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LaTigresse -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/28/2012 1:55:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

I have a theory that sub males do not at all outnumber Dommes, nor do they have a hard time finding a Domme if they want one, and they can afford to be extremely picky.

Whenever we get a male sub on this board who's got half a brain that's NOT located in his dick... the women fawn over him.

Male subs who are actually submissive, charming, funny and smart are in a buyers market as soon as they can get a woman's attention long enough to show that they're not the same at the 90% of male "submissives" women are used to.



Exactly. I'm not joking when I say I've only met a few dozen genuinely submissive men in the last twenty years.


Based upon what I've seen, I agree as well.



GreedyTop -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/28/2012 2:03:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

I have a theory that sub males do not at all outnumber Dommes, nor do they have a hard time finding a Domme if they want one, and they can afford to be extremely picky.

Whenever we get a male sub on this board who's got half a brain that's NOT located in his dick... the women fawn over him.

Male subs who are actually submissive, charming, funny and smart are in a buyers market as soon as they can get a woman's attention long enough to show that they're not the same at the 90% of male "submissives" women are used to.


ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT POST!!!!



LadyPact -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/28/2012 2:13:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

I have a theory that sub males do not at all outnumber Dommes, nor do they have a hard time finding a Domme if they want one, and they can afford to be extremely picky.

Whenever we get a male sub on this board who's got half a brain that's NOT located in his dick... the women fawn over him.

Male subs who are actually submissive, charming, funny and smart are in a buyers market as soon as they can get a woman's attention long enough to show that they're not the same at the 90% of male "submissives" women are used to.
Had you added the part about "on the internet," I probably would have agreed with you. I may have even pushed the percentage up to 95%. Chances are, I wouldn't have limited it to only submissive males, either.

It's not PC anymore, but the terms wannabe and fantasist are still very accurate for a lot of folks.




nephandi -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/28/2012 2:24:46 PM)

Greetings

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I have a theory that sub males do not at all outnumber Dommes, nor do they have a hard time finding a Domme if they want one, and they can afford to be extremely picky.

Whenever we get a male sub on this board who's got half a brain that's NOT located in his dick... the women fawn over him.

Male subs who are actually submissive, charming, funny and smart are in a buyers market as soon as they can get a woman's attention long enough to show that they're not the same at the 90% of male "submissives" women are used to.


You may have a good point there. It might be the noise to signal ratio that is off not the male subs to female Doms ratio.

I wish you well



UllrsIshtar -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/28/2012 2:35:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Had you added the part about "on the internet," I probably would have agreed with you. I may have even pushed the percentage up to 95%. Chances are, I wouldn't have limited it to only submissive males, either.

It's not PC anymore, but the terms wannabe and fantasist are still very accurate for a lot of folks.




Granted LP, I was talking about online. Though the same thing does happen offline, only the percentage there is a lot lower than it is online.

Whats even more retarded about this whole situation, online or offline, is that all these guys obsessed about getting their rocks off... all they'd have to do for women to actually pay attention to them is pretend to be a decent human being... and treat her as if she's actually a person.

Seems like a pretty cheap deal to get all your wildest kinks fulfilled... and yet... something all of the guys in question seem to be unable to do for even the 2 minutes it takes to write an introductory email.





DesFIP -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/28/2012 6:29:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

We have an obedience based dynamic. That means if I tell him to do something, that's what he does. It's not limited to indoors or outdoors. No different than if I sent him out to cut the grass or something.



For what, all of six weeks when the grass grows up there in the Far North?

Now, inquiring minds want to know about how many hours a week he spends shoveling snow! :)



paavo -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 9:42:44 AM)


Goddess Ishtar,

it shows the strong interest of Ladies for having a slave



GreedyTop -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 10:18:47 AM)

Any slave I would be interested in would be multifaceted. You are not. I would want someone that enjoys yard care, books (and actually READING them), music that crosses many genres, films that do the same. MOST IMPORTANTLY, I would want a slave that pays attention to the things that matter to ME (and have similar interest lines).

One trick ponies are a dime a dozen, and boring. Therefore, useless to me.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 10:23:20 AM)

One trick ponies! I see what you did there! [:D]



paavo -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 10:29:52 AM)

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dime


GreedyTop,

You mean by yard care , means , the slave who clean Your yard ?



GreedyTop -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 10:40:50 AM)

and does the dishes, and is able to converse about the things tha interest us both such as book, music, etc.

yeah. that's what I mean


[8|]



GreedyTop -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 10:41:54 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

One trick ponies! I see what you did there! [:D]



I knew you would ;)






paavo -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 10:45:18 AM)

GreedyTop,

wounder , You also tagged Yourself as a submissive but here You want a slave who clean Your yard , or You mean if You were a Dom ?



OsideGirl -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 10:47:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: paavo

GreedyTop,

wounder , You also tagged Yourself as a submissive but here You want a slave who clean Your yard , or You mean if You were a Dom ?


No, she said she wants someone that will do MORE than just clean her yard.



searching4mysir -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 11:01:13 AM)


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ORIGINAL: paavo

GreedyTop,

wounder , You also tagged Yourself as a submissive but here You want a slave who clean Your yard , or You mean if You were a Dom ?



Cleaning her yard is only one aspect of it. She wants a well-rounded person who is intelligent and can discuss things AS WELL AS clean the yard, do the dishes, etc. If a slave can only do one thing, they are easily replaced and pretty useless.

If all she wanted was a hard dick, he is easily replaced with a dildo.



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 11:11:30 AM)

O FFS. One trick pony and one track mind. What else can be said? [>:]



paavo -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 11:12:53 AM)

OsideGirl,

that could be a reward , may be can the same slave work for Goddess Ishtar also



paavo -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 11:20:58 AM)

then what will be reward for the slave who work hard and clean Her yard ?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 11:22:57 AM)

A nice oat mash? Horses like a nice warm oat mash with apples.



paavo -> RE: Curious about BDSM and ancient type slavery y ... (8/29/2012 11:53:33 AM)

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mash


it will be nice food for me



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