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JeffBC -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (3/3/2013 8:17:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
Jeff- ok, I didn't want you to think " all dancers were whores". That's sooo dark ages. But I wouldn't be surprised if the majority were. :(

I haven't known all that many on a personal basis but of the ones I did know none of them were whores. Of all the times I've gone into a strip club I've only been propositioned once. Then again, even when I'm in an unhappy marriage I tend to bleed "I'm taken" vibes -- because I am. So when I was attending strip clubs to fill the sexual void -- at least vicariously -- I suspect I was making it pretty clear where my boundaries were. Heh, us doms are like that.

Of course none of that matters to me since I have no particular judgement one way or the other about strippers or whores. I prefer to think in terms of "good people" and "bad people"... folks who help others and folks who harm others.

edited to add
Oh... and to the whole money thing... I certainly wasn't meaning to imply that money couldn't be deeply personal to someone or, for that matter, be somehow connected sexually in some kinky fetish. I just think I could probably find a whole lot more personal things about pretty much anyone I met. Or, at least, if I couldn't I'd assess them as someone to avoid I shudder to consider the inner psyche of someone for whom cash was the most intimate thing in their life. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww!



TAFKAA -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (3/3/2013 8:34:03 PM)

Y'know, that's the second time in a few pages you've used me as a justification to talk about yourself. You really are bothered when people pay more attention to me than they do to you. I wonder what else is going on here. That's not normal, healthy behaviour.

There's a stupendous irony in remarking on my level of awareness when the entire premise of your relationship is a delusion. I know some others see it, but I wonder what it will take for you to realise. The mental gymnastics at play here are truly fascinating.



Isabellalee -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (3/3/2013 9:26:54 PM)

Hello everyone,

My name is Mistress Isabella, and I am a Pro Domina. I knew since I was very young that I wanted to be a Dominatrix. I was 18yrs old when I started my training to be a Mistress. I know some girls at that age may not know what they are doing, but, I knew from the time I was old enough to sneak into my dads playboy magazines, that I wanted to control men. It took some years to get the hang of all the different kinks and fetishes that were out there, and decide which ones that really turned me on too. I love it when a good sub knows what I want, and knows that my training of them is worth something. I put myself thru college several times, because of my great subs help, I can be more than a starving artist! I love my work as a Dominatrix!



TAFKAA -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (3/3/2013 9:43:28 PM)

And the advertising just keeps on coming.



TNDommeK -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (3/4/2013 1:46:15 AM)

Tafkaa, I'm thinking she was saying this bc she was trying to make a point about how pro domming has helped her. At least I hope.
I certainly don't think Jeff has any type of issues when it comes to you. I think what he stated were facts. You DON'T want to open your self up to more possibilities than what you feel. So I would say his opinion of you was quite accurate. Not a big deal, certain people are like that.

Jeff- I know what you mean, but there are people who feel money is everything. They don't care about emotions or anything else. They feel they can buy what they need. They are missing out! :) oh and I like what you said about "good" people or "bad" people. That's pretty much how I look at folks. I don't care what one does, so long as it isn't hurting me or others around me.



LadyPact -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (3/4/2013 1:49:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

And the advertising just keeps on coming.
Out of curiosity, why is it advertising when a female pro posts, but not when the male pro joins the conversation? I'll grant you, the two most recent additions had a different slant. However, it doesn't quite line up with some earlier statements.




Kana -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (3/4/2013 1:10:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Villain4Damsel

I wasn't speaking of history or leather. I was speaking more of bringing bdsm to the general public.

Hah.
Pop culture (Via things like music videos, movies(things like 8 MM, The Secretary and a million others), Harlequin Romances, industrial, goth, the porn explosion of the 70's and 80's) and the chica who wrote 50 Shades have done more than all the Pro's combined.



MistressKimberCh -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (4/30/2013 11:34:42 PM)

I'm a Pro-Domme and have a Pay-Pig locally, and that dynamic came about organically. He has a foot fetish, likes "angry feet that take advantage of him". He started whining, which I hate, so I grabbed his wallet with my talented foot and took out an extra twenty dollars. Needless to say, he loves being punished n this manner. Clearly, my feet and I am in charge of him physically and financially.

Perhaps, there should be a separate category for the so called young and bratty Fin-Dommes? I see that more as a sugar daddy situation than Fin-Domme. I do wish them well though. Apparently that dynamic satisfies some pay-pigs. Because of the bashing I actually hesitate to put up an ad for more pay pig even though I enjoyed dominating in that manner.



egern -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/1/2013 2:20:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressKimberCh

I'm a Pro-Domme and have a Pay-Pig locally, and that dynamic came about organically. He has a foot fetish, likes "angry feet that take advantage of him". He started whining, which I hate, so I grabbed his wallet with my talented foot and took out an extra twenty dollars. Needless to say, he loves being punished n this manner. Clearly, my feet and I am in charge of him physically and financially.

Perhaps, there should be a separate category for the so called young and bratty Fin-Dommes? I see that more as a sugar daddy situation than Fin-Domme. I do wish them well though. Apparently that dynamic satisfies some pay-pigs. Because of the bashing I actually hesitate to put up an ad for more pay pig even though I enjoyed dominating in that manner.


