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nerd4BBWPrincess -> Housework (9/9/2012 7:32:10 AM)
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Hello everyone,
I posted this in my journal, but I thought I would share this here too!
I was thinking quite a bit today about the idea of housework and my affinity for it. I have always enjoyed cleaning and organizing to one extent or another; it might be the feeling of accomplishment when I complete certain tasks or just the feeling of control over something in my life. But, it was not until my adult life that I really took to housework. At the basis of any relationship (friend, roommate, or committed partner) are trust and the desire to provide a safe and clean household for another person.
I can remember even with platonic roommates I would often stay home when they were out and surprise them with a sparkling clean house when they returned; the feeling was so good to have provided something based in love and adulation with no expectation of reciprocation.
In my relationships that I have had with women my feelings have been exponentially heightened, housework fills my heart with purpose, love and excitement. I would argue that offering to do housework for someone is not a cold exchange or humiliation, in contrast I feel that it is an extremely intimate and selfless act that gives both parties joy.
On my end I’m helping provide that safe and clean household and for the recipient letting someone into your house to clean your most precious things is very intimate and without trust would not be possible. At the root of all things people all seek the same things; to be loved, to give love and a sense of purpose and my housework services achieve all three; in my opinion that is a beautiful thing!
Robert
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