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LadyPact -> RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN (8/22/2012 11:22:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Babywilly
are u kidding me?
if you payed 2 cents of attention to what i was initially saying, youd know that the fact i feel "alone" has NOTHING to do with my abdl side.. but everything to do with my side of wanting to devote my time and love to someone.
with all ur knowledge of ABDL's YOU of all people ladypact would know, that it is very uncommon for a mommy and a mistress to be mixed.
they 2 have COMPLETELY different roles, but i seek them both in one person.... that is where i feel "alone" and wanting help with...
Am I kidding? No. I'm honestly trying to help you.
Ok, I'm trying to be patient, so let's go over the things that I know. I know that, in My experience, an AB/DL can be one of the hardest matches to find. I know it isn't often found in general BDSM. I know that a few of the kindest people that you would ever want to meet have been searching anywhere from six to ten years because it is so hard to find.
This doesn't mean that they feel alone in being a little, or an AB, or a lover of DL. Sigs are out there. Books are out there. Certain presenters even focus on the subject. (See a gentleman called RuleOfThree for further information.) This part should tell you that you are not alone and if you had done research, you would know these things as well.
But, the fact that other AB/DLs are out there (meaning you are not alone in your desires) doesn't mean there are many mommies/caregivers out there. That's why pros who specialize in this area can charge fantastically high rates. As soon as women hear DL, they think scat and soiled diapers and there's just not a lot out there that are willing to accept that.
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Vanilla
Posts: 5
Joined: 8/23/2012
Status: online and what you JUST said makes me refrain my original statement...
"There are a number of AB/DL groups out there. Not so popular on these boards, from My observation"
this is exactly what im asking.
Here's an example. The largest city in this state has an littles munch. (Remember that not all littles are ABs and not all ABs are DLs.) Their highest attendance has been twelve, from the entire state. Not one care giver in the mix. Just the "littles" coloring and such. In the slower months, they get three or four littles. None of them have a current partner.
Check out the littles group in Atlanta. They can't even hit two dozen people and ARM no longer allows them to hold the regional because the numbers were so low. Most of the BDSMers won't go when there is a AB theme.
Now, if you want Me to lie to you about what I know, you might as well say so from the beginning so I can take My preference, stick to the truth as I know it, and keep My integrity by not answering you with what is the truth as it has been My experience. Don't like what I'm saying here? Get out to your local community and see how many ABs are there and just how many can find a mommy.
What you are trying to find is tough and while I'll be the first to welcome you here, this is not your best path to success. I don't know about you but I prefer to play the odds.
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