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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Maybe this person can hook up with the guy on the other thread who wanted to buy someone for $700.

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ORIGINAL: ELAYLADY

= My problem is something I did not expect to happen. I am a brand new subbie. I met a Dom a couple of weeks ago from CM I had made a remark that he did not like. I realized my error and recanted the remark before he could call me on it. He acknowledged that I had apologized prior to him administering punishment to me. He said all was okay. I asked hime if that meant he forgave me. He said yes, he did.

That night, however, because I did not respond to his texts, he sent me a text that I was so busy whining about, etc etc, that I had failed to answer his texts in a timely manner. I WAS AT WORK. I told him that it was my understanding that once forgiven it is forgotten. I felt that I could not trust him. And that I was afraid of him a bit for that. He said he did not care if my sub self was afraid of him or not. He then left on his vacation and I dealt with it with help from some of my friends here and one friend on the outside.

He has since returned and has accused me of lesbianism and stated that he believed that the person on the outside who had helped me was my Domme. He said there is no such thing as Once forgiven it is Forgotten. Which is the truth please???

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You are female, which in this culture is in high demand. You have no need or reason to shift your sexually to his.

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ORIGINAL: ELAYLADY



TO ALL WHO WERE KIND ENOUGH TO REPLY TO THIS EMAIL. THANK YOU. I AM VERY APPRECIATIVE. IT IS DIFFICULT BEING NEW TO A SITUATION AND WITH ONES HEAD UP HER ASS AS MINE WAS, IT IS DIFFICULT TO SMELL THE BLOSSOMS, BECAUSE ONE'S NOSE IS PLACED WHERE THE FERTILIZER IS MANUFACTURED.

AND A KEWPIE DOLL TO THE FIRST PERSON WHO CAN HELP ME DELETE THIS EXTREMELY EMBARRASSING THREAD.

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


Come on... seriously... read the above and think to yourself... ask yourself the question: "is this normal rational behavior for ME to react like this to these events?"

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ORIGINAL: ELAYLADY

met on collar me 2 weeks ago and in person 9 days ago.

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ORIGINAL: BambiBoi

Lady Pact,

I feel sympathy for them. Like You've pointed out in many posts, that a relationship has a D/s element does not require common sense to go out the window. Sadly, that is a point lost on so many novice posters. It takes monk-like patience and sometimes kid-gloves to get the fledgling kinksters off the ground.

Sometimes, such an approach necessitates feeding trolls. But every now and again I feel like I've practically saved a life by reminding a submissive whose trying so hard to be a pleasing slave that she doesn't have to endure abuses. I take similar care in the poly forum to remind people that just because one is dominant does not mean his or her decisions should go unquestioned.

So many submissives, especially those new and eager to please, endure silliness that borders stupidity because they would feel like a failure for not abiding certain tasks. In short, every now and again I will get an encouraging letter or response from a novice bashfully admitting it was so simple, and they just needed someone to help them see.

That is what keeps me coming back. Plus the newbie girls tend to put booby pictures in their profiles, so that's nice too.