RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Welcome OP. I read your profile and just a teensy bit of advice: You are narrowing your pool of men down by only requesting hard bodied men. I understand preferences, we all have them, but you know, being slightly open minded might show you a gem you might throw away in your pursuit of a hard bodied guy who loves BBW's. I don't put any parameter on whom I might end up being attracted to. Their brain, heart, soul and adoration of me are far more important than a hard body. I agree with this. And, OP, for some background, sexyred1 and I never seem to agree on anything, so if I'm supporting her position, I hope you consider this seriously. I really enjoy dating intelligent young women with modeling portfolios. However, I might mention intelligence, or empathy, as characteristics I am looking for, but I never mention looks or youth/age. Why? Because the kind of woman I am interested in would be turned off by my need to mention a superficial characteristic. The way you've currently phrased your OP, it sounds as though you are trying to "date up," without giving a reason your partner should "date down." What makes you a catch? What amazingness do you bring to the relationship? That's where my focus would be, anyway, as a man. I hide a lot more women's profiles than I write to. Good luck.
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