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cuddleheart50 -> Training (6/10/2006 6:25:13 PM)
I keep getting mail from Doms asking me if I have ever been trained. Am I supposed to be trained? Trained for what? I just don't get it, would someone explain this "training" I'm supposed to be getting.

marieToo -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:31:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50 I keep getting mail from Doms asking me if I have ever been trained. Am I supposed to be trained? Trained for what? I just don't get it, would someone explain this "training" I'm supposed to be getting. They want to know if you can bark like a seal and balance a ball on your nose. heh!

Sinergy -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:33:05 PM)
Two words: Duct Tape. Duh. Sinergy

HollyS -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:41:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50 I keep getting mail from Doms asking me if I have ever been trained. Am I supposed to be trained? Trained for what? I just don't get it, would someone explain this "training" I'm supposed to be getting. smiles If I may suggest, wander down the hall and peek into the thread entitled "Newbies who are looking for trainers." I'm not implying that you're new in any way - just that this exact discussion has been raging for a week and is still going strong over there. It's in the General BDSM group. Welcome to the training debate! ~Holly

awhisper -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:45:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50 I keep getting mail from Doms asking me if I have ever been trained. Am I supposed to be trained? Trained for what? I just don't get it, would someone explain this "training" I'm supposed to be getting. Seems most would wish to train one to His/Her own standards and desires. There is no 2 Doms/Masters exactly the same. Just as no 2 in any lifestyle are the same. i agree, am i supposed to be pretrained to serve Your special needs prior to knowing what Your needs and desires are? Pleeeeeeeeeease.......

juliaoceania -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:48:24 PM)
Tell them you are already house broken....smiles

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:50:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania Tell them you are already house broken....smiles Trust me, your quote will be in my next reply!

irishbynature -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:52:23 PM)
Julia.......but what If I'm not house broken yet? Would they hit me with newspaper on the behind and say "Outside POTTY!" ROFLMAO![sm=hello.gif]

juliaoceania -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:54:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: irishbynature Julia.......but what If I'm not house broken yet? Would they hit me with newspaper on the behind and say "Outside POTTY!" ROFLMAO![sm=hello.gif] Or rub your nose in it[:'(]

perverseangelic -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:55:46 PM)
I always answer that with "Trained in what? I've taken several cooking classes, know how to balance a checkbook, and can give a mean massage...do you have a particular skill set you're looking for?"

irishbynature -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 6:59:59 PM)
LOL, Julia........."Rub my nose in it?" (I would tell your Dom on you..that you were trying to engage in humilation play with a sub![sm=whoa.gif] ) I bet you wouldn't get spankings for a LEAST a month for that misbehavior![sm=biggrin.gif]

juliaoceania -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 7:02:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: irishbynature LOL, Julia........."Rub my nose in it?" (I would tell your Dom on you..that you were trying to engage in humilation play with a sub![sm=whoa.gif] ) I bet you wouldn't get spankings for a LEAST a month for that misbehavior![sm=biggrin.gif] Um... I am not the one rubbing your nose in it silly.. that is for the "trainer" to do.. do I look like a trainer to you... they are the ones that housebreak us.... not a poor little weak subbie like me

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 7:04:53 PM)
To all of the "Trainers" out there.......I'm housebroken, no further training necessary!

irishbynature -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 7:11:34 PM)
[sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]Ok Julia...errr.."weak little subbie" you say about yourself...? Laughing..girl..it's getting really deep in here...runs to put on my boots...[sm=mrpuffy.gif]LOL...grins... Irish

sublizzie -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 7:38:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50 I keep getting mail from Doms asking me if I have ever been trained. Am I supposed to be trained? Trained for what? I just don't get it, would someone explain this "training" I'm supposed to be getting. This is exactly what I tried to tell people on the other thread. A newbie is offered training from a Dom so they assume that they need training and go looking for it. Some Doms say they won't accept someone who is NOT trained, so newbies get the idea that they should come pre-trained. Blech.

Sirandlittle1 -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 8:02:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50 I keep getting mail from Doms asking me if I have ever been trained. Am I supposed to be trained? Trained for what? I just don't get it, would someone explain this "training" I'm supposed to be getting. I had wondered at this question. I had baulked that this was asked of me. I was insulted by it. But ive learnt so much from him, in the 2 yrs we have been together. I have developed so much in 2 yrs. Words like these, used to perplex me? and other such phrases like 'owned' and 'you belong to me'. as in i own you. I could appreciate, belonging with someone, but not 'to'. And now i get it. I get what those phrases mean to us. Not others necessarily, but to us. I have grown around to this way of thinking. I know what he likes, doesnt like, how to please him, goad him out of a bad mood. And when i get things right, i please him. He always rewards my efforts to please him. And reinforces my need to be in this happy space. Therefor, id say, for the last two years, ive been 'trained'. Trained, encouraged, moulded, brainwashed, cajoled, seduced. They are all words. And they all have relevance. Even the ones that make us a little outside the comfort zone. That's part of my submission. I am owned, i do belong to him. Wholeheartedly. As he does me. He is as much mine, as i His. He is training me, to be able to anticipate, and pander to him in as many ways as i can learn. Lucky bugger. But i would not do these things, without vast profit to myself. And the 'wages' for being trained and showing improvement, are pretty high. little1

RiotGirl -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 8:34:23 PM)
donna wannnaaaaaaaaaaa be housebroken. noooooooo i wanna potty on the Master's pillow

slavejali -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 8:40:15 PM)
We have to be house trained? ...damnit..i knew i was going wrong somewhere [:)]

theRose4U -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 8:42:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: irishbynature Julia.......but what If I'm not house broken yet? Would they hit me with newspaper on the behind and say "Outside POTTY!" ROFLMAO![sm=hello.gif] Yeah but then you have to maneuver through the doggie door.

Estring -> RE: Training (6/10/2006 8:43:25 PM)
It could be they are trying to sound more knowledgeable than they really are.

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