You just did, though.



TNDommeK -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/1/2013 10:00:37 AM)

Nothing wrong with ads, but I doubt it does anything for this side. It's just a bunch of us discussing topics. Occasionally we get people who bash but if you read this thread, you'll see their arguments are invalid...well in my case anyway.



cloudboy -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/2/2013 5:55:38 PM)


I'm sure the original question has long since been abandoned, by my answer is a categorical NO.



TNDommeK -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/3/2013 10:36:34 AM)

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seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/3/2013 4:53:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

I think that the problems arise because so many scammers have realized that there is an opportunity to take advantage of people, and they've entered the fray



This following statement TOTALLY sums up my thought and feelings on the subject ... TOTAL BS

It seems like 50 - 60 per cent of women online try to play this game.

The eastern european mafia is constantly putting up new profiles .. one gets deleted by admins ... another one appears.

They even send the SAME form letter ...

What ever happened to safe, sane and consensual?

Communication, trust and respect?

In THAT circumstance i can understand it .. provided the participants knew each other in real life.

But the way this is all working today (AND IN THE LAST THREE OR FOUR YEARS)

I feel "financial domination" should be BARRED from Lifestyle Web Sites.

Total BS .. in every way,. shape and form.

And a TRUE blemish ... on the lifestyle.




MasterCaneman -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/3/2013 10:10:50 PM)

I say meh. I actually get a kick out of the ones I get. If I was halfway motivated and had the time, I'd fuck with them like the 419 busters do. Nothing against the Fin Dommes, more power to them. Hell, if I could figure out a way to be a Fin Dom, I'd do it too. If those guys fall for it, it's their tough luck. This place doesn't have the time or staffing to vet all the incoming profiles. Simply put, if you're (meaning the pathetic ones who fall for these profiles) too stupid to figure it out, it's their problem, nobody else's.



Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/4/2013 7:29:56 AM)

To answer the basic question.

"Is Financial domination a legitimate form of D/s?"

The answer is "Yes".



TheLilSquaw -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/4/2013 9:17:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman

Hell, if I could figure out a way to be a Fin Dom, I'd do it too.


I just want to point out there are MALE pros as well as male financial doms out there. I know a few from CM and even more from fetlife. Some of which I have had the pleasure of knowing in person.

It is NOT only women who become pros or practice financial domination.

ETA: I get asked A LOT about male pros or financial doms.



ClassAct2006 -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/4/2013 9:46:42 AM)

People can charge if they like if that complies with their local law. It has never bothered me.
Sex tends to come at a cost - in my case the divorce settlement I had to pay my ex husband after our long marriage and people pay in other ways.
Money is rarely the most important thing in marriages and loving relationships but it does matter.
I think at my age and stage despite being very inherently submissive and given my competence with money and my career I would not cede any power in that area to a man

Women find it easier to charge for sex than men and to marry men who earn more who will keep them. That seems to be because of the "sex deficit" - that more men want more sex than women do (which does not please my little feminist heart to write but seems to be the case).



MasterCaneman -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/4/2013 10:07:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman

Hell, if I could figure out a way to be a Fin Dom, I'd do it too.


I just want to point out there are MALE pros as well as male financial doms out there. I know a few from CM and even more from fetlife. Some of which I have had the pleasure of knowing in person.

It is NOT only women who become pros or practice financial domination.

ETA: I get asked A LOT about male pros or financial doms.


Hmmm. Interesting. Considering the volume of submissives who view my profile, perhaps I should do a little research on this matter. I could use a new pair of Danners...[;)]



seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/4/2013 3:33:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman

Hell, if I could figure out a way to be a Fin Dom, I'd do it too.


I just want to point out there are MALE pros as well as male financial doms out there. I know a few from CM and even more from fetlife. Some of which I have had the pleasure of knowing in person.

It is NOT only women who become pros or practice financial domination.

ETA: I get asked A LOT about male pros or financial doms.



Lil Squaw .. you are right, financial domination has been part of human life, since its inception.

After all, didn't the Caveman bring the Meat home to the lady of the cave?

That said, i myself, have nothing against Pro Dommes, they work hard for the money; and spent lots of it building the business.

BUT I HAVE A WICKED, MEAN ATTITUDE TOWARD THE BS that gets sent via email today.

As Master Caneman points out in his post .. we Males get bombarded with them.

Just like women get bombarded with males telling them what the Lady can do for them. [:)]

Yet the level ... of the eastern European mafia behind the number of emails we males receive, is ridiculous.

And they are all trying to:

1. Steal your IP address

2. Get your credit card number

3. If you are dumb enough, trust them to give them enough to blackmail you.

And these mails are AS incredible in volume, as the Ladies complain about from "men". Perhaps even MORE ridiculous.

So like ... if there is a way ... I can make a 100K per year being a pro or with financial domination; please do elaborate.

[:D] [:D] [:D] [:D]


Because i doubt it, unless there is a blue moon, and we all meet a Multi-Millionaire Ladies who want "kept men".







TNDommeK -> RE: Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (5/5/2013 2:52:31 AM)

Not all of us are like that....which has been the subject of this entire thread. So yes, it is a legit form of D/s.



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