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kissthered -> Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 12:23:04 AM)

New to this world. So such to explore. Didn't discover this desire to be controlled until very recently. Have only had porn to go on so far and some is beyond exciting, have found myself asking the question "could I be one of these women who really wants to be dominated"? Pain is not what I find enticing about this new want inside myself, although lite pain(spanking, crops, flogs) sounds like heaven. I want to be tied up and tied down and told how and when to be a good sub. or a dirty sub, depending on what the dom prefers.



DeviantlyD -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 1:51:15 AM)

Yeah, porn is sooo not realistic. I hope you get that. ;)

Light pain is spanking, crops and floggings? Well, I guess it all depends on who's wielding the implement. I've had bruises that lasted over a week from "light pain". *grins*

Pain doesn't have to be part of being dominated. In fact, it need never enter the picture at all.

Here is some reading for ya. http://jaywiseman.com/SEX_BDSM_10TipsNoviceSubfem.php

And welcome to the chat side of things. :)



DarkSteven -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 5:05:22 AM)

Hi there! Sorry to say, but porn does not reflect reality.

I like to say that there are two places where BDSM occurs - in the bedroom and outside of it. The porn shows a caricature of what could happen inside the bedroom, but doesn't address the protocol, the relationship outside the bedroom.

Your profile says you lives in Georgia - there's a thriving scene in Atlanta. I'm not sure about the rest of the state.

Welcome to collarme!



OohAahMrs -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 8:01:23 AM)

Welcome kiss, never bother with porn, in any form, it's just tripe!



Char2688 -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 8:11:16 AM)

Have fun....play safe...and welcome to the message boards.....
Real life is much more exciting than porn!



Delilya -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 8:16:46 AM)

Take it a step at a time and good luck.



CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 11:35:54 AM)

Welcome to the forum. I think you will find this path more intense and
fulfilling than porn, just sayin'.
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MistressDarkArt -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 1:01:34 PM)


Welcome kiss! Enjoy the journey and ignore Cryppy's creepy pictures...he means well. [>:]



CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 1:10:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


Welcome kiss! Enjoy the journey and ignore Cryppy's creepy pictures...he means well. [>:]

Why for you make mean faces at me???
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ARIES83 -> RE: Desire Awakened (8/21/2012 5:57:49 PM)

Welcome to the forum



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