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nephandi -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/28/2012 9:44:19 AM)
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Greetings
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Nephandi,
i just checked Your profile , You mentioned Yourself sub , but really let me tell You , You have lots of Dom senses , may be You are switch or a real Dom
I am going to take a guess that you are rather new in the BDSM lifestyle, so I will give you some advice. Being submissive do not mean that one is submissive in how one talk, acts or writes in general. Having a mind of one's own, knowing what one want and voicing one's opinions do not make someone Dominant. I am submissive as that is part of who I am, it is part of my soul if you want, and that actually count for allot more than calling random women on the internet for made up titles like you do. Generally if someone say they are submissive or Dominant on their profile it is a good chance they know themselves well enough to make that choice for themselves.
I am a Gorean free woman, meaning I am expected to be myself and speak up, and I will be submissive to only those I choose to be submissive to. But here is the rub, I was a kajira, a Gorean slave, for a good while and I did not act that much differently then. Now while you are the first who have claimed that I am Dominant the fact that I am a dedicated occultist, outspoken and at times aggressive have at times let people to think that I am a man due to my gender neutral nick, I am probably not the stereotypical submissive woman, but then I do do not know anyone who are.
One bit of advice more. Now I am not insulted but one's sexual orientation that is a rather personal matter and saying you must be Dominant in stand of submissive that is a bit like saying you must be gay instead of straight or you must be straight instead of gay and allot of folks will not take to kindly to that, it is a bit of a social no no in good company.
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i think so , Women are naturally Dominant
Ah gender supremacy, now I am not really the one to talk on this topic being Gorean and all, and it is really a topic for another debate. Now I disagree with you but let me ask you a question I have reasons to think that if there is a greater chance that one gender is more Dominant than the other it is males being more Dominant than females, though I think that individuals is far different from gender statistics, so that while I believe it is more natural for men to be Dominant that do not mean I think it is unnatural for a woman to be or that all men are Dominant. Now however before we get into this debate that really should be a thread on it's own. I may be right or I may be wrong in my opinions, but I have read and studies the matter and can give you reasons why I think what I do, can you give any reason for your statement other than it would fit your fantasies?
Oh and for the other posters who said nice things about me. Thank you so much you made me smile and made my day better.
I wish you all well
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