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JeffBC -> Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 3:56:07 PM)

Seems with her travelling for a few weeks and me busy on work for a few months the whole internal enslavement thing is slipping a bit. She came home to me and, apparently, isn't sure she wants to be owned anymore. I, of course, did not try to influence her thinking on this at all and gave her a wide open, "Well, what do you want?" She thought about it a moment then asked me what I wanted her to want.

Anyone think I'll be without a slave in another week or two? *laughs*

This may become an every two year or so ritual for us.




ARIES83 -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 4:09:10 PM)

Haaaaaaa!
She just sounds restless...
Keep me posted![:D]

-ARIES




JeffBC -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 4:15:11 PM)

My plan is just to tell her she's free... congratulations! Like all other labels I don't really expect it to change much and she'll come to that realization herself pretty quick I expect. This does seem to happen every 2 years or so with us. This time, however, I've finally wised up and I'm making of it exactly as much as it deserves.

For the record, my answer to her "What do you want?" question was, "I want you to be happy honey." -- an answer which she found entirely unsatisfying *laughs*.




kiwisub12 -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 4:27:00 PM)

You mean.............. you aren't going to freak out, make a scene and cause a drama?

Well, shoot! Might as well watch tv then...............................[;)]




JeffBC -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 4:42:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12
You mean.............. you aren't going to freak out, make a scene and cause a drama?

Nope. She's officially free. Near as I can tell what that means is when she asks me what she should do I use a few extra words. Instead of "Do X mine." now it's, "Well, if it were me I'd do X." I'll be sure and keep everyone posted though about our exciting transition back into vanilla-land.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 4:45:41 PM)

You two are a damn cute couple.




JeffBC -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 4:48:02 PM)

Aw thanks LadyHib... I think I want to change the official name of our dynamic from M/s to DCC.




CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 4:48:49 PM)

Instead of a leash, could I suggest a "gentle lead"...




JeffBC -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 4:55:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: CRYPTICLXVI

Instead of a leash, could I suggest a "gentle lead"...

*laughs*. Funny thing that. My newly free wife likes being leashed. It's a lot like a hug for us. I'll have to ask her free self how she wants to handle that. Oh I'm planning in having a whole lot of fun during the next week or two.




LadyPact -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 5:01:42 PM)

I might just give you an eye roll, rather than a comment.

I have a feeling you know as well as I do that if you take the slave actions away from someone who is internally enslaved, they find rather quickly that reassurance that they really do want to be a slave.




JeffBC -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 5:31:53 PM)

Well I have to admit that it was all I could do to not give her an eye roll when she told me this. I actually don't think she'd notice being enslaved or not. If I refused to provide guidance she would notice that but I have no intention of being a pill. Seriously though, my own thought is that if you have to ask if it's OK to be free then it's probably not.




OsideGirl -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 5:38:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC


For the record, my answer to her "What do you want?" question was, "I want you to be happy honey." -- an answer which she found entirely unsatisfying *laughs*.


And yet you claim that you're not a sadist......




ARIES83 -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 6:04:04 PM)

Hmm, Jeff you have a CMail.




JeffBC -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 6:17:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ARIES83
Hmm, Jeff you have a CMail.

Well damn! A serious question to a joke thread (well... the story is true although I've certainly played a bit with wording). It's a joke because of our history. You have a response.

PS: Carol has just declared that she's finally found a hard limit. She's not going with "damned cute". She's always seen herself more as the dark and dangerous kind although she may be the only human on the face of the planet who thinks that.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 6:22:17 PM)

I can see her as the scowling mystery woman half hidden behind the raised collar of her coat... yep.




JeffBC -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 6:25:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
And yet you claim that you're not a sadist......

Hold on a sec, I'm sure I put my Sunday best innocent face somewhere around here....




Faldegast -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 7:42:16 PM)

quote:

t means is when she asks me what she should do I use a few extra words. Instead of "Do X mine." now it's, "Well, if it were me I'd do X." I'll be sure and keep everyone posted though about our exciting transition back into vanilla-land.


Slavery implies your leadership while freedom implies making your own decisions. What I do in this kind of events is "Well, you are free to make your own decision now". Having no middle ground usually makes them chose slavery, because they do not really wanna make their own decisions.




Ullrmann -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 7:56:53 PM)

Oops wrong account




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/29/2012 7:58:47 PM)

I dunno Jeff... I'm not sure I can still protect you now that you aren't even recognized by Carol as a Master/Dom. I think you just last the last kinky points you have left. Sadly that means you'll have to leave this site forever now that you're not true anymore.

I wish you the best and I'll miss you.




JeffBC -> RE: Well damn. Carol slipped her collar again. (8/30/2012 7:17:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
I wish you the best and I'll miss you.

This is your lucky day! Later last night Carol had apparently given the state of her freedom all the pondering it required (you'd think something like that might take more than 24 hours) and determined that reinforcing our dynamic is the way to go. *blinks* ??huh?? That whole gig about you chicks being mysterious and inscrutable? I've never bought that but man... how you get from "maybe I don't want to be owned" to "let's make me more owned" in 24 hours is, if nothing else, a serious head fake.

That, of course, brings up yet a new problem. We don't have a punishment dynamic but now that I own her again I have to give careful consideration to the fact that I was planning on having 1-2 weeks of fun with this and she just ruined it. Maybe I should post out on general and solicit for ways to punish my slave?




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