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For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on:


I live for it
  6% (1)
Meh, OK
  12% (2)
Curious
  12% (2)
Tried it, not on my list of favorites
  18% (3)
Has never even been on my radar
  50% (8)
Somewhere between "I Live for it" and "Meh"
  0% (0)


Total Votes : 16
(last vote on : 11/26/2012 4:21:57 PM)
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intriguedLynn -> For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 12:09:39 AM)

My sunshine believes me to be an anomaly. I challenged that most women in a solid relationship where their basic sexual needs are met are at least curious about taking their man with a strap-on.
Ladies, What is your take on this?




littlewonder -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 12:20:02 AM)

Holds no interest for me. Then again, Master is a Dom and has zero desire for such a thing. My ex Dom liked for me to play with him anally but it was a complete turnoff to me and actually made my stomach churn and to be honest, I lost a bit of respect for him. Yeah yeah, I know. Some men even if they are Doms like it. It's just not how I'm wired for men.




Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 12:43:51 AM)

I have zero interest in ducking dadddy with a strapon.




Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 1:01:45 AM)

Fucking. Even.




Delilya -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 1:04:51 AM)

Not my thing. Any number of other insertables, yes. Strapon's, no.




Shininglight23 -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 1:10:42 AM)

I tried it with a previous partner and it totally freaked me out. It's not on my to do list.

Allie




CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 1:23:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: intriguedLynn

My sunshine believes me to be an anomaly. I challenged that most women in a solid relationship where their basic sexual needs are met are at least curious about taking their man with a strap-on.
Ladies, What is your take on this?


I'm somewhere between the first and second choice so I didn't know what to checkmark. I've always loved assplay but strapons squicked me out. (So okay, I tried one on something like eight years ago and almost died laughing at how ridiculous I looked.)

These past months I wondered why some other women seemed to like them. I wondered what they got out of it. What made me stop and go hmmm were several comments in these boards...ladies who seemed fond of their "penii". I looked over at Fet as well and saw someone in a BBW area wearing a pretty colored one and zap, I had stars in my eyes. The one I tried before was short, flesh colored and lifelike...ugh...I like COLORS! Now if only I can find one with red, royal blue, or purple glitter sparkling inside. I've only got two (the first one started breaking off near the base) and I have three others I want early next month (one's a translucent cherry red! another is glow in the dark!!! LOL).

It is strange headspace that I hadn't counted on. I like it. Putting one on has also altered our relationship in some way that has been good for the both of us. From his POV, it is extra intimate because I've never done this to anyone else but him.

Psst...it would be fun to see pix of favorite strapon dildos along with links of where to find them. Especially if they've got glitter... [sm=modxiiswatching.gif]

What would be extra fun is if (prepare for a possible squick)...there was some type of vulval cup attached and a tube that ran up the jelly type dildo so that when I was finished, I could pull out and then piss all over him.




pyschosubmission -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 2:09:50 AM)

I actually always assumed this was more of a male fantasy than a female fantasy

hmmmm [:-]




JanahX -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 3:17:16 AM)

I would have to say - that's a big negative Ghost Rider.

quote:

ORIGINAL: intriguedLynn

My sunshine believes me to be an anomaly. I challenged that most women in a solid relationship where their basic sexual needs are met are at least curious about taking their man with a strap-on.
Ladies, What is your take on this?




needlesandpins -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 3:18:52 AM)

i like it alot. it's a bit of a thing for me in it's entirety. so having him strap me in is also a large part of it. it is a very intimate thing for me too, although i don't know about that from his side.

i have alsorts going on in my head about it, positions i like and such [:)]

needles




Ninebelowzero -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 6:38:22 AM)

Speaking frm the other side of the fence as it were.

Plese make it a small one.

quote:

ORIGINAL: intriguedLynn

My sunshine believes me to be an anomaly. I challenged that most women in a solid relationship where their basic sexual needs are met are at least curious about taking their man with a strap-on.
Ladies, What is your take on this?





MariaB -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 6:51:15 AM)

I enjoy strap-on play but be warned, I don't make love with it! Wearing a strap-on just brings out the mean arsed bitch in me [;)]




Ninebelowzero -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 6:58:23 AM)

Thanks for that. Just laughed coffee everywhere at the mental image.




angelikaJ -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 7:19:25 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: intriguedLynn

My sunshine believes me to be an anomaly. I challenged that most women in a solid relationship where their basic sexual needs are met are at least curious about taking their man with a strap-on.
Ladies, What is your take on this?



My interest is in pleasing [my] Master.
This would be a huge no for me as it has no interest for Him.

I do understand about how male anatomy can make anal play very pleasurable for them.
Anal play would not "squick" me, nor cause me to lose respect.
It is just sensation.

I do see strap-on play to be more of a female dominant thing though, and am fairly certain that is how [my] Master sees it as well.




Lucifyre -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 7:40:43 AM)

Sadly I've not yet had any submissive male partners to have this experience with. However Mr is one that does enjoy being played with a little bit. I have trouble with it though because when we do "go there" it brings out my Domme side and it is very difficult for me to shut that part out with Him when we do that specific thing.
I know I'm probably asking for trouble, but I would very much like to find a willing submissive male that I can bring out that side of me with and not have to keep my finger firmly planted on the *switch*.
Though I don't specfically need His *permission* to find a submissiv male, I would insist that the two of them get to know eachother well and Mr be comfortable with such a person before I would consider that kind of relationship with anyone else.

Using a strap on DOES very much get my juices flowing, but the dynamic I have at the moment does not allow for me to enjoy it to it's full potential.

Lucifyre

p.s. I couldn't find a way to explain what I had to say without it sounding like a personal ad in response to the OP, though my answer was not intended to sound like an ad, I would like for people to allow me a little bit of leeway and take what I had to say for what it is...an explanation.




KatyLied -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 9:01:56 AM)

Ew, pretty sure I could not be with a guy who wanted that.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 9:36:34 AM)

I don't see strap on play as dominant, I see it as *fucking*. So, it's not something I do with just anyone.




LadyPact -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 9:39:23 AM)

I'm in the same boat as Cynthia. OP, You really needed something between living for it and meh. I don't really "live for" any fetish or kink. I enjoy strap on play, but it wouldn't be the end of the world if I didn't have it.

I never stop being astounded at people who will randomly show up on the net to ask other people about their sex lives. Doesn't it ever occur to people that it might be tacky to do so?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 9:47:47 AM)

In a way, this whole site is asking about our sex lives... so while I'm not interested in discussing details, whether I do something seems like a fair game question.




KatyLied -> RE: For The Ladies: Taking your man with a strap-on: (8/18/2012 11:38:50 AM)

quote:

Doesn't it ever occur to people that it might be tacky to do so?


Yeah, but it's probably equally tacky to respond.
And possibly even tackier to be here! [:)]




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