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Aswad -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 4:16:47 PM)

Age of consent is 13 in Spain and Italy; 14 in Albania, Austria, Bulgaria, Croatia, Estonia, Germany, Hungary, Liechtenstein, Montenegro, Portugal, San Marino and Serbia; 15 in Czechnya, Denmark, France, Greece, Iceland, Monaco, Poland, Romania, Slovakia, Sloveni and Sweden; 16 in Andorra, Armenia, Azerbaijan, Belarus, Belgium, Finland, Georgia, Latvia, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Moldova, Netherlands, Norway, Russia, Switzerland and the UK; 17 in Cyprus and Ireland; 18 in Malta and Turkey.

These are current figures, putting the typical at 16 and the median at 15.

Most of these countries have exceptions for all parties being of comparable mental and physical development (moving the limit downwards) and for one or more parties being prepubescent (usually makes it criminal regardless of consent). Also, all of these figures have changed with the introduction of Christianity. For instance, in Norway the distinction used to be between sex with a prepubescent (pedophilia, and thus illegal) and biologically normal sex (the average male is most attracted to the interval 14~24, but has zero attraction to anyone not yet physically mature). The Lutherans pushed for a fixed age and wanted it as high as they could get it, leading to anything from 14 to 16 throughout our history. Japan recently raised the age of consent to 14.

The common denominator is this: virtually no culture has ever accepted sex with a prepubescent. Condemning sex with children is one of the closest things we have to a moral universal among humans, with murder being a close second. What has varied most in this regard, is the age at which puberty starts, which has been dependent on factors like wealth. That has shaped the resulting age of consent around the world, together with Christian influences, and tradition has been the main factor keeping it from changing a lot (which holds true in the USA, as well).

It's been well established that sex with children is near universally harmful to the child.

It's been established beyond a shadow of a doubt that sex with a postpubescent (i.e. young adult) is not harmful if consensual in nature, but that a high age of consent can cause a conflict with law enforcement, parents and society that will severely traumatize the youngest party in the interaction most of the time. This finding has been better reviewed than any other piece of science outside the hard sciences, and found to be perfectly solid. It has also, of course, been unanimously condemned by Congress, which says something about how similar the state of science in the USA is to the Dark Ages.

The long and short of it is that the following statement is bullshit:

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I'm sorry folks but a 57 year old man fucking a 17 year old is pedophilia.


Never mind that the very definition of the word excludes that interpretation.

Most of the civilized world puts age of consent between 14 and 16, whether counted by citizens, countries or land mass. Most men prefer 14 to 24, in terms of sexual attraction, if they do not know what the age of the person they are rating is. Most men aren't able to perform in bed at a level that provides both parties with comparable gratification until about 24 or so. Most fertility doctors are pretty clear that you should have started having the kids you want to have by the time you get to 24 or so, and that earlier is generally better so long as your body is mature enough for a pregnancy to be completed.

Insisting that 57 and 17 is automatically so wrong as to be illegal seems outright ludicrous to me.

IWYW,
— Aswad.





JeffBC -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 4:24:26 PM)

You know... all those dreary facts and boring bits of science really make you a buzzkill when a good witch hunt could have been organized.




SadistDave -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 6:22:57 PM)

ROFLMAO!

I don't see what the issue is. He's a leftie. I thought all you lefties were supportive of gay sex. I'm surprised Obummer hasn't called the guy up to tell him how much he supports his right to suck dick at rest stops.

Hell, you guys should be trying to build a little shrine to the the gentleman from Minnesota. Something soft, so the faithful won't skin their knees, and maybe a nice towel dispenser...

-SD-




tazzygirl -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 6:33:12 PM)

We do support gay sex... lol.. what we dont support is liars who present themselves as "family men" and get caught doing this.




dcnovice -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 6:34:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SadistDave

ROFLMAO!

I don't see what the issue is. He's a leftie. I thought all you lefties were supportive of gay sex. I'm surprised Obummer hasn't called the guy up to tell him how much he supports his right to suck dick at rest stops.

Hell, you guys should be trying to build a little shrine to the the gentleman from Minnesota. Something soft, so the faithful won't skin their knees, and maybe a nice towel dispenser...

-SD-


Oh, dear God.

Once again, someone proves Schiller right.




Hillwilliam -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 6:46:05 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SadistDave

ROFLMAO!

