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slaveyou -> What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/9/2012 9:06:34 AM)

Ive noticed mistresses have diferent interests when it comes to enslaving someone. What is your main interest you look for when you are looking for a slave to serve you??




DommeGoddessEva -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/9/2012 9:19:01 AM)

I find it hard to choose someone to serve me simply by reading their interests. I like to get to know someone a little deeper, get to know they're honest, genuinely and loyal. You can have loads of interests in common with me but if you fuck about you're never going to be given any of my time.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/9/2012 10:08:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slaveyou

Ive noticed mistresses have diferent interests when it comes to enslaving someone. What is your main interest you look for when you are looking for a slave to serve you??


Who are you asking? If you noticed that we have different interest elsewhere, doesn't it make sense that we do here, as well?




LadyPact -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/9/2012 11:36:19 AM)

Since this is really just a personal opinion question, I'm going to say that Mine is involvement in the local BDSM community. It shows a number of things.

The person isn't afraid or uncomfortable to be a part of the community.

The person isn't so wrapped up in the thought of being outed that it prevents them from living their life.

The person has a stake in education before I came along.

The person isn't a time waster/no show type.




r1a2y3m4o5n6d7 -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/10/2012 1:49:19 PM)

What kind of education???

Why go to the show when you can wait till it comes out on DVD.

Outed. I have an innie.

What if im in the prison community? Wait if Im in prison Im screwed anyway.




Titaniya -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/10/2012 2:30:01 PM)

One of my biggest questions when considering potential partners (kinky or not) is: Do they approach me like a potential date or a potential friend?

There's a really big difference in the way a lot of people talk when they're hoping to date you/sleep with you/serve you versus get to know you. Sometimes it's the same - and I find that preferable - but a lot of times, it's clear the person is reducing you to an idea when they're hoping to (sexually or otherwise) seduce you. I'm much more likely to consider a submissive I don't have all that much in common with if their first few messages focus on the vanilla interests in my profile than a submissive I have a lot of overlapping kinks with if their first message is asking me to tie them up and beat them.




kalikshama -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/10/2012 5:51:38 PM)

They look for the opposite of this: http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/10/2012 6:12:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

They look for the opposite of this: http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting

[sm=rofl.gif] OMG! That was SO worth seeing again!

NBMG




RumpusParable -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/10/2012 8:50:21 PM)

I look first and foremost to whether the person is service-oriented.... Massage, housecleaning, errands, etc.




amaidiamond -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/11/2012 1:10:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

They look for the opposite of this: http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting



Ok there goes another keyboard...

Snorts laughing




Politesub53 -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/11/2012 3:59:01 AM)

A platinum credit card.

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NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/11/2012 11:27:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: slaveyou

Ive noticed mistresses have diferent interests when it comes to enslaving someone. What is your main interest you look for when you are looking for a slave to serve you??

I looked for multiple things. Honesty, integrity, loyalty, service, compatible personalities. Common interests are necessary too but, if those other things aren't present, then you will get nowhere with me anyway.

I avoid no-show types and those with bad hygiene. I run very fast in the opposite direction when I see this coming toward me.

Besides all this, I look for someone I can develop a total relationship with, not just kink and sex, as I'm one of those "I want it all" kind of people.

NBMG




aamiowa -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/15/2012 8:42:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

They look for the opposite of this: http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting



I will never, ever be able to use my rolling pin again...

Accuracy-- 100%




sardoboss -> RE: What do a misrtress look in a slave??? (9/18/2012 3:01:43 PM)

I look for the same things I would look for in a vanilla partner. Someone genuine, honest, with similar interests BDSM and in general and that I find really interesting to be around x




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