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RE: plans for slaves in the event of Owners death - 8/31/2012 12:18:06 AM

Endivius

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ORIGINAL: Baroana

Yeah but...... are these your slaves or your kids?

One was a slave, the other a sub.

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RE: plans for slaves in the event of Owners death - 8/31/2012 2:21:15 PM

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Yeah, we're married and estate-planned up the wazoo. Wills and estates for dummies is a must read, no matter what your status.

At the MasT convention, they always have a great workshop on this issue. It's like a private consult with a pricey lawyer.

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RE: plans for slaves in the event of Owners death - 9/4/2012 10:22:00 PM

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I'd recommend, in addition to a will, that every dom write a letter to their slave/sub making their feelings and love clear in case they die suddenly.

I always keep a set of letters for my sub/slave [plus a set for my family and close friends] in case I pass suddenly and unexpectedly. I try to update them regularly.

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RE: plans for slaves in the event of Owners death - 9/6/2012 5:43:31 PM

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Everything changes based on your personal status. Wills can be changed and, in some cases challenged in court. It is easy to change and hard to contest the beneficiary of a life insurance policy. Also cheaper to change.

The best response to the ops question as to how she should react is a profound "thank you" followed by " I prefer you to any financial benefit". The op can follow that with "let me know what you want me to do with the residual"

My will stipulates she gets a life estate with the residual going to my family.

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RE: plans for slaves in the event of Owners death - 9/6/2012 7:42:48 PM

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Greetings,

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

I married her :)

This.

It is difficult for me to surmise that degree of life investment with an individual I wasn't tied to in some significant fashion. I don't discount the suitableness of other arrangements for those that find them appropriate. But I need to know that we're in this for the long haul.

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