I don't see what the issue is. He's a leftie. I thought all you lefties were supportive of gay sex. I'm surprised Obummer hasn't called the guy up to tell him how much he supports his right to suck dick at rest stops.

Hell, you guys should be trying to build a little shrine to the the gentleman from Minnesota. Something soft, so the faithful won't skin their knees, and maybe a nice towel dispenser...

-SD-

Does that mean you support Republicans who suck cock in airport bathrooms?




servantforuse -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 6:52:10 PM)

What's going on with elected officials from both parties in MN ? You guys have a problem over there. Will Al Franken be next ? We can only hope.




Aswad -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 7:03:59 PM)

Yeah, I support gay sex.

Does that make me a leftie now?

More to the point, is supporting gay sex a problem somehow?

IWYW,
— Aswad.





Hillwilliam -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 7:05:56 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: servantforuse

What's going on with elected officials from both parties in MN ? You guys have a problem over there. Will Al Franken be next ? We can only hope.

And the one that isn't involved in a sex scandal is just dumb as toast.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michele_Bachmann




servantforuse -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 7:15:31 PM)

At least she is easy on the eyes.




Hillwilliam -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 7:16:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: servantforuse

At least she is easy on the eyes.

You really think so?[:'(]

Sorry but I wouldn't fuck her with your dick. I have standards.

I'm so happy to see what standards Conservatives have for those who lead the country out of this mess. "At least she is easy on the eyes." [8|]




Lucylastic -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 7:17:22 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

We do support gay sex... lol.. what we dont support is liars who present themselves as "family men" and get caught doing this.

what she said




Winterapple -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 7:42:52 PM)

FR
Unlike Craig and Foley, Gauthier had the
courage to come out of the closet.
He's openly gay.

He was thinking with his dick and he's
paying the price for it.
Public embarassment and the loss of
his political career.
He's not a pedo. He may or may not be
a chicken hawk but that isn't the same
thing as a pedo. The age gap is a bit
quease inducing and one wonders if he
made sure the guy was legal before
intimacy occurred.
Anonymous or close to it sex is reckless
but I'd have to imagine there are people
on a site such as this that have indulged
in it or hope to.
It's also not very cool having sex where
someone might stumble upon you during
it. But I understand that's pretty common
thrill of het and gay, vanilla and kinky.






slvemike4u -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 7:48:03 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I'm sorry folks but a 57 year old man fucking a 17 year old is pedophilia.

I'm not going to argue this with you,it does make my skin crawl,but let us suppose your statement is gospel truth.....is a 56 year -old man fucking an 18 year old pedophilia ?
If so,just where do you place the line(it is apparent where the state of Minn. places it),if not,again where do you place the line ?




Winterapple -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/23/2012 7:49:14 PM)

This case made me think of LBJ's maxim that the
two things no politician can recover from is
getting caught with a dead girl or a live boy.

And the advantage lefty kinksters seem to
have over their right wing brethren kinksters
is a firmer grasp on who is more likely to be
their enemy.




crazyml -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/24/2012 12:08:36 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aswad

It's been established beyond a shadow of a doubt that sex with a postpubescent (i.e. young adult) is not harmful if consensual in nature in the interaction most of the time.


I'd like to see where this has "been established", not least because I don't believe it is true.

The average age of puberty has been in decline for well over 100 years, with one source (pediatrics.about.com) claiming that it's now 10.5 years. I would be astonished if there was any research that had established beyond a shadow of a doubt that sex with a postpubescant 12 year old is not harmful.

Sure, the age of puberty is a starting point, but most western countries (many encouraged in the C19 by religious groups) add the notion of competence to consent. In debates about the age of consent, the age of puberty is obviously a key factor, but issues like emotional maturity, understanding of the consequences, and ability to take steps to preserve sexual health are important factors that extend the age of consent beyond puberty.

This is where the debate is, the question of "competence". Fuck I've met 30 year old women who lack the maturity and common sense that the age of consent laws have in mind...

And, you could certainly argue that there would be some much younger people who already have the maturity and common sense that the law has in mind, but you have to draw the line somewhere.

