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Jenniferloves -> Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 5:36:40 AM)



Hi all, I apologise if this question has been asked before but I did search with either word with hundreds of records found.

So I hope it hasn't been asked specifically this way before!

For those that fall under the "Trans" umbrella, I use that word broadly, do or did you ever compare your butt plug as akin to the use a real woman would use a tampon?

PS - no hijacking the thread, serious question!

Should it be hijacked, lol, let me have the first jag: " No, real women insert them into their V*ginas!" [:)]



VideoAdminChi -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 5:48:30 AM)

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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 6:50:21 AM)

Excellent use of 'phrophylactic', Chi. Well done!



OsideGirl -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 8:02:52 AM)

I don't really understand what you're asking because it's like comparing an apple to a sports car.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:30:37 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jenniferloves


For those that fall under the "Trans" umbrella, I use that word broadly, do or did you ever compare your butt plug as akin to the use a real woman would use a tampon?




I don't think I understand the question, could you explain a bit more?

When I use a tampon it's purely a hygienic thing, I'd rather not need to use anything. There's no real sensation once it's in, and the decision to use tampons as opposed to other options is just for convenience.

A buttplug is there for the physical sensation and pleasure, primarily. Other than the fact it goes inside an orifice I don't see much connection. I wouldn't want to wear one for as long as you might wear a tampon.

Your question made me think that the buttplug was being used to prevent some manner of leakage, since that's the purpose of a tampon, but I'm hoping I misunderstood.



sexyred1 -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:31:10 AM)

I do not understand the question. They are completely different things used for completely different issues.



Lockit -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:40:42 AM)

Some do call their ass their vagina and wish to experience what a vagina experiences. It is the closest thing to a vagina they are going to have unless they have surgery. It is easy to understand wanting to feel or experience everything a woman feels and experiences. So I can understand how you might look at a butt plug as a tampon as it might be the safest thing to use that will stay put. As to the rest of it, I can't say, but I can understand the feeling or the need. What we women have suffered through, you cannot know and what we wouldn't welcome, you might because you have never felt it and wish to know what it is like.

That has to be pretty frustrating, so do what works for you and I hope you find some things that aren't frustrating and are fulfilling.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:49:31 AM)

Lockit that does make perfect sense. I think it was the OP's phrasing that made it sound a little odd, about it being used for the same purpose as a woman uses a tampon - implying it was being used to absorb bleeding. If the OP had said 'Does anyone use a buttplug to imagine what it feels like to use a tampon' or something like that, we may have been able to have a better conversation.

Yes it must be very frustrating to not quite be able to know what certain sensations are like.



LaTigresse -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:56:25 AM)

Me, I am just very glad I don't need the tampons, or anything to stick in my vagina, anymore.

I kind of understand wanting to experience all of the sensations of being the gender you feel yourself to be, but I gotta say, having a period and dealing with all that entails is highly overrated. I could have gone a lifetime without that experience.

Were it me, I'd stick with the mental aspect.....being what you know yourself to be. Focusing on the physical details seems like a path to frustration and ultimately, self negativity.



ARIES83 -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:57:19 AM)

I've noticed that there is a common occurrence
of the more regular posters (mainly female subs)
posting in threads where the OP is asking Male
experience specific questions.

The OP asked for the opinion of Trans people.
Not only was the question not directed at you,
and your opinion wasn't asked for, short of
asking any Trans friends of yours you have no
way of answering the question.
So whether you all understand or not is
irrelevant.

Unless you are Trans or planning on asking
someone who is Trans, nobody cares if you
understand or not.

-Aries




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:59:34 AM)

I am thinking that some of the stuff we experience... they wouldn't enjoy. It's true that it's not a set of symptoms that can be replicated, but since we all experience it differently, that's no bad thing. Honestly, who remembers those belts, like they give you in the hospital? Want to have the deep inconvenience, wear one of those suckers!

I did have a CD want me to put tampons in his rectum, but that's in that "not a great idea" zone.

I will be honest and this is MY OPINION, I really do not care for men co-opting terms for female genitalia. I won't give examples, you've heard them, they are all distasteful to me.



Lockit -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 10:34:44 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ARIES83

I've noticed that there is a common occurrence
of the more regular posters (mainly female subs)
posting in threads where the OP is asking Male
experience specific questions.

