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SubLizsive -> Why hello thar! (9/9/2012 11:39:08 PM)
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Well, here I am. Obviously, I'm new here and still kind of surprised I found the guts to join. I'll start with some basics:
I like my username, I'm not going to lie, I think it's kind of cool. Do you know how hard it is to find a not-used username that's interesting with the word 'Liz'? Pretty damn hard. I turn 25 this November. My fiance just broke up with me about three weeks ago, we would've hit our 8th anniversary this October. Surprisingly, I'm not really mad with him and he & I are trying to remain good friends (so far it's working). However, he was my first everything and we discovered together what kind of lifestyle we were into. Now my Sir is gone, possibly already talking to someone new and I'm feeling a little lost. I never bothered to find a lifestyle community because he and I were figuring it out together, and that worked. But now? I have no idea how this works or what I'm even supposed to do next. I've got this lingering fear that if I ever did meet someone the minute they find out what I'm into it'll all be downhill from there. And really, how do you even bring that up? 'Hey, I'm Liz and also, did you bring a paddle? I left mine at home.' Yeah, not so much.
As for what I'm looking for: I'm hoping to just meet like-minded people. I'm very out-going online but not so much in person, I'm hoping to change that. Eight years is a long time and right now my focus is on meeting people, making friends, and having interesting, fun and thoughtful discussions. And hey, if I meet someone, we'll see where that goes. I hope to get involved in some discussions here, ask some questions and generally lurk around but if anyone has recommendations for other sites and forums that are worth joining and meeting people, I'd love to hear it. I found a few but honestly? The black & red layouts were really starting to get a bit cheesy and hurt my eyes.
So, there's that! I look forward to meeting you all :)
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