I had this argument with a group of young people not long ago in a night club (it was an over 21 club, and these young people were very obviously much much younger), and in the end I had to say - "If you were mature enough to consent, then you'd be mature enough to appreciate the horrific consequences that your partner would face (going to jail, being beaten up on an almost daily basis etc) and you'd know that the risk wasn't worth it"

As someone who has grown up in a country where the age of consent has been 16 for ages, I guess I've been socialised to the idea that 16 is about right. So... any assertion that sex with someone over that age is pedophilia does seem a little ridiculous to me

So while I can't imagine what I would have in common with a 17 year-old, a 57 year old man fucking a 17 year old isn't pedophilia.

quote:



quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I'm sorry folks but a 57 year old man fucking a 17 year old is pedophilia.








tweakabelle -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/24/2012 1:46:41 AM)

quote:

So while I can't imagine what I would have in common with a 17 year-old, a 57 year old man fucking a 17 year old isn't pedophilia.

Indeed.

I must say that I'm not sure why this person is being called upon to resign. As established in the OP, a lawful consensual sex act occurred between two people of legal age. No one has claimed that oral sex is illegal in Minnesota. There is no allegation of force or coercion of any kind. Clearly it is not pedophile sex, within either the legal definition or common understanding of that term. It would appear that both parties were in a position to give, and gave free informed consent to whatever happened.

It could be argued that politicians have other more pressing obligations but when has that ever stopped a horny politician, or any high-powered man engaging in casual consensual sex? The only aspect that might be of concern to others is whether the sex was safe or not. Even if it wasn't safe sex, that's hardly a hanging offence.

So why is this person being hounded out of office? At this point the only explanation I have is that it involved male-on-male sex.




SilverMark -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/24/2012 2:41:42 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: tweakabelle

quote:

So while I can't imagine what I would have in common with a 17 year-old, a 57 year old man fucking a 17 year old isn't pedophilia.

Indeed.

I must say that I'm not sure why this person is being called upon to resign. As established in the OP, a lawful consensual sex act occurred between two people of legal age. No one has claimed that oral sex is illegal in Minnesota. There is no allegation of force or coercion of any kind. Clearly it is not pedophile sex, within either the legal definition or common understanding of that term. It would appear that both parties were in a position to give, and gave free informed consent to whatever happened.

It could be argued that politicians have other more pressing obligations but when has that ever stopped a horny politician, or any high-powered man engaging in casual consensual sex? The only aspect that might be of concern to others is whether the sex was safe or not. Even if it wasn't safe sex, that's hardly a hanging offence.

So why is this person being hounded out of office? At this point the only explanation I have is that it involved male-on-male sex.



Perception of impropriety goes a long way in politics, the facts have no bearing on what a lot of people think, but appearance does.





DaddySatyr -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/24/2012 3:06:56 AM)

I think where we might run into trouble is here:

Minnesota Criminal Code

From the link:

quote:


(e) the complainant is at least 16 but less than 18 years of age and the actor is more than 48 months older than the complainant and in a position of authority over the complainant. Neither mistake as to the complainant's age nor consent to the act by the complainant is a defense;

(f) the actor has a significant relationship to the complainant and the complainant was at least 16 but under 18 years of age at the time of the sexual contact. Neither mistake as to the complainant's age nor consent to the act by the complainant is a defense;


Now; is a state representative a "position of authority over" this 17 year old? That's the real crux of the issue and I think a case could be made either way but, as a 17 year old, I would have thought of this person as an "authority".

Of course, as a nation, we had a little less disdain for elected officials, when I was 17 but I still think that the representative is deserving of criminal action.



Peace and comfort,



Michael




crazyml -> RE: Resign hell, he should be arrested. (8/24/2012 3:49:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

I think where we might run into trouble is here:

Minnesota Criminal Code

From the link:

quote:


(e) the complainant is at least 16 but less than 18 years of age and the actor is more than 48 months older than the complainant and in a position of authority over the complainant. Neither mistake as to the complainant's age nor consent to the act by the complainant is a defense;

(f) the actor has a significant relationship to the complainant and the complainant was at least 16 but under 18 years of age at the time of the sexual contact. Neither mistake as to the complainant's age nor consent to the act by the complainant is a defense;


Now; is a state representative a "position of authority over" this 17 year old? That's the real crux of the issue and I think a case could be made either way but, as a 17 year old, I would have thought of this person as an "authority".

Of course, as a nation, we had a little less disdain for elected officials, when I was 17 but I still think that the representative is deserving of criminal action.



Peace and comfort,



Michael



No, the intention of the "position of authority" clause is to cover teachers, youth workers, employers etc. No way it would stick for a politician unless he was interviewing the lad for an internship.




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