Try reading the FAQs at the top of the Ask a Mistress page. If that doesn't work, you can always go to Doms R' Us and head down Aisle 5. They will be on the left.
any advise on how to find a mistress to serve her feet no sex i will do what ever she tells me to
Nope. You WON'T do whatever she tells you to. You've already clarified that you want to worship her feet and that sex is off the table, regardless of what she may want. Not only that, but your message and your profile make it clear that you want play sessions, not any kind of relationship.
I loveses you, Steven! You're going to have to type louder, though. I don't think the OP heard you...I know the OP didn't hear you. Ah, hell, we ALL know the OP didn't hear you.