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Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/7/2012 6:17:54 PM

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Hello All,

I'm leaving in about 12 hrs, so here is hoping for some quick advice.

My Dom and myself will be backpacking in a wilderness area and I desperately want for a rape-type scene to happen. I guess I can back up by saying that he is my husband, we've been in this lifestyle for 5+ yrs, so no concerns about trust. We've also backpacked many times and are comfortable with that scene. What I'm really after is some advice about seducing him. Our sex as of late has become slightly tedious and predictable. If anyone has any advice (from the top or the bottom perspective) about how to make my desires clear without outright saying it, please please suggest them. The more creative the better!

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/7/2012 7:16:10 PM

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I don't think you can get across that you want a specific scenario at a specific time without coming out and saying it. Or at least, I couldn't.

You seem like you really, really want to reconnect with your partner. Why not communicate that? Maybe remind him about how you like a little force?

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/7/2012 7:53:42 PM

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Rape scenes aren't going to just happen. You have to talk about them and say that you want this.

You really think that out of the blue he's going to abandon you on a hike and then show up in a mask three hours later to tie you to a tree?

Or are you just talking about rough sex? Even with that, he might be nervous about being overheard. Tents don't stifle sound much.

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/7/2012 8:16:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SophiaChan

Hello All,

I'm leaving in about 12 hrs, so here is hoping for some quick advice.

My Dom and myself will be backpacking in a wilderness area and I desperately want for a rape-type scene to happen. I guess I can back up by saying that he is my husband, we've been in this lifestyle for 5+ yrs, so no concerns about trust. We've also backpacked many times and are comfortable with that scene. What I'm really after is some advice about seducing him. Our sex as of late has become slightly tedious and predictable. If anyone has any advice (from the top or the bottom perspective) about how to make my desires clear without outright saying it, please please suggest them. The more creative the better!

Hugs~ Sophia

Communicate. Nobody is a mind reader.

Tell him what you want, exactly as you told us. That you dont want to know when it's gonna happen, but you want it to happen. If you trust him with this and that he agrees, then he can decides on his terms what he wants to do with you, i assume he knows your limits and what you likes etc. (after 5 years, let's hope so

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Maybe your suggestion will get his creative hamster mind going and you'll end up doing nasty nasty things that you never thought about. Sometimes, you just need a little incentive to get the mind going....

But we dont know him or what he likes....so suggestions might end up in a deaf ear.

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/7/2012 8:21:01 PM

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Ok, so you said your sex life is getting sorta routine....so why don't you guys have a fun outing by talking about things you both would like to do sexually. You both may come across a lot of surprising answers on stuff you never knew the other liked.

Imo sometimes the communication itself is fun. I think lying in the tent together, cuddling each other would be a fun way to discuss this kind of stuff and have a good laugh at one another and even turn you both on enough to wanna just go at it like bunnies unless you're too afraid to ask because you are afraid there may be things between the two of you that you just don't wanna know about. If that's true then I got nuthin.

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/8/2012 2:58:42 AM

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God you subs are so shy sometimes...
If you tell him that you want him to rape
you... You will more than likely get your
wish, so be careful what you wish for!

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/8/2012 8:43:53 AM

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I can be shy expressing my desires face to face (I'm much bolder in print.) When my (now ex) husband and I were noobs I used to point out things from "Screw the Roses; Send me the Thorns" and The Topping and Bottoming Books that I thought we'd enjoy.

OP - if you are not comfortable speaking with him, how about emailing him?

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/9/2012 12:05:30 AM

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the only possible way is to be open and honest, don't imply and hope the the other person picks up the clues. Tell him what you want, that he is a part of your fantasy you wish share with him. It will make you closer and give you an experience to share. The worst is you get a confused look and have to start over using smaller words.

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/9/2012 9:20:43 PM

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Greetings Sophia!

One word of caution after reading your post. It sounds as tho you hope this "rape fantasy" will happen while you are back packing, correct? In the wilderness? Imagine if some saw this happening and actually thought you were being raped/attacked/worse. This could have a very different ending that the one that plays out in your head.

My exDom fullfilled my "rape fantasy" twice. Everything worked out great. But it takes communication.....lots of it.......and planning to execute such thoughts and ideas and put them into a real life situation.

I would be happy to fill you in on how our fantasy was planned and executed if you wish.

Take care!

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/9/2012 9:27:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIPhe might be nervous about being overheard. Tents don't stifle sound much.

Why bother with a tent, unless it's raining?
A good rape location in the forest would be on the ground or against a large rock or tree trunk.

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wilderness

Sounds like it's, well, in the wilderness. Tends to be very few other people within earshot out there. Then again, I'm Canadian, maybe your wilderness is more heavily populated.

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/9/2012 9:52:16 PM

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Here in America it depends on the wilderness area you are in. Is it a national park? It's gonna be crowded. Does it crouch upon farmlands? Good chance you will be seen. Are the trees growing thin and not full? You will be seen.

My experience here in the U.S. is that most wilderness areas are very close to people. Even the Appalachian trail finds a lot of people there trying to hike the whole way through it as an adventure trip.

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/10/2012 11:39:33 AM

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I had a first date want to have lunch and then a walk in the state park which I thought was sweet until I saw that he was bringing a blanket >_<

Now, I have had sex on first dates, and I have had sex in the woods, but when he persisted in being grabby after me pointing out that I could hear people and was being bothered by mosquitoes it became our last date.

In retrospect, I should have ended the date when I saw the blanket when we were in the parking lot. The thought of rape never crossed my mind then.

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/10/2012 12:01:04 PM

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I'm a bit late to this but I'm not sure it matters, I don't have a way for you to seduce your husband into raping you.

As has been mentioned, you two need to talk at length about this fantasy of yours. When you say rape and I say ravagement, I know what I mean, and you know what you mean, but that doesn't mean we are describing the same sexual fantasy in the least.

There's a whole lot of leeway there, and since I can think of very few roleplays more fraught with potential nasty emotional triggers. You really do need to discuss every aspect of what you do want, and what you don't want to the point you are both absolutely clear you are on the same page.

So, now that you have had these long series of intense discussions, how do you make a rape, or as I prefer to term it ravagement, fantasy come true without it seeming overly choreographed?

First, just b/c you made clear what you do want to have happen, doesn't mean it can or will all happen each and every time. Second, timing is everything. It's always good to have a head's up like, you're going to get ravaged this weekend, since anticipation can be part of the fun. But not knowing exactly when makes it seem more real.

Lastly, this is one of those roleplays where I think couples need to use safewords. That way you can protest and scream no to full abandon, but if you yell red, he knows to stop. Please refer back to those nasty emotional triggers.

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RE: Backwoods Rape Scene - 9/11/2012 1:54:34 PM

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I had a first date want to have lunch and then a walk in the state park which I thought was sweet until I saw that he was bringing a blanket >_<

Really? I must be naive. We keep a blanket in the car for going up to the lake. If the grass is wet, it insulates you. If it's dry and prickly, the same. Plus we've been known to nap on it.

Our first date was at a state park. He brought a blanket and we lay on it to eat our sandwiches.

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