LaTigresse -> RE: Gentlemen, I'm starting to feel bad for you (9/9/2012 12:53:58 PM)
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Ya, I was like that once......when I was 16. Then I got what I thought I wanted. So much for fantasy shit. It took me nearly ten years, a few near death experiences, a couple close calls of nearly commiting murder, living in hiding for 6 months where my family didn't even know how to find me, tens of thousands of dollars, getting involved with some seriously not cool people, me having to deal with the BCI wayyyy more than I ever wanted to, him going to jail, prison and whatever the fuck else he did.......to get rid of him. I will take good old boring reality any day of the week and twice on Sunday. I totally do not understand how, any person over the age of 30, with a fully functioning brain, can have some of the questions I read on here regularly. I love fiction......as entertainment. Books, movies, short stories, television shows......but I kinda assume that there really are not hobbits or elves. I do totally dig the hobbit houses and given the cash, I'd build one in my orchard. But I am not dellusional enough to believe that if I built a hobbit house, hobbits would be moving in. I don't believe I can do magic or that anyone else can. AND, I don't believe that relationships of any sort, can thrive without a helluva lot of real life compatibility and WORK.....for everyone involved. I don't believe in shortcuts. I don't believe that just because a person says they are a slave, they are. Or that I would want them to be MY slave. I don't believe that just because I say I am dominant and worthy of being served, everyone that IS a slave will agree with me. They won't. People need to pull their heads out of their asses and look in their mirrors. Fix their own shit before they try to make their shit, someone else's shit. Cuz, yanno, that's what I think a lot of these middle aged people are trying to do. They believe that there is some magical prince charming that will come along and fix their shit. Pay their bills, buy them baubles, make all of their problems magically disappear. The reality is that any person that would conciously take on all their shit and make the promise to fix it, is the very worst person they could be with.
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