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LaTigresse -> RE: Gentlemen, I'm starting to feel bad for you (9/9/2012 12:53:58 PM)

Ya, I was like that once......when I was 16.

Then I got what I thought I wanted. So much for fantasy shit.

It took me nearly ten years, a few near death experiences, a couple close calls of nearly commiting murder, living in hiding for 6 months where my family didn't even know how to find me, tens of thousands of dollars, getting involved with some seriously not cool people, me having to deal with the BCI wayyyy more than I ever wanted to, him going to jail, prison and whatever the fuck else he did.......to get rid of him.

I will take good old boring reality any day of the week and twice on Sunday.

I totally do not understand how, any person over the age of 30, with a fully functioning brain, can have some of the questions I read on here regularly. I love fiction......as entertainment. Books, movies, short stories, television shows......but I kinda assume that there really are not hobbits or elves. I do totally dig the hobbit houses and given the cash, I'd build one in my orchard. But I am not dellusional enough to believe that if I built a hobbit house, hobbits would be moving in. I don't believe I can do magic or that anyone else can. AND, I don't believe that relationships of any sort, can thrive without a helluva lot of real life compatibility and WORK.....for everyone involved. I don't believe in shortcuts. I don't believe that just because a person says they are a slave, they are. Or that I would want them to be MY slave. I don't believe that just because I say I am dominant and worthy of being served, everyone that IS a slave will agree with me. They won't.

People need to pull their heads out of their asses and look in their mirrors. Fix their own shit before they try to make their shit, someone else's shit. Cuz, yanno, that's what I think a lot of these middle aged people are trying to do. They believe that there is some magical prince charming that will come along and fix their shit. Pay their bills, buy them baubles, make all of their problems magically disappear. The reality is that any person that would conciously take on all their shit and make the promise to fix it, is the very worst person they could be with.




joewordsmith11 -> RE: Gentlemen, I'm starting to feel bad for you (9/10/2012 11:58:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

As many of My male counterparts know, I've never been really big on the genders being split for forums between Dominants. I tend to think there are more similarities than differences. Since the submissive board incorporates both genders, I honestly feel the D side could have followed suit.

One of the differences between the boards, as many of you know, is that we do get a lot of wankers on the Mistress side. I've always felt that would be reduced if the genders would have been combined.

However, in the last couple of days, I've felt bad for the men on this board. Some of the stupidest, complete lack of knowledge type questions have been coming here. Often, they are coming from people who are fifty or older.

Are you noticing this trend? Is it something that is confined to the internet for you? Are you also seeing this complete lack of experience or even general life knowledge in your local munch groups?

Bonus question: Has anyone else wanted to literally bang their head on the desk reading some of this crap lately?




Stupidity and ignorance is rarely in short supply on any Internet board devoted to any topic.

It's pointless to get bothered by it. If the balance of stupidity and ignorance gets too high on a particular forum, I simply stop going to that forum.





Arturas -> RE: Gentlemen, I'm starting to feel bad for you (9/11/2012 3:25:54 PM)

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As many of My male counterparts know, I've never been really big on the genders being split for forums between Dominants. I tend to think there are more similarities than differences


Male and female Dominants are like night and day. Ying and yang. Left and Right brains. Skirt chasers and skirt wearers. Ever watch a Dom male and his girl in action compared to a Dom female and her boy? Night and day. The female dom likely has her 55 year old bi sexual "boy" hooded and hanging by a rope tied around his wrists and a weight on his balls while she tears his balls up with her whip and makes him wish he was never born. With few exceptions, there are animals out there pretending to be Doms, the male dom has the girl tied up to give him access to all of her in a way that gives him and her enjoyment and she if actively focused on his needs even when she is restrained and he is focused on on sending her into subspace while the female dom focuses on sending her 55 year old boy into pain hell and therefore herself into bitch Domspace and making the guy pay for being a submissive. Also, never have I seen a female Dom use the cage to cage a male and then have her way with him while cold steel bar shadows play against his skin like Male Doms do when they make good use of an upright steel cage in the lifestyle club.

