quietly while the eyes were wrote on. I'm sure she let out a hell of a wail during the better portion of the process.

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? (Link) - 6/11/2006 6:14:01 PM   
SweetSlaveGirl


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Status: offline 		Oh boy, do I know this topic well. I'm raising one.  Goddess help me. lol.
My son has a mild Autism and is constantly fighting for control.  Up until he started medication for his violent outbursts, it was a day to day argument on almost everything. 

Now, I know I'll get the "but you're the parent" argument and YES I AM the parent, but what most don't realize is that I'm dealing with a 5 ft 3 child, I'm five foot four, he's 207 pounds, strong as any adult male, and he's only 11 years old.  I had to learn to be a drill sargent just to keep him under control for when his rages get violent. It's always a struggle to be bigger and badder than he is and to keep this control. It's emotionally and physically draining. Thank goodness the zoloft helps take the edges off of the anger. It's gave him a far better quality of life, but yet he still has a lot of anger issues.

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? - 6/12/2006 2:06:42 AM   
KennelDeSade2


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Status: offline 		Is that behavior dominant as we define the word, or do they mean aggressive I wonder?
To be Dom it seems to me that there must be a leadership component involved, or you are just being pushy and demanding. Sure it takes strength to lead, but it takes no less to follow. I heard it put well once.

“The strong serve the strong. The weak, serve only themselves.”

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? - 6/12/2006 10:48:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Simple really, when your child (of any age) shows Dominant tendencies, Issue him or her with a baby flogger, a length of rope, a set of baby hand cuffs and set him ot her loose inthe sand pit with those who show submissive traits. Now have the preschool or kindy run classes in shabari and flogging as well as the safe use of restraits. No dont you get upset when you wake up in the morning or after an nap and find that junior has cuffed you to the bed and is practicing shabari or flogging on you  because his or her play friends' momies wont let them play with you lil one....If of course you child (of any age) starts showing submissive tendencies simply teach them how to kneel followed with some of the basic Gorean slave positions.. believe me a dominant child of either sex learns real fast in the play ground that a girl can easily be lead around by the hair if it is long enough.......

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RE: Adolescent Dominants? - 6/12/2006 7:57:44 PM   
SweetSlaveGirl


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Status: offline 		ROFLMAO, don't give my son any more ideas than he already has. LOL. He'd be doing it too. lmao.

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