The OP asked for the opinion of Trans people.
Not only was the question not directed at you,
and your opinion wasn't asked for, short of
asking any Trans friends of yours you have no
way of answering the question.
So whether you all understand or not is
irrelevant.

Unless you are Trans or planning on asking
someone who is Trans, nobody cares if you
understand or not.

-Aries




Ever think that someone may also be looking for some understanding when they post a question like this? So we may not get the total experience, but we can understand some part of it and could show a bit of compassion or understanding just for the hell of it. Hell... waiting for only someone the question is directed to, the OP could get very little from the thread.

Some of my friends don't know what its like to have a brain damaged son to care for... but they sure get that understanding part down pat in understanding they can't know it all, but they can sure love me up some when I need it and they often provide information I have found useful as well.

Just sayin... We all might not fit... but we can still get along and be nice once in a while.



ModTwentyOne -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 10:43:57 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ARIES83

Unless you are Trans or planning on asking someone who is Trans, nobody cares if you understand or not.

-Aries




Anyone may post in any forum. If anyone has a problem with another person posting, report the post or take it up with the poster in private.




OsideGirl -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 11:10:15 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

Lockit that does make perfect sense. I think it was the OP's phrasing that made it sound a little odd, about it being used for the same purpose as a woman uses a tampon - implying it was being used to absorb bleeding. If the OP had said 'Does anyone use a buttplug to imagine what it feels like to use a tampon' or something like that, we may have been able to have a better conversation.

That's where I was too, Athena.







itsapixie -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 12:09:51 PM)

*is a female sub* [:D]

It seems like you(OP) aren't getting many "trans" responses... But I get where you're coming from, I think. Whether it's something that turns you on sexually or if it's just something feminine you'd like to do, I'm not sure though.

What about using something like beads or something that has a string instead? A small set of beads or maybe even some super small ben wa balls with a string would be more like a tampon than a plug. Or you could go super hardcore and suffer through wearing maxi pads for almost a week.



VideoAdminChi -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 12:39:33 PM)

I have removed a number of posts for being off topic. Please stay on topic.



LadyPact -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 12:48:54 PM)

For what it's worth, this is only second hand.

Of the trans folks that I know, none of them have ever mentioned this to Me. That's not saying they may have never thought about it but it may be a case of what Hib mentioned above. The whole "treat the rectum like a vagina" thing really is terribly distasteful to a lot of women, so it probably never came up.

I think, realistically, any transgendered female has to come to the acceptance that, even if they get the surgery, they are never going to have a menstrual cycle. Most cis gender females (I hope I got that term right) would be glad not having it and all that comes with it.

I don't know if that's going to be considered off topic or not.



Missokyst -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 1:00:44 PM)

I have only had the err.. displeasure of using a tampon twice in my life. Both times the fiber grabbed my flesh and took about an hour of wrangling to get that thing out of my body. Comparing that to the feeling of a butt plug is not even possible. Butt plugs, though difficult to insert, are fairly smooth on exit. The only way I could imagine it being remotely close if it happened to be made of something that would soak up any liquid and if at the time you also had some loose bowel movement going on.
Which btw, has a similar feel in cramping that goes along with the bloody mess. In our family we used to call that the double curse, since they often happened at the same time. lol never thought about plugging up the back end with something though.
Hmm.... I wonder.



OttersSwim -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 1:01:20 PM)

I have to be honest, I have never been particularly anally (is that a word?) motivated. When I was a teenager, I did try a tampon up my bum and was shitting shreds of it out for a week (or felt like I was). Maybe I was emotionally scarred from that or something...it was...not comfortable...yea, let's leave it at that...

I was hoping I think for a sense of authenticity - that ah-ha moment that says "Yes, this must be what women feel." I chased after that for a lot of years...

These days, I try to focus on the sensations that say to me "Yes, this is what I feel and what it feels like to be really -me-."

"Really me" feels more comfortable in a female place than a male and I would be lying if I said that the trappings of femininity did not help...but for me, they are part of creating comfort in my own skin, head, and heart.

But mostly, I have given up trying to create a genuine female experience out of fantasy or imaginings that will never happen and try to focus on just having an experience that can happen, is happening. To me. [:)]



LaTigresse -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 1:17:03 PM)

Super excellent post Otters!



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