Night and day in their forum posts also. The females tend to run over to the male only forums and run amoke with the male posts whereas the males tend to stay with the male forums unless they find more wannabe female doms there posting like it was their natural right and then the males get pissed off and go do the male thing over in the "ask a mistress" forum cause they're pissed and purposefully get the women stirred up because it's damn fun and they deserve it because the women were over in the male area pretending males cannot answer the posts there and somehow need females over thelr helping and they also pretend "ask a Master" as a forum title was just some mistake or something.

So, don't feel bad for "us". We have the naturally dominate role and the big Dick that goes with it and what's more, we know how to use it.




LaTigresse -> RE: Gentlemen, I'm starting to feel bad for you (9/11/2012 3:28:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: joewordsmith11
Stupidity and ignorance is rarely in short supply on any Internet board devoted to any topic.


How fitting, the post that follows this. It's as though by divine intervention.

I am sure I hear a choir of angels singing.




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joewordsmith11 -> RE: Gentlemen, I'm starting to feel bad for you (9/11/2012 11:54:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


quote:

ORIGINAL: joewordsmith11
Stupidity and ignorance is rarely in short supply on any Internet board devoted to any topic.


How fitting, the post that follows this. It's as though by divine intervention.

I am sure I hear a choir of angels singing.


That made me laugh too. I love good timing




MariaB -> RE: Gentlemen, I'm starting to feel bad for you (9/12/2012 3:55:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Arturas

quote:

As many of My male counterparts know, I've never been really big on the genders being split for forums between Dominants. I tend to think there are more similarities than differences


Male and female Dominants are like night and day. Ying and yang. Left and Right brains. Skirt chasers and skirt wearers. Ever watch a Dom male and his girl in action compared to a Dom female and her boy? Night and day. The female dom likely has her 55 year old bi sexual "boy" hooded and hanging by a rope tied around his wrists and a weight on his balls while she tears his balls up with her whip and makes him wish he was never born. With few exceptions, there are animals out there pretending to be Doms, the male dom has the girl tied up to give him access to all of her in a way that gives him and her enjoyment and she if actively focused on his needs even when she is restrained and he is focused on on sending her into subspace while the female dom focuses on sending her 55 year old boy into pain hell and therefore herself into bitch Domspace and making the guy pay for being a submissive. Also, never have I seen a female Dom use the cage to cage a male and then have her way with him while cold steel bar shadows play against his skin like Male Doms do when they make good use of an upright steel cage in the lifestyle club.

Night and day in their forum posts also. The females tend to run over to the male only forums and run amoke with the male posts whereas the males tend to stay with the male forums unless they find more wannabe female doms there posting like it was their natural right and then the males get pissed off and go do the male thing over in the "ask a mistress" forum cause they're pissed and purposefully get the women stirred up because it's damn fun and they deserve it because the women were over in the male area pretending males cannot answer the posts there and somehow need females over thelr helping and they also pretend "ask a Master" as a forum title was just some mistake or something.

So, don't feel bad for "us". We have the naturally dominate role and the big Dick that goes with it and what's more, we know how to use it.


You remind me of the man I once got chatting to in a fet club. The conversation came to an abrupt end when he leaned over and whispered in my ear, 'all Dommes are either submissives who just haven't found a good dominant yet or they are man haters trying to get some sort of revenge ' [8|]

Your post suggests that you do a lot of partying. The Dommes you describe sound like the sort of Dommes one tends to see in a Fem Domme club.
Personally I/We spend a lot of time with smaller groups of people who we know well. Female dominants, male dominants all getting along and all able to have deep and meaningful relationships with their submissive partners and that includes a deeper sexual intimacy too.
When I go to the bigger parties I see a lot of Dommes behaving the way you describe but I also see a lot of male dominants showing off and behaving like apes.

As far as the boards titles, I have never really understood why Dommes are separated from Doms and I have always noticed the cross over of female dominants answering questions in the 'ask a Dom' forums.
You only have to look through the 'Ask a Domme' forums to see that its mainly wank fodder and not something women want to be spending their time on. I have always found the questions and discussions put forward in 'Ask a Dom' to be much more interesting.
Saying that, I haven't been looking on either forum much recently so I haven't noticed the 'Grey Matter' evolving.




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